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Hi,
This is the most needed topic of the forum, as some still don't understand, LOVE let along, true or first.
You're right first love simply opens you to the feeling, it is where you discover yourself and your partner, perhaps along this path somewhere you might realize that the same person is the perfect one for you and then...true love happens, but perhaps as you move forward you realize no, we're not meant to be and the relationship weakens. That is what happened with Lakshya and Swara. It can happen with anyone.
Any person who thinks you should hang on to that kind of a weak relationship, let me tell you its like hanging on to a breaking rope while dangling over a huge chasm, that relationship will eventually fail and the longer you hang on the more hurt you'll be.
In first love you fall for what you imagine the other person is and later realize who they truly are, that's alright as it's your first time falling in love.
But in true love you love that person knowing who they really are, and only because you want that exact person in your life, with you. As you know exactly what their strength and weakness is there is seldom chance of misunderstandings and miscommunication. In true love you want that person to be happy rather than to be with you.
Now tell me how many of the above was in Laksh and how many of above is in Sanskar? That's where the answer is.
I am really against anyone who suggest its alright for a brother in law to behave this way with his sister in law no matter whatever their history is, it's total gross and gives a very bad message. I don't think anyone should back such behavior.
I don't think anyone should be insulted either. Sanskar has his share of misdeeds but he has payed his debt in full. Even criminals gets released after that, why don't let the poor guy be?
I enjoyed the post a lot, sorry for the long comment :)
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