What is Yuvraj's problem??

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Prathamesh

@PrathameshS92

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

That's really true...
What does he mean by keeping Suhani in BH... He is really confused about his feelings... Rather I would say it as his perception... He doesn't want let her go off from his house... What is this??
Does he think her as a maid... Who will look after him and his family lifelong, serving at their feet... Doesn't she has a Life to live with her loved ones... Or whenever he is upset, he needs Suhani to cool down him...Is she his PA... He is thinking selfish... He hasn't wonder about what are her thoughts... What does she expect from others...From Him... How can she live a Single whole life in his house being married to him... Can she spend her whole life in her mother in law s bedroom...
And now its really time for Yuvrajs mother to do something, instead of bringing them closer... Explain your son, define the meaning of Suhanis importance in his life... How incomplete he is with out her... Make him feel alone without Suhani... Don't make them stay together or spend time together.. Nothing is going to happen by this... They will go far by this. .. She needs to make him understand what and how his life will be without Suhani... You haven't seen him eager about Suhani... Then how can you judge him that he loves her alot... Which he himself don't know...
Make him marry other girl... See what's his thought on second marriage... Force him to do second marriage... Force him till he utters out that he can't marry other girl because he loves Suhani... Make him realize his feelings

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Sammy

@samcek

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

It's his pride. He's too proud to admit even to himself that he feels for her. He thinks of himself as some sort of big prize and that Suhani isn't worthy of him.

Suhani herself feeds into his belief, as she behaves like she deserves to be treated like Snoopy by never correcting him and always being happy to see him no matter what he does.

As a matter of fact, the biggest problem for him to overcome is the fact that no one actually corrects his behaviour. They start to, then he opens his mouth and everyone just believes whatever he says. Dadi has the same problem; no one corrects her, so she goes on being a cow.

It would have done both of them some good if they met half way. CV's should have shown Yuvraj admitting that looks aren't everything, and shown Suhani realising that her husband LIKES women who are well groomed so maybe dressing up for him/putting on make-up now and again wouldn't be so bad - even if its just for him.

As for Rohan; You'd be amazed at what people will justify to themselves when they're in love. In his eyes, he's freed her from a horrible man. And Yuvraj has proven just that.

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arch_angel

@arch_angel

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

What is Yuvraj's problem? Oh sweetheart this could take a while...

Where do I begin??😃

His colossal ego, breathtaking anger issues, teaspoon like EQ, 2 month old baby wala maturity level... to name a few( I'm not even gonna mention his despicable relatives... the post will be too long)

Confusion about his feelings, I can understand. But, what I don't like about Yuvraj is that he isn't even attempting to resolve his confusion/ feelings. Bas 1 statement mar diya..." I'm confused, I don't know what love is, I don't wanna make the same mistake again" ... and its done. He was back to jogging, worshipping Dadi, playing his video games, admonishing Suhani... very happy in his limbo!! And expecting Suhani to be too.😡

As far as supporting or caring for Suhani goes, half the time he " bestows" his attention and support on her like a benevolent king or something. If Dadi raised him like a boor, why did Pratima not try to correct him? Tricking a hapless girl into marrying her shallow son was her solution?? And why is Yuvraj like this? I don't see Saurabh or Anuj behaving as badly as he does... must be the effect of being Daaku Daayan Dadi's favorite, I guess. And Suhani just encouraged this kind of behaviour by being eternally grateful for scraps of his attention and not setting any limits for his rudeness...

He isn't just emotionally challenged, he is an imbecile!! I think CVs have pushed themselves into a corner with this one... How in the world are they going to redeem Yuvraj? or will it be another cop out- Snaky style...😕

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IKEAwizard

@IKEAwizard

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: arch_angel
What is Yuvraj's problem? Oh sweetheart this could take a while...
Where do I begin??😃

His colossal ego, breathtaking anger issues, teaspoon like EQ, 2 month old baby wala maturity level... to name a few( I'm not even gonna mention his despicable relatives... the post will be too long)
Confusion about his feelings, I can understand. But, what I don't like about Yuvraj is that he isn't even attempting to resolve his confusion/ feelings. Bas 1 statement mar diya..." I'm confused, I don't know what love is, I don't wanna make the same mistake again" ... and its done. He was back to jogging, worshipping Dadi, playing his video games, admonishing Suhani... very happy in his limbo!! And expecting Suhani to be too.😡

As far as supporting or caring for Suhani goes, half the time he " bestows" his attention and support on her like a benevolent king or something. If Dadi raised him like a boor, why did Pratima not try to correct him? Tricking a hapless girl into marrying her shallow son was her solution?? And why is Yuvraj like this? I don't see Saurabh or Anuj behaving as badly as he does... must be the effect of being Daaku Daayan Dadi's favorite, I guess. And Suhani just encouraged this kind of behaviour by being eternally grateful for scraps of his attention and not setting any limits for his rudeness...

Agree with everything here, especially @bold. They have a disturbing power dynamic in their relationship. Yes, a lot of relationships are like that in real life (not all unhappy), but seeing it on TV just makes me sick to my stomach.

Also this is just gold: