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anaamica

@anaamica

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Posted: 8 years ago

I was reading another thread on this forum on how Naina convinced Sharada to let her marry Karan because Meghana had already crossed limits before marriage. Meghana doesn't know that Sharada knows, but that is irrelevant.

We get such a big dose of Sharada's sanskaar all the time. Why didn't Sharada confront or even question Meghana about why she slept with her husband before wedding? Does her sanskaar allow her daughter to do this?

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sgc68

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Posted: 8 years ago

I think of the two sisters, Naina is more adherent to the spirit of Shardha's teachings. I was rather surprised that Meghna went forward, since, when all is said and done, she is from a traditional family

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Ammy

@--Amulya--

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Posted: 8 years ago

I thought for once hell with Sharda and Naina, Meghna got slapped when she isn't in the wrong... these mahantha people don't know how to treat real worse people but they resort to imparting gyan and punishing their family member who isn't even that wrong.

Regarding Meghna's pre-marital sex, I think Sharda even as a mom doesn't hold such rights to confront her, sex purely personal and no third person has a right to say in it. Both Sharda-Naina showed maturity in dealing with it.

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Alia Sehgal

@ItsAlia

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sgc68
I think of the two sisters, Naina is more adherent to the spirit of Shardha's teachings. I was rather surprised that Meghna went forward, since, when all is said and done, she is from a traditional family

Sharda only told Meghna the day kunal finds his name on her mehendi, they will have a new beginning..They will become one. That's y when Kunal found his name she remembered what her mom told her...she didn't hesitate to go ahead with him. 😉

IF you watched the previous episodes before Mehendi, whenever Kunal asked for a hug, Meghna always refused.

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Alia Sehgal

@ItsAlia

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: --Amulya--
I thought for once hell with Sharda and Naina, Meghna got slapped when she isn't in the wrong... these mahantha people don't know how to treat real worse people but they resort to imparting gyan and punishing their family member who isn't even that wrong.

Regarding Meghna's pre-marital sex, I think Sharda even as a mom doesn't hold such rights to confront her, sex purely personal and no third person has a right to say in it. Both Sharda-Naina showed maturity in dealing with it.

@Bold Word👏

Since topic maker is talking about Sanskar, i have another question please clear it for me.

How not going back to Bhundi will save their so called swabhimaan ? How staying in Jaipur will save their swabhimaan ?
Also yesterday..Naina asked driver to stop the car and she was opening door without informing her mom where she is going. What was that?😆

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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 8 years ago

It would have become extremely awkward between them if sharda would have asked and i don't think that was right time to do so with all the mess around

Another reason was that meghna was not in her senses at that time so maybe that y didn't asked??

Plus naina not leaving for bundi is her choice she has some question that is necessary to ask so i don't from where does sanskaar comes in between??

Can not for once people keeping everything aside and try to understand naina s pov the biggest decision of her life a.k.a marriage was taken on demand just to satsify somebody s ego and now when her hubby broke it even without asking her she just want to find her feet in this mess

Plus its not like she is begging anybody for anything just wants to find her way forward

And naina not going to bundi hurting sharda s swabhiman is probably part of her learning from childhood another messed uo lesson by sharda ma

We all know that out of the two sis naina follows her mother more she is her mama s blind follower

Sharda s every word is like command for naina which she follows with utmost sincerity and she doesn't care what image she form while following her mamma s words progressive degresive submissive nothing matters

Edited by adhyakumarijha - 8 years ago

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Ammy

@--Amulya--

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ItsAlia

@Bold Word👏

Since topic maker is talking about Sanskar, i have another question please clear it for me.

How not going back to Bhundi will save their so called swabhimaan ? How staying in Jaipur will save their swabhimaan ?
Also yesterday..Naina asked driver to stop the car and she was opening door without informing her mom where she is going. What was that?😆

Yes, if Naina is to prove her swabhimaan then she should have stayed at the Chauhan house itself claiming her rights as Karan's legal wife, I find it silly that she stays in jaipur and as per the olv's she goes back to where Chauhan members are accessible. In real life if we face such a situation we aren't to run away, we have to stay back and prove our worth or desert them completely once and for all. Naina left but still she is hanging around or she din't leave the family but chose to live separately. I'm unable to trace out, both seem to be same but have vast difference.

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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 8 years ago

Naina is staying in jaipur and is going to fight for her

rights and that is what matters right looking forward to this tracj karan will take her bacj in that house and will even take a stand for there relationship nd will give it back to his father for all his nasty words

Edited by adhyakumarijha - 8 years ago

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sgc68

@sgc68

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Posted: 8 years ago

Naina going back to Bundi means a failed marriage with implications of taunts for herself and her mother.

She wants answers. If Karan's condition was contagious, how come no one in the family has picked it up not even her who shares his room.

She wants her rights. NK demanded that she and Karan be married. He cannot now support his son in asking her to leave. As Naina said marriage is not a game that you can decide to stop playing and tell you friend to go home.

She wants her dignity. She has done no wrong for her to be told to leave if she didn't want to. She will want to establish her own space where she can live with her head held high not as the daughter who has nowhere else to go or the daughter in law who has to beg to stay.

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anaamica

@anaamica

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: ItsAlia

Sharda only told Meghna the day kunal finds his name on her mehendi, they will have a new beginning..They will become one. That's y when Kunal found his name she remembered what her mom told her...she didn't hesitate to go ahead with him. 😉

IF you watched the previous episodes before Mehendi, whenever Kunal asked for a hug, Meghna always refused.

Bold: I am sure Sharada didn't mean it that way 😉

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