What the hell Suhani?

What is wrong with this woman?

Just today I was telling Apu about her behavior and we were having the exact same conversation. Actually Suhani likes to be surrounded by superficial ppl her best friend is an example of superficiality at its best. I think she likes people who are airy fairy pretty on the surface bt dnt have much substance and who dnt show their true colours to her and hide behind a mask. I think suhani might see people as just black and white, good/bad, insider/ outsider mentality. She knows that every1 has flaws and she does accept their flaws because its human nature. But where she differs from others is that she doesn't like people who are direct, hard and different ( and here I am not saying Rohan is direct as he has lied) but this isn't the 1st time where she has reacted to some1 who is direct harshly. Start of the show the girl treated Krishna like crap. She just saw this hard outer layer and judged him. Suhani is superficial she doesn't wanna go to deep into a persons makeup that's why she she thinks that cooking, cleaning, knowing some1s likes and dislikes is what makes a person. She has never tried to understand a persons mind that's why she questioned yuvraj. What she sees on the outside is what she thinks is on the inside your personality is what's on the inside crap. But really I have not liked the way she has behaved with Rohan its almost like she has in bided all the qualities of the Birla's insider/outsider that scene of her laughing at her parents even though it was rohan who tried to make her smile just felt like rohan the outsider no matter hw much he tried until she let him and included him in her circle she will treat him like dirt and have a disdain, acquaintance attitude total dadigari this 1 has become she is already negative lol. And how to I say this politely I think the girl is just a total ass licker for ppl who dnt like her. She showed the same disregard towards prats when snaky was being mean to her. If I didn't knw better I would think that she was a player who was trying to woo haters and make them lovers and when she had them in her grip would lose interest in them. But I have to say I have some how enjoyed Rajshri's performance flawless acting to bad her character is a total B**** at the moment

sam, I think she's supposed to be offended at his persistent attempts to push his way into her life, and her present sourness towards him is because he ignored her great love for the passionless wonder and dared to propose to her. And it was stupid of Rohan. But I look at him, for all his trickery, and compared to the p.w., he seems so much better. I was expecting some kind of rescue job by Rohan towards Pankaj, and while she seemed grim yesterday, she will be grateful to him, if afraid that he may take advantage of any softening. That's my reading based on serial dynamics (mera pati is devta, hazaar gunaah maaf, paraya mard is unthinkable).
Sandi, I remember you said something to this effect (referring to your post, not sam's) a while back, and I don't remember if I replied or even had an opinion.
If Suhani goes for superficiality, then she's also massively delusional, because, on the face of it, Yuvraj has never loved her and she supposedly believed that for months. I remember how she smacked Krishna for telling her the truth (and I think it was after that you'd posted a similar analysis) while saying nothing to the vultures in BH, enduring all p.wonder's shenanigans, etc. and I wonder if the answer is what Apu once said about her being a people-pleaser and having low self-esteem (not sure exactly what, maybe I'm imposing my own feelings now). Suhani has confidence in herself, we all thought, but does she? Why would someone try so hard to please the unpleasable, unpleasant and downright nasty BH people (including Yuvraj)--the Lata influence? For a while, okay, you make the effort, but the way she became this sad character was way beyond making a reasonable effort. She's herself only with those she isn't intimidated by, perhaps. Which is not a good sign for her and her Mr. Darcy.
I don't think she judges people by externalities, so much as not using her brain once she's labelled someone. Then again, she did change her mind about Krishna. I wouldn't mind Suhani being a bit bitchy rather than this sad sack pathetic person.
And her main flaw is she clings to the wreckage rather than trying to swim to shore. Maybe she can't swim, lol.

Ani I think what they are doing btw Rohani is similar to the start of Yuvani r/ship where yuvraj is an ice cube(nothing changed though lol) but its icy watching Su with Rohan and I felt yesterdays scene where her dad went ill she didn't have the same sort of urgency that she normally has when it came to her useless in laws and she still looked angry at rohan instead of concentrating on her dad. That is so not suhani. When Su shows signs of 2nd lead behavior I get worried the shamelessness with which she likes yuvraj is sick man. Daddy is ab to die(exaggerating lol) and all she cares ab is a man shameless. And really she could so go evil for yuvraj if she was 2nd lead. I really could see this girl being spat on and then smiling. She got no self respect and no self confidence

Originally posted by: anita_m

sam, I think she's supposed to be offended at his persistent attempts to push his way into her life, and her present sourness towards him is because he ignored her great love for the passionless wonder and dared to propose to her. And it was stupid of Rohan. But I look at him, for all his trickery, and compared to the p.w., he seems so much better. I was expecting some kind of rescue job by Rohan towards Pankaj, and while she seemed grim yesterday, she will be grateful to him, if afraid that he may take advantage of any softening. That's my reading based on serial dynamics (mera pati is devta, hazaar gunaah maaf, paraya mard is unthinkable).
Sandi, I remember you said something to this effect (referring to your post, not sam's) a while back, and I don't remember if I replied or even had an opinion.
If Suhani goes for superficiality, then she's also massively delusional, because, on the face of it, Yuvraj has never loved her and she supposedly believed that for months. I remember how she smacked Krishna for telling her the truth (and I think it was after that you'd posted a similar analysis) while saying nothing to the vultures in BH, enduring all p.wonder's shenanigans, etc. and I wonder if the answer is what Apu once said about her being a people-pleaser and having low self-esteem (not sure exactly what, maybe I'm imposing my own feelings now). Suhani has confidence in herself, we all thought, but does she? Why would someone try so hard to please the unpleasable, unpleasant and downright nasty BH people (including Yuvraj)--the Lata influence? For a while, okay, you make the effort, but the way she became this sad character was way beyond making a reasonable effort. She's herself only with those she isn't intimidated by, perhaps. Which is not a good sign for her and her Mr. Darcy.
I don't think she judges people by externalities, so much as not using her brain once she's labelled someone. Then again, she did change her mind about Krishna. I wouldn't mind Suhani being a bit bitchy rather than this sad sack pathetic person.
And her main flaw is she clings to the wreckage rather than trying to swim to shore. Maybe she can't swim, lol.

Originally posted by: sandiab

Ani I think what they are doing btw Rohani is similar to the start of Yuvani r/ship where yuvraj is an ice cube(nothing changed though lol) but its icy watching Su with Rohan and I felt yesterdays scene where her dad went ill she didn't have the same sort of urgency that she normally has when it came to her useless in laws and she still looked angry at rohan instead of concentrating on her dad. That is so not suhani. When Su shows signs of 2nd lead behavior I get worried the shamelessness with which she likes yuvraj is sick man. Daddy is ab to die(exaggerating lol) and all she cares ab is a man shameless. And really she could so go evil for yuvraj if she was 2nd lead. I really could see this girl being spat on and then smiling. She got no self respect and no self confidence