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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well... I think all of us are going by this phase or have gone by this phase where your mom or dad say NO TALKING TO BOYS. Most of us think at that time that what yaar.. why does my mom / my dad not understand that they are only my friends and nothing more than that. I've got two simple question one for us teenagers, and the second one for our parents. Do WE not try to understand why our parents don't want us to talk to boys?
Are our parents too harsh with this no talking to boys rule?
In my opinion, which might be a bit more inclined towards us teenagers cause I myself am one, I think parents should let us talk and hang out with guys as long as none of the girls cross their limits. Parents should trust the values that they have given to us and most importantly they should trust US, their children.
I understand that a mom or a dad can be worried about what their daughter might be doing while with her guy friends but if they themselves have given us good values then I think they shouldn't be worried as I think none of the teenagers would want to disappoint their parent even though they don't express themselves cause at this age ego and all that stuff is "important" so maybe they wouldn't tell their parents this little sentence : "mom, dad you can trust me" ... but believe me just telling them those little things can help a lot already.
I think if parents know our friends, if they've met them, if they've talked to them and they have an idea of what kind of person that friend is (a guy here as SG is dealing with this no boy/girl friendship track) then they probably will let their daughter hang out with that person as they will know who he is and the trust factor will be there even more.
I'm really glad SG is having this track cause it is every Pakistani/Indian girl's problem... wether their parents will allow them to have guy friends... if they will let them hang out with those guy friends.
What I also love is that Mumma and Puppa Guggal's point of view is correctly shown in the show as well as Suvreen's.

PS. I am just loving Annie-Naro-Suvreen-Yuvi-Rathi-Mannu's friendship.. This little gang is just sooo cute 😍

PPS. I haven't re-read the post so sorry for any kind of mistake 😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very well written post .Liked reading it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sometimes my papa also restricts me for hanging out with boys...
Bt my mumma ...she is the best...she trusts me and let me go out with those guys who are good and whom she knows ...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bt suvreen shud not lie to her parents for going out with boys...she shud respect HER mother's trust and find some other way...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Evn ma parents don't let me talk to boys buh I do buh yh I don't cross ma limits ofcourse
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i m nt tryin to be 'da mahila morcha mascot' 😛but usualy girls are more trustworthy than boys. its a travesty that in our society parents try to reign in girls instead of watchin out for the boys. i mean look at SG, the girls take the boys as their 'good frndz' but what are da boys doin...mannu wants naro as his gf..nd in da clg rain sequence mannu nd rathi made da girls do 'sexy dance' nd 'head massage'!!😲. what kind of frndz do dt?😡..so much for "frndships" duh😒
but nowadays girls seem to thnk if there iz no boy in a grp its no fun!!a total misconception.girls shud come out of this masochistic complex nd hv fun hanging out wid gals coz Galz Rock
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hmmm

I think you are right
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Iluvvirman

Evn ma parents don't let me talk to boys buh I do buh yh I don't cross ma limits ofcourse


my parents dn't stop me 4rm talking with guys ...bt they dn't encourage it either...wenever i talk about any they jst listen my clearly , whts m gonna say thts why i jst dn't tell thm anything...bt ab toh saari situation hi different hai ...cauz one of the best clg near my home is girls only..n here i am...hehe
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Posted: 13 years ago
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totaly agree dear. if 1 remain in limits n hv gud compani its all well bt i think one shouldnt lie to them.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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NICE POST
U CHOSE A NICE TOPIC !!!!!!!!!!

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