Sorry, not impressed by Yuvraj's PAIN

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anita_m

@anita_m

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: ...Binny...
Well said anita..!!

i honestly don't really care if he loves her or not because irrespective of his emotions not one of his actions can be justified.. i have no sympathy for a man who chooses to publicly humiliate the women he apparently cares for although he sees her more as a possession then anything else rather then discuss the issue like adults.. but then expecting anything remotely normal from the likes of Yuvraj is a futile attempt on our side..

what he did was unforgivable.. I always found it hard to like him before.. and now I can honestly say he disgusts me.. he can't tolerate the fact that his toy has a mind of it's own.. hence his aggression.. if there was real concern on his side he would had looked within himself and realized he is unworthy of her and he needs to work at making her want to stay with him.. not accuse her of something she should have done a year ago..!!!

Binny,so agree with @ bold.
I've always liked the character, full of faults, with a great potential for growth. I don't want and never wanted a perfect, sweet, nicey-nice Yuvraj. But saying that, he has gone beyond forgiving now. As if the taxiwallah thing and the swamp incident weren't enough, this was like the depths of meanness, real disconcern for someone's pain and self-respect. If he had been sorry, thought, 'Oh God, how did I say those things', apologized and felt true regret at his actions, that MIGHT have helped a bit. Here, NOTHING. Only concerned with 'I, me, myself.'

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anita_m

@anita_m

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: arch_angel
Yuvraj, Its not enough to be in "pain"... Try to realize what you have done... what you have brought upon yourself instead of blaming any other person or circumstance... And you are so concerned about respect for your family members including hell hound Dadi... Who's Suhani? your next door neighbour? What about a little respect for her? I don't think she asks for much anyway...
Understand, trust, believe and don't overreact... then maybe ..just maybe there will be some redemption for you..

And the CVs... seriously warped sense of love and relationships. You talk about being "different"... Your "hero" is doing the same nonsense in the name of "love" as in other serials...kekta ke delusional nakshe kadam par chal rahe ho shayad... Seriously neanderthals, please come into the 21st century... no one doles out or takes this level of shit in the name of "love" !!

@ bold 👏 a_angel, this was foreshadowed in the thoughtless tantrum he threw over the dvd--he was angry at her being with Rohan, he took it out on her over her 'touching his things'. Then he made it up to her, supposedly, with no apology other than his getting another dvd made after going against the grain and pulling the ruined one out of the garbage. This was to show us that he won't say the words, but he makes up for it in actions. I objected then too. And I object again and again to Suhani encouraging his nonsense by not making enough noise at the wrong things he does. It's supposed to be all cute banter. No wonder he behaves the way he does. She has failed to deamnd the respect she deserves to a point where I feel maybe she doesn't deserve it.
We've talked earlier about this regressive idea that hurting someone you love is somehow okay, it's even romantic. It is probably inevitable to hurt those we love or who love us (and, as you said in that other post, so easy because we know the sore spots), but calculated humiliation, emotional or physical abuse, public trashing of a person who's close to you, uh-huh. And having screwed up, instead of trying to make up for those indefensible words, he's feeling sorry for himself! And people are buying it! What are these rubbish serials doing to the younger lot?

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anita_m

@anita_m

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: drummedup

The problem is they make Yuvraj do superficial things in the name of love(lol!), care/ concern/ whatever name they give to his reactions.

Suhani takes care of his needs, his tastes, slaves away in kitchen... what does he do? Gives her a pendant.

She is dying to attend to his beck and call, she literally falls over herself to do things for him... what does he do? A benevolent smile, at most! Holy Father is happy, my child!

She trips in mud, get herself dirty for HIS fish or dog...what does he do? scold her, taunt her mucky habits.

She puts up with taunts, insults, plottings, even his misunderstandings and undue accusations... what does he do? stands silently or ulta HE scolds her too...

For every emotional investment she made on him, he either ignored it or compensated it with materialist things.

What has he contributed to in this relation? What emotional investment has he put?

How would he feel for every tear he is shedding now, Suhani makes him a "salad" as compensation? Can he take it?😆

These creatives should STOP making a man think THIS materialistically... I would've understood(though not accept) this mentality if Yuvraj was an otherwise capable human being... but not even that! where would that leave Yuvraj? An ass for life or simply a misguided soul? I was hoping the latter all along but now I'm not too sure...

Of course you would say what I left out. 👏👏👏 Love the post, du.

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anita_m

@anita_m

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: IKEAwizard
I agree that it's hinted that he loves her. Unfortunately the love he has for is the possessive, juvenile kind of love that is fleeting. It's often exhibited by stalkers or abusive husbands in B-list or made-for-TV movies (I'm thinking about the Lifetime channel for my fellow Americans out there).

I'm considering seriously shipping Rohani now. Like taking to twitter or emailing the creators - that kind of stuff. Yuvraj is a total let-down.

Well, he is emotionally abusive--he's been less vicious lately, but constant carping and infantilizing a person is anyway abusive. This latest peak of horrid behaviour and failing to acknowledge it just throws the character into a ravine that I don't see how the cvs will pull him out of.

I can't ship Rohan. He's manipulative, and where's HIS regret at causing what he did? I don't see why we should ship her with anyone. She has a lot of growing up to do herself.

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anita_m

@anita_m

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: pam789
Agree with u anita!! The lack of remorse pissed me off as well. Y is it that it is always sharad pointing out his gurus faults and bhabhis pain??? Y can't they show yuvraj sitting in his room alone thinking about his idiotic speech feeling bad and going to suhani ALL BY HIMSELF? ?? Dear cvs, for the kind of patience v show, itna toh banta hai.

And about his love, yes he loves her but has done not much to show her. Ok if he wants her to stay with him for life, has he ever wondered why since she is supposed to be his friend for life?? Nd if it is love then how will suhani know since he has never ever acknowledged it...he does look hurt when is alone but yet again doesnt want to show it to suhani, ego u c..yuvraj has always had a bumpy ride in this show nd now they have pushed him so low it had to b something dramatic and gud to redeem his character.

Sorry, going out of topic : soumya will u stop saying dialogues like mujhe yuvraj se umeed nahi thi nd acting goody goody?? doesnt suit u..

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pam789

@pam789

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: anita_m

Well, he is emotionally abusive--he's been less vicious lately, but constant carping and infantilizing a person is anyway abusive. This latest peak of horrid behaviour and failing to acknowledge it just throws the character into a ravine that I don't see how the cvs will pull him out of.

I can't ship Rohan. He's manipulative, and where's HIS regret at causing what he did? I don't see why we should ship her with anyone. She has a lot of growing up to do herself.
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Rohan is weird for sure more so if he is d supposed cupid..he very well knows that if there is someone who is lacking in this relationship then it is yuvraj but then it is suhani bearing it. It was yuvraj who mouthed those words nd was a real jerk but it was indirectly Rohan's action that pushed him nd he seemed quite pleased with the outcome.

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pam789

@pam789

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Isn't it? It's like he has no brain--Sharad, his mother, Rohan (indirectly), and, on the other side, BQ, everyone tells him what to do, how to think, manipulates.

He's conveniently forgotten that they have already talked about her leaving. He's never told her (in his senses) that she's important to him. If he's so proud, why the heck can't she have the right to be proud (in terms of self-respect) too? Why does he think she's so wrong? What has he given her as her husband?

Of course Yuvraj has had a bad deal on this show. And I doubt it'll get very much better, because how the writers think is up on the wall.

And absolutely agree--Saumya makes my skin crawl with her goody-good act.

The precap- again that stupid dadi manipulating him it is possible she will instigate him regarding rohani's closeness. Really cvs, he is the lead of this show and for God's sake enough. He is gonna support that evil woman again in the party, again another justification of taking out his anger on her. I am eagerly waiting for the day of his redemption more than his confession, mayb the CVs will butcher suhani and rohan's character to show yuvraj is not bad afterall..anything possible with them.

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