she meant everything to me, but I meant nothing to her

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I know lot of discussion has happened because of the the barbaad dialogue.
First Laksh, then shomi, Shekhar and Sanskaar, all were repeating the same dialogue. But what I felt is, oh no because of this loveless marriage Sanskaar's life will be ruined. It would be really difficult to lead a life with the woman who don't reciprocate the love.It will really hurt a person if the woman misunderstands all his action which he do for her well being. It would be tough to see the woman he loves, care for her ex lover, but refuse to consider his love. And it will not be easy to live with the fact that the woman he love, got married to him, cause of compulsion, not of love and would be painful to sleep knowing that the tears in her eyes is because of this forced marriage.And it was a forced marriage for him as well , he got married ignoring his mother's plead for Swara.
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Will the trouble end if the marriage is dissolved, no, he will be agreeing to it with an aching heart because he is distancing himself from the person he loves most, but sacrifice his love for the love. At the end he will be loosing his second love.

I still can't imagine that the climax of their marriage is a tragedy.But if he is facing such a scenario, a person like Sanskaar will feel too much pain. And did he deserve all this, he had planned lots of evil things against Swara, but he was there to help her when she needs the support of a person badly.It was not Sanskaar, but Swara's sister who ultimately put the final nail in Swara's coffin.I hope Swara will not consider his love as taken for granted.
I believe living with a person I love is good, but living with the person who loves me unconditionally is magical.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Lovely post.
Second what you said. 😊
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Brilliant Post👏
TFS...
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I believe living with a person I love is good, but living with the person who loves me unconditionally is magical.
Well said...totally agree. Being in Swara's position, she has got a spouse who adores her...as he stated in a scene, he cares for her and her well being is of utmost importance to him...

But in Sanskaar position...it's very disheartening...he will keep hope that one day, Swara might reciprocate his love but till then he needs to endure the pain of knowing Swara is with him due to samchota... AT least Swara knows now that Sanskaar did not take advantage of the situation, he tried to stop the marriage, she was the one who stopped him from doing it...Small compensation...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: JazzyM

I believe living with a person I love is good, but living with the person who loves me unconditionally is magical.

Well said...totally agree. Being in Swara's position, she has got a spouse who adores her...as he stated in a scene, he cares for her and her well being is of utmost importance to him...

But in Sanskaar position...it's very disheartening...he will keep hope that one day, Swara might reciprocate his love but till then he needs to endure the pain of knowing Swara is with him due to samchota... AT least Swara knows now that Sanskaar did not take advantage of the situation, he tried to stop the marriage, she was the one who stopped him from doing it...Small compensation...



Swara is lucky to have a understanding mother , Dida and a person like Sanskaar , I mean they know Swara's pain . But in Sanskaar's case until now no one is there to understand his pain,the pain which he experience on the verge of losing his second love.

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