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Banjaaran25 thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Meghna the only sensible character?
can't say i agree with that. for all her maa ka swabhimaan chants what has she done to uphold that till vidaai time? i found her character promising from the promos. a girl with sass and spunk. how refreshing.

and then she goes to marry the first guy her mom selects for her.
for all her high level degrees is she any different from goan ki chori who has to married off after coming of age to the first available guy to utharo bhoj from family's seena?

barring few odd flashes of rebellion what has she done for her ma in this entire marriage scenario? for a girl so high on intellect and intelligence she didn't score much in observational skills.

having sex before marriage is no sin. but Sharda's moral values prohibit that. meghna may think that she is married to Kunal and hence 'ek hai' is alright. but that marriage holds no value in front of law. ok let the doli go back empty. no bowing down to anyaay. approach law and all but what if she falls pregnant meanwhile? what would be the status to the child? and her family?

that premarital sex step of hers tilted the scales for naina and sharda.

so meghna too is responsible for the fiasco that has happened.

the only true blue innocent victim here is .. karan.
naina too is being selfishly sacrificial. her intentions are right though.
but karan?

Sangeita is slaying as meghna. and her vows and ulte phere are fierce. and i want her to shake the foundations of NK's empire and Sandhya's rule. but can't give her clean chit too.

neither this serial nor the characters are perfect examples of swabhimaan in whatsoever ways.
all are flawed. everyone messed up one way or the other.
it is how the story proceeds from here will shape the characters.



Edited by Banjaaran. - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

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but karan?

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Just wanted to say I loved this!!! Selfishly sacrificial. Such beautiful, oxymoron -ish wordplay!!! Hits the nail exactly on the head.

Sorry if this appears random. πŸ˜† I just really liked it!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cutegirlsona



Just wanted to say I loved this!!! Selfishly sacrificial. Such beautiful, oxymoron -ish wordplay!!! Hits the nail exactly on the head.

Sorry if this appears random. πŸ˜† I just really liked it!!



thank you so much Sona😳.

actually barring Karan everyone is being selfish here with varied shades.

Sharda:
meghna first. naina.. oh i am sorry for you. but no can do.

Naina:
di and mamma.. that is it.

Meghna:
Mamma ka swabhimaan yo!

Kunal:
My brother first. naina.. oh maybe not fair to her.. but hey she will be good for my bro.

NK:
me first. world who?

khyati:
anyone but naina.. karan who cares what he needs or wants.

ditto for the rest of the family. everyone with their own ideas and ideals. thinking about their own families.

Karan.. the man everyone thinks and treats as weirdo; this and that.. is the ONLY one who is thinking about BOTH the families.
Kunal AND Meghna AND Sharda.

an absolutely flawed man showing more empathy, understanding and perception than the sane and sensible ones.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Banjaaran.

thank you so much Sona😳.

actually barring Karan everyone is being selfish here with varied shades.

Sharda:
meghna first. naina.. oh i am sorry for you. but no can do.

Naina:
di and mamma.. that is it.

Meghna:
Mamma ka swabhimaan yo!

Kunal:
My brother first. naina.. oh maybe not fair to her.. but hey she will be good for my bro.

NK:
me first. world who?

khyati:
anyone but naina.. karan who cares what he needs or wants.

ditto for the rest of the family. everyone with their own ideas and ideals. thinking about their own families.

Karan.. the man everyone thinks and treats as weirdo; this and that.. is the ONLY one who is thinking about BOTH the families.
Kunal AND Meghna AND Sharda.

an absolutely flawed man showing more empathy, understanding and perception than the sane and sensible ones.



I agree with you. I really felt for Karan in the entire fiasco. About Naina, she does have tunnel vision when it comes to her family. But we are all hoping that she will come to realize what she has actually brought about. That's true for all characters actually. Their actions are selfish but in some ways understandable, some more than others obviously. But they all will grow and see the bigger picture as well. Or at least, that's what I hope. πŸ˜†
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Karan too is flawed.He dont have the guts to stand infront of his father.Karan saw everything what his father did.,even then he made his father win by agreeing for the marriage..Karan knew he is not normal.he should have talked with the girl and inform about his conditions..Or he should have informed dadaji about the drama his father made and let daaji take a decision...its his inability to speak or stand for right ,lead to his marriage
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mittykutty

Karan too is flawed.He dont have the guts to stand infront of his father.Karan saw everything what his father did.,even then he made his father win by agreeing for the marriage..Karan knew he is not normal.he should have talked with the girl and inform about his conditions..Or he should have informed dadaji about the drama his father made and let daaji take a decision...its his inability to speak or stand for right ,lead to his marriage



Bang on mittyπŸ‘
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mittykutty

Karan too is flawed.He dont have the guts to stand infront of his father.Karan saw everything what his father did.,even then he made his father win by agreeing for the marriage..Karan knew he is not normal.he should have talked with the girl and inform about his conditions..Or he should have informed dadaji about the drama his father made and let daaji take a decision...its his inability to speak or stand for right ,lead to his marriage



exactly he is too flawed.
i am not saying he is gutsy.

what i am saying is that he is the ONLY one who thought about BOTH the families.

he was NOT being selfish or having any agendas here. rest each and every character has some or other reasons.
swabhimaan.
abhimaan.
maryada.
love for their siblings and family... of their OWN.

Hence i find him the victim. because he had no choice here. talking to his father or calling dadajior taking any stand.. he is incapable of doing so because of his own issues.
he is not the most sane and sensible one going by his issues.. but at that moment he rose above all.
that's it.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Namita-

I take it a little differently. They weren't concerned that M had done the deed. It's because it showed how much M loved K. That she took that step. We know M doesn't love easily and she loves K very much.
I guess for a mom, daughter's sex life is always going to be shocking.
My take on why Naina chose to make the decision to marry Karan.

I get naina's reason, but the kept on flashing on her saying that M did the did. Naina has taken away her sisiter's choice. We all know M wouldn't want this, she would say no. Don't do this especially if it's for me.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Enigmatic-



She slept with her own husband what was wrong in that ? It was not like that marriage didn't happen.
I agree S & N were more worried than M πŸ˜† πŸ˜•


Yes they were, and yes she had Sex so what??... Does that mean send her to a place that heat can't even respect her in front of people. What about behind the scenes.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Namita-



I know exactly what you mean. I than wonder, why the heck am I watching this and wasting my time. It's just weird. I blame my mom for it. She sucks me into all this. πŸ˜†


I blame the actors and my aunt... 😑

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