What if they show this? - Page 2

Created

Last reply

Replies

16

Views

2k

Users

6

Likes

28

Frequent Posters

tejaswiniwenham thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Tejaswini: While I agree with each and every line put down by you, I'd just like to point out that Roopal isn't a SwaSan shipper (as far as her posts go). I think you jumped the gun a bit in your assumption. But that aside, I agree with you 300%.



Krystal I know she ships swarya and it was by no means an attack on her. Sorry roop if it seemed that way, I was more trying to just clarify that both rape and drugging someone leaves the person physically, mentally and spiritually scarred. To compare the two to judge which is worse is like comparing cutting the vein on your hands or cutting the vein on your neck to see which would bleed you out quicker. The end result is bleeding to death. So its not really something to sigh relief that he won't rape her; cos what he's doing now isn't really that much better despite of the cvs portraying it as a light hearted roofie.
Edited by tejaswiniwenham - 10 years ago
tejaswiniwenham thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: creationschhavi


i agree with you ...i dont know so much about drugging before...but after reading your post ...i can understand its too bad way ...

and also ...,if sanskaar can stoop to this much level to drug swara just for revenge and all...then he can stoop to any level ...

yes its true i want a love hate story btw swarsan and ragya but ...atleast with some purity ...but no they have all gone out of equation...

laksh trusting on ragini so much ...as he thinks she wants to unite swarya where as on the other hand she wants to seperate them... and is using all even laksh in her game of revenge and bloody love...

on the other hand whats swara mistake sanskaar should not do this to her...

dont know which route will cvs take swarya or ragya swarsan way ...

but love changes people after marriage or before marriage not matters but it changes people from positive to negative and sometimes even negative to positive ...which i have seen in serials...till now... and in real life also if we start living with a good hearted person we will eventually start adopting his or her habbits...

swarya love is true ...but end game depend on cvs thats all i can say now...

i will watch this serial whether it will be swarya sangini or swarsan ragya as i really like all the pairs ...earlier also wanted this process of swarya confessing their love and all to be shown beautifully ...but they still do hurry with it... if this serial will be tolerating for viewers and me then only i will see it...otherwise a big no...

honestly i want swarya and ragya but not this way ...but still if they reform after marriage or what way cvs will chose will decide whether to watch this show or not...hating the current track ...i am not even liking ragya so much these days ...as ragini is becoming negative but still they have chemistery if ragini reforms ...well lets see what will happen...?
watching it only for tamish and sanskaar ...helly also ... but i am tired off leads crying and in pain whether its swara laksh sanskaar or ragini ...i want them to be good persons like swarya and be happy alll...with anyone which they want but be happy atleast ...


Chaavi I know that most people, like yourself, don't really know much about the impact of drugging someone against their will, or drugs much at all, so first of thank you for being honest and for hopefully understanding what I'm about to say. saying that it would be acceptable to show swasan if snacker becomes good after marriage is, to me, the equivalent to saying that a girl being compelled to marry her rapist would be fine as long as the rapist feels remorse and is then transformed to a 'good' person and doesn't rape others anymore. IT DOESNT CHANGE WHAT HE DID. That is literally laughing in the face of every person who struggle through this harsh reality. It also implies that somehow, because she is good, swara has an obligation to 'fix' the criminal snacker and set him to redemption. wow what a reward for goodness- get tricked into marrying the guy force-feeding you narcotics. give me one reason why snacker deserves redemption and why he can't seek it himself. I understand that some people may have some strange mills and boon fantasies regarding love-hate relationships, but this is can't be an acceptable form of love-hate, snacker has repeatedly drugged swara, its a glorification of a strange form of Stockholm syndrome, being encouraged due to some farfetched fantasy people have about forced marriages.
..Roopal.. thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Trailblazer Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 10 years ago
#13
@teju di
phew..finally read ur post...
completely agree with u di...m well aware of drug impacts...m medical aspirant so have learned much in detail...but what I meant is...there are two cases of drugging someone...one is something like sangini doing nd other is to take advantage of the girl..
what sanskar is set to do is to spoil swara's image...but her virginity is not at all at his target...these two are different paths of reaching the destination...but he have taken the first path...
secondly what u have seen around if one wants then going above drug will be preferred but a girl raped sees the dead end for herself...
i used to say sanskar can be justified...but thats an old story...after the mms thing nothing is justified...for the obvious reasons of swara being innocent...
he was a guy wrenched with pain previously...but he proved himself an evil...
i can never support swasan anyway...nd m terribly shocked how people are ready to accept...no doubt about varun helly fans but few people giving nod for having ragya...everyone just want their priorities at any cost(me too)...
agreeing to previous post of Krystal, such sins deserve legal actions...

..Roopal.. thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Trailblazer Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 10 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Tejaswini: While I agree with each and every line put down by you, I'd just like to point out that Roopal isn't a SwaSan shipper (as far as her posts go). I think you jumped the gun a bit in your assumption. But that aside, I agree with you 300%.



thanks
honestly speaking I actually felt myself at swasan fan place and also at sanskar's place..

@teju di
its OK di...
at first I felt it pointing at me but then realised that using YOU is a normal way of writing posts
I do the same
so no worries
laila.zkhan thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#15
Sanskaar has done nothing to prove himself worthy of marrying any girl - forget the victim of his childish and baseless crimes. But I want you to forget the show for a moment.

Can I just say well done to Tejaswini for making your post? I'm not sure what drug use means to you but I can just feel that it affects you to a great extent. And to write about it would mean thinking and/or reliving moments which are better forgotten for mental sanity. Unfortunately, a TV serial, meant for entertainment purposes, is the trigger behind these unwelcome thoughts (drug use). I, myself have underestimated the impact of drug use until your post - call it the lack of media attention over female abuse crimes, I never understood the gravity of the crime. Now, that we've heard you, I understand that there must be other viewers like you and they too may share similar sentiments. There is no way these "creative" people can have such blatant disregard for viewers (be it any (majority, minority)) in order too benefit their show - I don't know what to do in such a situation other than just ignore them. They, their misleading show, their disturbing stories, their childish characters can just snuff it - we will give them the attention when they show something worth giving attention.

If I'm not wrong, I think you have a baby on the way - congratulations but please do not let such discussions disturb you emotionally or mentally in such a condition. It's just not worth it.

Take care Tejaswini.


Edited by laila.zkhan - 10 years ago
..Roopal.. thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Trailblazer Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 10 years ago
#16
hey guys
plz don't quote long posts
it slows down the page loading...
441597 thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#17
I give a ditto to Laila's post. Tejas, its not worth stressing yourself out over a TV show, that too during such a delicate condition as pregnancy.

I'd, however, make one request of you: Could you open a seperate topic under the heading "Members please read: About the use of drugs in this show", and copy-paste your post there. I'd have done it myself, but thought it'd be better if you did it. Viewers by and large need to be made to be aware of the ugly truth regarding drugs, that its not the light-hearted "toy" to play pranks that is being projected in the show. Maybe somebody from the Creative team can take notice.

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".