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Posted: 9 years ago
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I didn't watch day before (29th), being too disgusted to want to continue. But a friend of mine asked my opinion on yesterday's epi, and when I said I hadn't watched, demanded I see it, so I did, but with few expectations. I read all the posts praising Pankaj and Chandresh Singh, and I agree with those, but I had issues with some aspects, and I am not 100% thrilled with the episode.

Yes, I loved Pankaj, I loved all he said, I loved his delivery, which was strong and neither rude nor lacking getting his point across. However, I wish he had also added that the witch particularly went to visit him in jail and pushed him over the edge re his suicide bid. I want to see how Suhani reacts to that. And Yuvraj.

But Suhani? She came to BH after everything and hugged psycho, forgave her (like we'd expected), bad enough. Any real person would have a great deal of anger over what that girl did, but since she was going off to some supposed rehab (oh God, she's coming back?) we have to grit our teeth and bear it. But as if it wasn't enough that she didn't talk of leaving on her own volition, she didn't even look particularly like she wanted to leave when Pankaj said his bit. Once again BQ blamed and insulted her, she's seen the result of where that hatred led--her beloved father rotting in jail on a trumped-up molestation charge, driven to attempt suicide--but she's willing to stay? Has she forgotten the slap? Has the forgotten the insults heaped on her father? Has she forgotten he almost DIED? Shame on you, Suhani.

And Bhavna, cut in Lata's mould, she looked aghast at he thought of leaving BH. And all the talk of how Pankaj's daughters worked so hard to save him? Not. It was Suhani --along with Yuvraj--who did everything. Bhavna stayed and catered to BH and comforted her crying mommy. She overheard dadi talking of manufacturing evidence, but all she did was tell Suhani. She didn't even go to get Pankaj released. I don't have any beef with Bhavna, just setting the record straight.

And sorry, du, whoever was impressed by Yuvraj. He seemed to lack fire in his attempt to stop her. The hand grabbing did nothing for me. This may hurt many of you, but through most of this track, even as he supported Su, he's been in best-friend mode, not acting like her husband. There has been not an iota of showing him missing her or feeling her pain. What he has shown is that he trusted Pankaj and he was sorry about what Suhani and her family were going through, but above all, he wanted psych's ''real'' culprit caught. His passion only came through when Suhani got psych to confess, and it was directed at accusing Suhani. That too I could let go as an aberration, but where was even the hint of feeling sorry? But I know, the writers are blatant mcps, and prolly think it's fine. Where is his anger at BQ? Why is what she did barely mentioned?

And whoever said Lata finally spoke up today, let me correct you. Lata's first comment was to the tune of 'It's all over now, why say all this.' After all, being married comes first. Addressing humiliation and wrongdoing is a far second. So, again, I differ. I was not particularly impressed with her telling Pratima would anyone like their daughters being repeatedly humiliated, but small mercies, I guess.

Saurabh and Sharad may not have done much, but somehow come through seeming halfway sensible and right in their responses.

Pratima. To me she partly redeemed herself in the episode I didn't watch, where she told BQ SHE is responsible for psycho's state. Especially since everyone seems to have forgotten to talk about the poison BQ and her cohorts, including Loots, had been dripping into psych's ears. In yesterday's episode, I mostly liked Pratima's reactions and words, but the last bit was quite out of character. It was a great dialogue, I applaud the words, but it was out of character. The only thing that gets me to accept it was that once before, at the time Suhani was to marry Rohan, she has forgotten her selfishness and actually advised Suhani to do something that was supposedly right for Su, rather than for Yuvraj.

And Suhani, why ask Pratima of all people? Your father is the person you most respect, your love for Yuvraj is pulling at you to stay and continue being a doormat, and you ask advice from Pratima? (I was looking at Lata in the background, relegated to bystander while her daughter asked advice from her mother-in-law. NOT that I think Lata is at all the right person to ask.) Is it that like Yuvraj once asked Pratima why she hadn't asked him to bring Su back, Suhani was hoping for Pratima to stop her?

I do NOT want BQ to bring the girls back. It is ridiculous and total BS. After everything, what sense does it make for Yuvraj to mouth those words?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I find myself agreeing with you on so many points...I watched todays episode but once again everything they do always falls short...It is so frustrating that they have failed to grasp somw very basic things and a ruining this programm...it is so annoying pointing out the same silly issues over and over

Suhani and Yuvis relatiinship right now is back to best friend...preconfession time...absolutely no passion there...its like the writers have forgotten that they had moved the couple forward in this relationship and they are now completely one as a couple...right now the idea of separation should solicite more than just one hand grab from Yuvi..infact even the first time she said she was leaving BH until her Dad was proven innocent his reaction should have been explosive but no it was no where to be seen...they had just been intimate like two or so days ago and the idea of her leaving their house should have upset him...after she left even with them playing detective not once did either one of them seem to notice that they were not living together...some kind of indication that they actaully missed each other was actually needed

Suhani...they are completely ruining as a character...this separation should have come from her not her father...and all that forgiving Gauri is just BS no one however good should have reacted that way after just one day. Her taking all Dadis insults also so annoying...I mean even if you are trying to respect your elders...you can politely tell them to suck on one if they are absolute nobs like Dadi.

Bhavna and Lata dont count much at the moment as they go where the wind blows...when her Dad was in jail and she was serving dinner while listening to insults from Ragmen and Adi...that wrote Bhavna off as a character.

Prats...they can not seem to decide what she is supposed to be...all her supporting Suhani blah blahh blah mean nothing since Dadi is still allowed to talk nonsense when clearly Prats is very clear on the fact that it is all Dadis fault...not to mention she knows about all Dadis previous plots and schemes...

Pankaj was good today he made some good points but again they just stopped shortm...everytime Dadi opened her mouth he should have had a comeback...not just mention some things...I do like the fact that when Yuvi opened his mouth he shut him down asking him that even with all the support he was giving Suhani... Suhani was still kicked out the house.

I do not understand why the writers are afraid to have any of the characters question Dadi...today when she was accusing Suhani and saying all sorts of dillusional crap...no one actually pointed out her part in all the family problems.

Suhani needed to have left the house on her on accord...but once again she proved that her status ii the relationahip between her and Yuvi is that she is the inferior one...since he has bestowed on her his love how dare she not put up with insults and illtreatment just to be with him.

Precap...Yuvi asking Dadi to go and get Su and Bhavna back is just another piece of idiotic writing...even having listened to Dadis speech and her behaviour to Pankaj Yuvi still does not get it...its not a matter of getting them back to the house so everything can go on as before until Dadi plans another hateful incident...what would make sense is Yuvi not wanting his wife to live under the same roof as someone who carries that much hate for her...if he was sooo in love his focus would be on protecting his wife...wether that means punishiig Dadi so she thinks twice before creating issues or leaving BH...and for gods sake when are they going to make him tell Dadi not to call her ehh Ladhki
Edited by AfrigalYuvani - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nooo...not impressed but I liked it. It wasn't good enough or even strong enough but I liked that little moment :)

I'm mighty glad I have not watched the preceding episodes... So I could enjoy this episode... Yeah, took the easy way out like our creatives :) ... And I plan not to watch them either... At least I can bear the show longer.

And agree with most of your points... Even I could not understand how the brothers have not gone back to hating the bat given she was the reason Gauri is again going away from them!!! And a lot more... which you and Afri have rightly ranted!

I'll just say one thing here, if this track fails to bring out the fire in Yuvraj and human in Suhani... there is no point watching this dragfest anymore.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Same rant Ani and Afri..I too wasnt impressed much by him yesterday..There was some factor lacking in him but the energy of the episode was good..But why he fought with Pankaj is even now a wonder for me
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with ur most of the point...
Dis track... Acc 2 me Yuvi shld do smthng... Mostly he behaves as a frnd ... He shld b fully 100% husband...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ani,i agree with you on most of it..
Yuvraj...I was really frustrated when he said "dadi" in a normal tone, when that BQ was insulting Pankaj and Su...And even more,when Pratima held dadi responsible,while he was just staring both of them in yesterday's episode
He's back to his dadi-mode i guess..
I mean the way he held her hand ,not letting her go was good...But ,i guess ,IT'S not too much convincing...

Pankaj raised questions wonderfully..
Even after getting support from Yuvi and few others, Suhani still gets insulted by BQ...
Why would he not be brave enough to stop BQ?

I just wish that everyone get a new flat and move away leaving dadi and Ragmen al;one in BH...
let them suffer all alone...


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Posted: 9 years ago
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I wasn't planning to watch the show, but all your comments ( or maybe I'm actually masochistic 😃) made me really really curious...
Pankaj wise it was a great episode. Throughout the whole molestation track, he has been fantastic. His have been the only real reactions throughout the sordid saga. The shame, the despair,the justified anger... Brilliant Chandresh Singh!! 👏👏 And yes, you should have mentioned the immediate stressor for your suicide attempt... But you know what, maybe he was scared of his 'mother teresa" daughter's non reaction to THAT 😡... I know I was!! I feel he should have addressed that DAAYAN'S " Ae Ladki" reference of Suhani too... WHY DOESN'T ANYONE HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT?? If someone called me like that... main toh joote utaroongi!! 😡

And Suhani?? Every passing episode I'm losing all liking and respect for the character!! Fine, you still consider Psycho as " a good at heart but misguided soul" ,, fine you forgave her...WHATEVER!! but you are actually coming to that hell house and crying copiously at her LEAVING?? Bidding her goodbye?? Your father tried to KILL himself due to her " MISTAKE" !!! It took you a 1000 years to forgive your father for the forced marriage, and 10 sec to forgive Psychobaby... WAH!!!!
And you are willing to stand up and take arms for everyone- Snaky, Pratima, Yuvraj, Psycho,Snoopy, the local dhobi...EVERYONE AND ANYONE, BUT YOURSELF!!! WTH is wrong with you Suhani??? Why do you take every delusional shit that those witches dole at you?? Why do you still want to stay there under such circumstances? Because You LOVE Yuvraj?? I thought love was supposed to make you stronger,a better person... But Your LOVE is making you a spineless, weak, self deprecating DOORMAT... Where is Suhani?? 😭

And Prats, Yuvi, Saurabh, Sharad... You care for the Shrivastav Sisters? You think "Baat karne se cheezein thik ho jayengi!! Toh baat apni Daayan Dadi aur unki witch Chamchiyon se karo...
Supporting Suhani 1 time out of 10 is JUST NOT ENOUGH!! SORRY!!

Coming to Yuvraj, I'm disappointed, Sahil Mehta. I can understand the lack of passion in the preceding days... too much shit was happening. But yesterday??? Where was the desperation, the pain? Yuvraj looked mildly inconvenienced that Suhani was leaving. ( he looked more desperate when they were trying to find Dadis missing necklace, yeh toh biwi hai uski😡) Infact the only time Yuvraj showed true fire and passion is when he was shouting at Suhani... NOT DONE!! These are crucial scenes Sahil Mehta, and whether you care to do them or not, we care enough to watch them... CVs are ruining Yuvraj and Suhani... The only thing left is the YUVANI chemistry... Woh bhi nahi raha toh who will watch your show. We know the kind of awesome scenes that you are capable of. You are not playing her BFF, you are playing her husband... Please Act like one!!

Would just like to end on a positive note. Kudos Chandresh Singh!! 👏 Impressed by you...


Edited by arch_angel - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: arch_angel

I wasn't planning to watch the show, but all your comments ( or maybe I'm actually masochistic 😃) made me really really curious...

Pankaj wise it was a great episode. Throughout the whole molestation track, he has been fantastic. His have been the only real reactions throughout the sordid saga. The shame, the despair,the justified anger... Brilliant Chandresh Singh!! 👏👏 And yes, you should have mentioned the immediate stressor for your suicide attempt... But you know what, maybe he was scared of his 'mother teresa" daughter's non reaction to THAT 😡... I know I was!! I feel he should have addressed that DAAYAN'S " Ae Ladki" reference of Suhani too... WHY DOESN'T ANYONE HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT?? If someone called me like that... main toh joote utaroongi!! 😡

And Suhani?? Every passing episode I'm losing all liking and respect for the character!! Fine, you still consider Psycho as " a good at heart but misguided soul" ,, fine you forgave her...WHATEVER!! but you are actually coming to that hell house and crying copiously at her LEAVING?? Bidding her goodbye?? Your father tried to KILL himself due to her " MISTAKE" !!! It took you a 1000 years to forgive your father for the forced marriage, and 10 sec to forgive Psychobaby... WAH!!!!
And you are willing to stand up and take arms for everyone- Snaky, Pratima, Yuvraj, Psycho,Snoopy, the local dhobi...EVERYONE AND ANYONE, BUT YOURSELF!!! WTH is wrong with you Suhani??? Why do you take every delusional shit that those witches dole at you?? Why do you still want to stay there under such circumstances? Because You LOVE Yuvraj?? I thought love was supposed to make you stronger,a better person... But Your LOVE is making you a spineless, weak, self deprecating DOORMAT... Where is Suhani?? 😭

And Prats, Yuvi, Saurabh, Sharad... You care for the Shrivastav Sisters? You think "Baat karne se cheezein thik ho jayengi!! Toh baat apni Daayan Dadi aur unki witch Chamchiyon se karo...
Supporting Suhani 1 time out of 10 is JUST NOT ENOUGH!! SORRY!!

Coming to Yuvraj, I'm disappointed, Sahil Mehta. I can understand the lack of passion in the preceding days... too much shit was happening. But yesterday??? Where was the desperation, the pain? Yuvraj looked mildly inconvenienced that Suhani was leaving. ( he looked more desperate when they were trying to find Dadis missing necklace, yeh toh biwi hai uski😡) Infact the only time Yuvraj showed true fire and passion is when he was shouting at Suhani... NOT DONE!! These are crucial scenes Sahil Mehta, and whether you care to do them or not, we care enough to watch them... CVs are ruining Yuvraj and Suhani... The only thing left is the YUVANI chemistry... Woh bhi nahi raha toh who will watch your show. We know the kind of awesome scenes that you are capable of. You are not playing her BFF, you are playing her husband... Please Act like one!!

Would just like to end on a positive note. Kudos Chandresh Singh!! 👏 Impressed by you...


Bang on post problm is sahil mehta not yuvraj
He nailed it in tht scene in terms of acting whn he clled her blind n mad
But shn it was needed he was just average performer
He himself accpted in his latest iv he ruins good scenes
But i feel
Yuvraj is not wrong tht 5 minute bashing cannot equal those aaesomeraj days hes been there for her since day1
So hes been too good
Suhani
I miss old suhani the charming cute bubbly strong ethic moral principle drivn suhani a lot
But wht i feel i hate her milli jap n pratima obssesion like anything yuck yuck suhani i prefer her soumo jaap looks cuter n u r so right it took her while to frgiv pnkj thn y not b consistent in frgiving milli
But good thing is shes gone so lets b hppy v r at mercy of the cvs
Its not easy for her too
Choosing bw your father n guy whos always been there for u
I feel for bth here
Yuvraj n suhani whts their fault

Pnkj ji nailed it
But
I partially agree n partially disagree with your post
For suhani its not tht easy it would hv been easier if he hadnt been there for her

Sorry if my post hurts anyone 😃
Edited by Lovestruck1996 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I too agree with you all for highlighting few points that remain unanswered...my opinion is... Its not possible to bring out all in one or a couple of episodes... Suhani hasn't left BH in yesterday's episode... As the precap suggests she will leave today...
My belief is Suhani wanted to stay with her family few days more until Pankaj recovers from the thought of incident...
And also I think Pankaj will also make it clear to her about his upbringing... He might wash her brain about... He always taught his daughters to fight against all odds and injustice... He never taught them to bear the blame for no cause... Pankaj may tell Suhani the reason behind his attempt to suicide (Chandrakala's indirect blackmail)... By knowing all these and few more Suhani may make up herself to stay away from BH...
As per Raj's iv she said that Suhani clears to Dadi that she too don't wanna stay in BH if she doesn't likes her still... (don't know is it gonna happen or Rajshri faked the scene)
About Yuvraj... Its not possible to show repentance in his character so soon... He will realise his mistakes and come across Dadi's real face...
Edited by PrathameshS92 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yuvraj does not want Suhani to leave BH. Pratima advised Suhani & Bhavana to go because she knows how dadi treats them.

This time, it was all because of that stupid & psycho Gauri & the old hag.

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