Swara- Is she right?

I have seen people getting worked up because of the new promo and updates that maybe Swara might divorce Sanskaar. What i don't understand is why should she accept Sanskaar at this point in time just because he has stood by her or because he loves her. She has every right to make a decision at her own time. She would only be in the wrong, if she had led on Sanskaar. However, she was always upfront about her feelings with him. Even if she goes back to him to unite RagYa, i am sure she will make that clear to him. Sanskaar also had every right to oppose and not help out Swara, but he chose not to. One cannot say that Swara used him because they both were clear about what they were planning to do.

I disagree.

Originally posted by: butterfly15..

I disagree.

Swara did use him to save her mum, how else could we interpret what she did? She even told him she's only talking to him and staying with him for the mission, so again that's just using him. Yeah he agreed to it at the end to marry her, but doesn't change the fact she was only marrying him for one purpose, to save her mum.

Copy pasting the reply I posted in another similar thread😉
What provoked me is her attitude after marriage
Sanskaar fall in love with Swara on the process of amending the tangles he created ,she mocked his love , she condemned his love without any reason , she insulted his love , I was ok with her reaction then ,it was justifiable . All love are not meant to reciprocated positively . Their equation changed , she refused to continue their relationship as a friend , she openly told him that they are and will be together till the mission is on. I was okay with her stance then , cause even though the fake marriage was her idea , Sanskaar agreed to play his part willingly .
But he was equally perhaps more upset with the marriage than Swara , In between the ritual he even tried to stop the process by telling the truth , but Swara insisted him to continue with the charade. It was his marriage too , it will change his relationship status , if she was so sure that once everything is back to normal she cannot continue with this marriage , she could have allow Sanskaar to spell the truth , he already assured her that he will take the blame , wasn't it the suitable punishment for what he did with Swara .
Did he really deserved a divorcee status ?Swara the girl who can read the eyes of Sanskaar insulted him saying that "Sanskaar you cannot understand my predicament , because you must be fine with whatever changes happened in our relationship"That dialogue of her was utter nonsense and insensitive .
Finally Ragini's game is over . Swara's ultimate goal making her grown up mother and father unite is done. Now the world knows the truth . So she is in next mission making her grown up ex lover cum sister's husband to continue with the manipulated marriage . Preaching him the definition of wife and marriage meanwhile she can't reconsider the marriage in which at least one person is sane , at least one person is in love . She cannot stay in a loveless marriage .My question to Swara is ; you decided to divorce because you was forced to this relationship and you don't love your husband but you want Laksh to continue his marriage even if your sister manipulated his brainless situation.At least in your case both were aware of the reason they decided to get marry , but for Laksh and family the whole situation which led to the sudden marriage was twisted.

Who gave you the right to mock other person's love ? Who gave you the right to mock the institution of marriage?

Swara is not Mahaan , Selfishness according to my opinion is any action which is inconsiderate and which is intent to one's own satisfaction and happiness . Swara's happiness is in her idea of perfect family , whatever she did in past few days is intent to her own satisfaction and comfort. Of course , giving a chance to her marriage with the person she don't love will make her discomfortable , but she owe this much to the relationship which she insisted or if she feels that her presence as loveless wife will hurt Sanskaar , she can give divorce or even nullify marriage but don't ever use the friendship or relationship in future for your selfish reason .

Swara has right to divorce Sanskar. I don't see anything wrong in that. But then she can't ask Laksha to stay married to Ragini. That's double standard. She gets choice, so does Parinita as per her lecture to her then why not Laksha. He is in love with someone else & his marriage was also because of circumstances & scheming. If she thinks Parinita can choose whether or not to stay with adarsh as her trust is broken same argument is true for Laksh. If Laksha has to stay with Ragini because Ragini loves him then Sanskar too loves Swara & at least he is not obsessive psycho.

So anyway you look at it swara is wrong in changing rules as per her or her families convenience

Originally posted by: vids231

it's not using someone, when you've made it clear why you are getting married. Both are well aware of the situation and they went into it with open eyes. It's only using someone when the other person is totally unaware of the situation.

As for staying married, it's a very obvious and expected reaction of anyone given the circumstances. Even arranged marriages happen with consent of both of them and here both were forced into it.