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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha

To me it looked like a weak move meghna held it all this while because of mama dearest and sharda was not very open about these things i remember when choti mami told her that meghna might in a relationship sharda didn't take it nicely so i don't think she would have asked meghna to go ahead in any circumstances before the actual wedding her shock when naina told her about it proved that

Meghna most probably misinterpreted the entire thing

Lol it wasn't a literal go ahead... it was a metaphorical one. Sharda was basically giving Meghna the go ahead to love Kunal. This happened as a natural expression of her love for Kunal.

Yesterday you mentioned that you don't think Meghna is very expressive about her love.. and to me this was a stronger expression of love than anything Kunal has ever done. Because it put her in such a vulnerable position. I think its a testament to her love for Kunal that she trusted him that much.

Edited by malikakas - 8 years ago

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Adhya

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: malikakas

Lol it wasn't a literal go ahead... it was a metaphorical one. Sharda was basically giving Meghna the go ahead to love Kunal. This happened as a natural expression of her love for Kunal.

Yesterday you mentioned that you don't think Meghna is very expressive about her love.. and to me this was a stronger expression of love than anything Kunal has ever done. Because it put her in such a vulnerable position. I think its a testament to her love for Kunal that she trusted him that much.

I mentioned it today in our morning chat 😛

Nd this way of expression is fine but she cannot keep it to just this she has to do more

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha
Well naina has not yet come to this conclusion of "love" yet and neither has karan but they will reach to it soon

But until then how is Naina fighting for her rights as a "wife", Swabhiman?

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha

I mentioned it today in our morning chat 😛

Nd this way of expression is fine but she cannot keep it to just this she has to do more

For me it was last night😛.

I would love to see more. But I feel like Meghna's trust had moved backwards a bit after Kunal 'allowed' the NaiRan marriage to happen.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: malikakas

But until then how is Naina fighting for her rights as a "wife", Swabhiman?

Well in real world arrangef marriage ratio is more than love marriage and not all this marriages leads to stage of eternal love many work most on respect understanding and nairan have already reached their stage

Plus just Becoz naina has not realize her love doesn't mean she cannot fight for her rights has a wife and it doesn't give karan a right to chamge his stands from time to time kabhi ha kabhi na

Plus naina clearly mentioned that fighting for her rights is related to her swabhiman and not her mothers

Edited by adhyakumarijha - 8 years ago

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sgc68

@sgc68

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Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Exactly. Naina has legal rights from the marriage whether Karan accepts the marriage or not.

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: sgc68
Exactly. Naina has legal rights from the marriage whether Karan accepts the marriage or not.

Legal rights are in court. if Karan doesn't want to be with her... no one can force him. Naina can demand compensation though.

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha

Well in real world arrangef marriage ratio is more than love marriage and not all this marriages leads to stage of eternal love many work most on respect understanding and nairan have already reached their stage

Plus just Becoz naina has not realize her love doesn't mean she cannot fight for her rights has a wife and it doesn't give karan a right to chamge his stands from time to time kabhi ha kabhi na

Plus naina clearly mentioned that fighting for her rights is related to her swabhiman and not her mothers

But Karan has never agreed to the marriage. He may want Naina's friendship for life from an emotional standpoint.. but he has never accepted this marriage fully.

In fact I'd argue its Naina who is changing the terms because she never negated it whenever karan told her that eventually she would have to leave. Karan made his terms clear. It was always Naina was covertly trying to change his mind. I am not saying there was anything wrong with that. But its not really fair to say Karan was messing her about.

The problem is Naina first said its about her mother's swabiman. The problem is the way the dialogue was constructed. In fact, Meghna, Shrada's and Naina's dialogues didn't make sense.

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sgc68

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Posted: 8 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: malikakas

Legal rights are in court. if Karan doesn't want to be with her... no one can force him. Naina can demand compensation though.

And so he needs to divorce her and give her alimony. Til the divorce, Naina is still his wife.

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#30

Most arranged marraiges are based on respect etc.. that's fine. But the foundation of this was emotional blackmail and duplicity. Not to mention a disease that prevents a normal marital life. In most arranged marriages they start out with that hope that they can eventually get to that consummate love. But here their relationship is already handicapped.

The problem is Naina is not clear about why she wants that relationship. Just to fulfill her patni dharam? Technically hindu marraiges are consecrated to produce children. This marriage is already going to prevent her from fulling her "dharam". Karan opened the wedding knot. He didn't even tie the manglasutra. So there has to be something more that makes her feel so strongly about staying in this relationship.

I guess I am a little bit offended by the glorification of patni dharam when you've been duped and generally treated poorly. Talking about regressive concepts, to me that's regressive. There is nothing wrong with wanting to make a relationship work. But both people need to want to make the relationship work.

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