Since last week, the character Swara has faced lots of criticism, mostly from her own fans and from Swasan fans, I am basically a Swasan fan with inclination to Sanskaar. I love Sanskaar mainly because of the realistic portrayal. We already had numerous discussions regarding the characterization of Sanskaar, however I feel that Swara's characterization is misinterpreted by many, largely because of cv's fault . If the monologue or the thought process of Swara was focussed briefly, the situation would have been different.
Swara , the young girl who lived her childhood and adolescence without a father figure , albeit the love of her mother and dida,her family was incomplete and 3 years ago she got the family which she dreamed of and everything become normal gradually , she got father ,sister , grandmother and a lover boy too. And on the most important day in her life , on wedding day she realized that everything was superficial . She got to know the real face of her sister cum best friend , she realized that her father is just for name sake ,she discerned that the person with whom she wished to share her rest of life didn't loved her enough to trust her at crucial times. And Swara's life become incomplete again. But she fought strongly with her new friend Sanskaar, what amazed me at that point of time was her ability to trust another person within a short period of time , that too the person who helped her selfish sister to spoil her life, but she trusted her life with him ,that is why without second thoughts she planned the fake marriage with him.
Swara , the gem , didn't want to spoil Ragini's life by announcing Ragini's cruel , selfish deeds, and I will not call it saintly action cause if I was in Swara's place I would have done the same, cause I love my sister dearly. What is the use of explaining everything to everyone, because what happened is irrevocable and why should I spoil the family's image more. So Swara , gave priority to those relation which she thought can be altered , ,thus she focused on her mother-father relationship .
We should remember that all this happened in Swara's life within 10 days time , she is not a 35 year old woman to think logically all the time and take decision accordingly .It was her decision to do the marriage drama ,it was her decision to trust Sanskaar , to accept his help and to live with him day and night under 1 roof. And I think probably his past affair with Kavitha made Swara overconfident that he will remain as a friend always . women rarely fall in love with men in a short period( yes , 10 days ago Sanskaar was wearing a mask so although she met him before , she met the real Sanskaar on the day before her wedding ) So, I think the rude behaviour of Swara is actually the irritation she felt for herself , cause she might be considering herself as responsible for the soft feeling Sanskaar developed for her.
For her , the only aim is to make her parents relationship back to normal,which in her mind ,ruined by her indirectly.I cannot consider Swara as 100% selfless,cause whatever she is doing now is for a selfish reason , she wants to unite her parents ,it is for her own happiness ,her happiness lies in the beauty of the family.
My question is how will you react if you lost the support of your father sister and fianc on the same day and if you are blamed for ruining the relationship of your parents. Moreover the society you lives disgusts you for the deeds which you haven't imagine to do in your life. I would have lost my sanity but in the serial she tried everything to prove her innocence. In between her sister made her life more complicated, every minute,every day she created drama to spoil the image of Swara. And Swara realised that except her mother ,dida and Sanskaar ,all others consider her as a liar , characterless. In the middle of all this mess if your friend confessed his feeling ,how will you react? I would have blasted like Swara . I would have avoided him ,in order to make sure that my reaction is not interpreted as a positive sign. But obviously I will not fall in love with someone within 10 days after experiencing all this . She knows Laksh for months and if a person like laksh failed to trust her and understand her , how can she believe in the love of a person whose true identity is revealed only 10 days ago ?
I am sure when Swara fall in love with Sanskaar, she will love him unconditionally and she will go to any extend to protect and save her love. But give her time to introspect, to relax and to think.
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Parineeti
Chakravarti Samrat Prithviraj Chauhan
