What is Yuvraj's problem??

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I just got a chance to watch the whole episode and all I can say is, Yuvraj seriously needs some therapy. He has virtually no ability to express his emotions in a healthy, productive way.
Let's back things up a bit. Yuvraj is starting to fall for Suhani, and everyone, including the audience, can see that.

He gets the divorce papers in the middle of the beauty pageant. He gets furious and publicly humiliates her. This (kinda) makes sense if he loves her, but there's an important detail that's being forgotten... Yuvraj has neither admitted to Suhani nor even himself that he loves her. How can he possibly expect Suhani to stay in a loveless marriage with him? That's extremely selfish of him. If not the eventual divorce papers, then what did he expect??

Let's explore where Yuvani are at right now: She wants to leave and he doesn't want that, but he still hasn't told her he loves her yet nor has he tried to get intimate with her (while sober, of course) or even mentioned that he wants to eventually take the relationship to the next level. So basically he's expecting Suhani to die in this house with him without giving her even the slightest indication that things will change between them.

What a normal person (someone who has the ability to feel empathy) would have done in this situation is confess his love to Suhani and the problem would be solved. Instead his big head gets in the way and he can't seem to think of anything that's not completely cruel and vindictive.

Why does Yuvraj not seem to realize that Suhani is leaving because she believes there's nothing between them? Why does Yuvraj EXPECT and DEMAND that Suhani to stay in a loveless marriage with him? You shouldn't expect that of anybody.

What is this guy's problem? Either admit that you love her or let her go. It's that simple. If he's too friggin posh to admit he loves an "ugly" girl like Suhani, then he doesn't deserve her or any other girl for that matter.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: IKEAwizard

I just got a chance to watch the whole episode and all I can say is, Yuvraj seriously needs some therapy. He has virtually no ability to express his emotions in a healthy, productive way.

Let's back things up a bit. Yuvraj is starting to fall for Suhani, and everyone, including the audience, can see that.

He gets the divorce papers in the middle of the beauty pageant. He gets furious and publicly humiliates her. This (kinda) makes sense if he loves her, but there's an important detail that's being forgotten... Yuvraj has neither admitted to Suhani nor even himself that he loves her. How can he possibly expect Suhani to stay in a loveless marriage with him? That's extremely selfish of him. If not the eventual divorce papers, then what did he expect??

Let's explore where Yuvani are at right now: She wants to leave and he doesn't want that, but he still hasn't told her he loves her yet nor has he tried to get intimate with her (while sober, of course) or even mentioned that he wants to eventually take the relationship to the next level. So basically he's expecting Suhani to die in this house with him without giving her even the slightest indication that things will change between them.

What a normal person (someone who has the ability to feel empathy) would have done in this situation is confess his love to Suhani and the problem would be solved. Instead his big head gets in the way and he can't seem to think of anything that's not completely cruel and vindictive.

Why does Yuvraj not seem to realize that Suhani is leaving because she believes there's nothing between them? Why does Yuvraj EXPECT and DEMAND that Suhani to stay in a loveless marriage with him? You shouldn't expect that of anybody.

What is this guy's problem? Either admit that you love her or let her go. It's that simple. If he's too friggin posh to admit he loves an "ugly" girl like Suhani, then he doesn't deserve her or any other girl for that matter.




claps for @ bold especially.

He can't admit his love, where will he confess it, Iks? She's not good enough for him, so whatever he feels for her is battling with his conditioning, and in moments of stress, conditioning wins.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Just because HE is changing (read: getting more confused with his feelings) he expects her to be in permanent limbo, till HE sorts his feelings out. Heights of selfish!
In ALL this charade even if ONCE he thought to himself that, " I am getting too emotionally attached to this girl" It would've put things into better perspective!

It's like they are hell bent on undoing the tiniest step he took forward during the drunk scene... that scene had lost meaning and impact thanks to the successive events! Where as it should've been the one to set things in motion! (Ironically, that scene seems to have been played out for Rohan more than Yuvraj!)

And why is nobody telling him about how he begged her to stay?
He fell at her feet infront of whole family so they make him insult her publicly to balance the male ego out?

I hate how these people keep taking him back to square one...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Dear I loved each n every word of your post 👏
Yes n BTW before yuvraj go in to jail she said I will leave n then he asked her will v remain friends then y is he getting so annoyed he knew it from the day su learned the truth but still behavin like that y is he o selfobssesed only thinks what I'm feeling did he ever ask himself y is she affecting me o much nooo
How can he expect to live in a loveless marriage stupid dumbraj
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Posted: 10 years ago
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well, ideally the contest should have been a turning point in yuvraj's life with his ideologies changing. He should have placed the crown proudly and seconded suhani's thoughts, instead as usual the CVs decided to pull him back. They showed the nastier version of the first episode which was quite unnecessary after a year of this show.

Why are they so afraid to show growth in his character? Ok if not growth don't nullify the minuscule growth that is shown from time to time. The drunken scene was so beautifully done, but I am afraid it will lose its effect nd if the CVs take ages for yuvraj to remember it then I am afraid it will be a long-lost memory.

And sharad if you really want to advice ur guru about every little thing, how about telling him about his actions on that night that will be a huge favour.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Truly, the drunk scene, such a big step, nullified. How dare Yuvraj have an inch of growth--cut him off at the knees.

Oh someone will tell him, or he'll remember after he's burnt his boats.

And already Suhani doing reminiscing--what about him, cvs?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anita_m

Truly, the drunk scene, such a big step, nullified. How dare Yuvraj have an inch of growth--cut him off at the knees.

Oh someone will tell him, or he'll remember after he's burnt his boats.

And already Suhani doing reminiscing--what about him, cvs?



Maybe he will remember her when Ramesh prepares an awful Mexican salad..that will the turning point...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pam789



Maybe he will remember her when Ramesh prepares an awful Mexican salad..that will the turning point...



May be the CVs are planning to give his reminiscing, a big surprise for us, lol...😆😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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According to me, there is no problem for Yuvraj; infact he himself a big problem, lol...This is just a show so that we are tolerating all this crap and his character. In real no girl would love him and want to marry this guy. Infact every girl will try to escape from this type of bloody, stupid and egoistic guy. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: bfsams



May be the CVs are planning to give his reminiscing, a big surprise for us, lol...😆😆

i wonder wat s di sharad doing if he wants his guru n babhi reconciled then he s d one wh has to advice yuvi and give him a piece of mind...yuvi dosent have tat much brains to interpret n understand tat suhani has affected him a lot...
really i cudnt understand on wat base he s expecting suahni to stay back when she s only his dost

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