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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

@bold.
totally concur.

well indian tele serials is all about hope and a little prayerπŸ˜†.

i would hate it if meghna turns black though. the girl is stunning shaded. hope her character is handled well since she will be sporting less than pristine white shades.

and i am really looking forward for Karan and naina's story. it has potential to be a hatke one. and i am all for hatke stories.



Indian TV involves a constant prayer to the Maker (both THE Maker and the creatives) to please not ruin anything. πŸ˜† Though this is a Rajshri show and they are by and large okay.

I am willing to take whatever shades they want to show provided its written well. Meghna has a lot of potential as a character and they really have the opportunity to make or break her. Let's see where they take her.

Karan and Naina are love!!!! I am really really looking forward to their story as well. :)

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Posted: 8 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: -Namita-

Aah Nimmi!! You know what I think. You write out all I feel as my bullet points lack a bit. πŸ˜†

Hope to see you here more.



nami.
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great minds think alikeπŸ˜†.
hey you write beautifully hu.

i would love to be around more here. but as you know i am too obsessed with my true blue obsession right now. besides i am very very casual viewer of this serial.

you girls have fun. loving all the lovely posts and wonderful in-depth analysis. i will be your resident stalker.😳

edit: second your thoughts sona.πŸ‘πŸΌ. ditto.


Edited by Banjaaran. - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#43
lol read all the povs..
but moral of the story is, if what happened didn't happen..then the show wouldn't happen...this was the plot, Meghna against family and wants to break it, Naina wants to hold it together and protect it and All because of Sarda's swabhimaan, which both daughters took differently or to be more precise Sarda made Naina take the different path or she would have just followed her Di...and to make this happen they did all this drama...the main story starts from Monday...πŸ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Africanqueenkel

Hey I have come to terms that we always end up in same places. πŸ˜†
Not just an earful, but a three week cemema...

Exactly... She is there begging people who can't even respect her daughter in front of her then what about behind closed doors... How will they treat your children...



Tell me where OTT drama is happening, I will come. πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

Meghna the only sensible character?
can't say i agree with that. for all her maa ka swabhimaan chants what has she done to uphold that till vidaai time? i found her character promising from the promos. a girl with sass and spunk. how refreshing.

and then she goes to marry the first guy her mom selects for her.
for all her high level degrees is she any different from goan ki chori who has to married off after coming of age to the first available guy to utharo bhoj from family's seena?

barring few odd flashes of rebellion what has she done for her ma in this entire marriage scenario? for a girl so high on intellect and intelligence she didn't score much in observational skills.

having sex before marriage is no sin. but Sharda's moral values prohibit that. meghna may think that she is married to Kunal and hence 'ek hai' is alright. but that marriage holds no value in front of law. ok let the doli go back empty. no bowing down to anyaay. approach law and all but what if she falls pregnant meanwhile? what would be the status to the child? and her family?

that premarital sex step of hers tilted the scales for naina and sharda.

so meghna too is responsible for the fiasco that has happened.

the only true blue innocent victim here is .. karan.
naina too is being selfishly sacrificial. her intentions are right though.
but karan?

Sangeita is slaying as meghna. and her vows and ulte phere are fierce. and i want her to shake the foundations of NK's empire and Sandhya's rule. but can't give her clean chit too.

neither this serial nor the characters are perfect examples of swabhimaan in whatsoever ways.
all are flawed. everyone messed up one way or the other.
it is how the story proceeds from here will shape the characters.



absolutely agree with everything you say. I am born & brought up out of India but here too
sex b4 marriage is taboo. most ppl do it but our elders do frown on it. In fact consummating during the marriage rasams is unheard of. I mean we are told strictly that after hurdee rasam you must not leave the house. What did Megna do? She went and consumated her marriage. If that private exchange of vows was all was needed for her to accept Kunal as her hubbie then why put her mom through all that expenses. She didnt bother asking where all the money came to take care of all these expenses. As for Sharda she was making fuss about alcohol served to bharati
she probably felt ashamed when she found out her daughter had already antiicipated her marriage vows. I am not saying what sharda did & felt is wrong but we have to understand that Sharda is from a small village
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cinderella100

absolutely agree with everything you say. I am born & brought up out of India but here too
sex b4 marriage is taboo. most ppl do it but our elders do frown on it. In fact consummating during the marriage rasams is unheard of. I mean we are told strictly that after hurdee rasam you must not leave the house. What did Megna do? She went and consumated her marriage. If that private exchange of vows was all was needed for her to accept Kunal as her hubbie then why put her mom through all that expenses. She didnt bother asking where all the money came to take care of all these expenses. As for Sharda she was making fuss about alcohol served to bharati
she probably felt ashamed when she found out her daughter had already antiicipated her marriage vows. I am not saying what sharda did & felt is wrong but we have to understand that Sharda is from a small village



thank you Cinderella. totally agree with your views too.

actually lot many communities frown upon pre-marital sex for traditional, cultural and religious reasons. i personally don't.
a consenting adult, 21 century, modern days.. no big deal.
BUT the person in the question is Meghna. for her it should have been a big deal because..
1. Her mother's upbringing and moral values forbid that.
2. her mamas would be devastated. maamis will go berserk.
3. NK and Sandhya will brutally trash Sharda's values and upbringing. never mind their own son is active participant. because society blames only girls.
4. the conservative society they are part of .. will treat her family as social pariah.
5. what if she falls pregnant? worst nightmare of a parent. their child having a child out of wedlock. (her 'vow marriage' holds no value in front of law).

i can write thesis on Sharda and her follies. but when push came to shove she didn't want to sacrifice naina. it it the 'pre-marital sex' step of meghna that titled the scales for her.

so i can't take her 'ma- ka swabhimaan stance seriously. for she herself did nothing much to uphold that till now.
to think of it.. i don't have any flying effs to give to Sharda's swabhimaan either. because Sharda herself cared two tuppence for it.

the whole premises of the serial is wrong.
no IIT'ian (and IIM to boot) worth their degrees will have 'getting married to first person available' on top priority list. their fist priority will be career, financial stability or phds. ditto for their family.

no family which believes in daughters education and independence will willingly give away their daughters to the family which comprises of NK.

and the whole meaning of Swabhimaan that this serial harps upon is wrong.
swabhimaan is NOT about degrees, financial independence and all.
our grandmas and lot many beautiful mothers and aunts were homemakers. lived a wonderful fulfilling lives. with dignity and love.
there are women who are educated and earn well. and then they allow themselves to be treated like doormats by their in-laws and husbands.

Swabhimaan is all about how you chose to live your life. holding your head high. your dignity intact. your values and ethics at right place. you respecting your own self first. because if you don't.. no one else will.

so no this serial as of now has got it all wrong.

but ... the characters and the actors are really good. so keeping all the logic aside i am curious to see their journey.

Edit: been too harsh on meghna againπŸ˜†. sorry got carried away.


Edited by Banjaaran. - 8 years ago

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