Sorry, not impressed by Yuvraj's PAIN

I don't get how Yuvraj's supposed pain, hurt, or desperation is any basis for his behaviour at the contest and his TOTAL LACK OF REMORSE now. It can no longer be said he's acting in the heat of the moment. He has had enough time to think about the possible reasons Suhani may have had and that he acted in the most ruthless and callous way towards her.
Leave the matter that Suhani didn't even send the papers. What if she had? She'd be perfectly justified. Buying pendants and trying to make kala jamuns because you're challenged by another guy paying attention to your wife does not prove love. He's treated her too casually too long. Just a month or so back he refused to say a word to stop her leaving--the day before the Radhe incident. Now why all this rage and acting betrayed?
I'm not arguing about whether he loves her or not--the hints are he does, but I spit on such love. He's not even sorry about the things he said--if anything, I feel he's wondering why she's not showing more hurt.
Oh so sweet, he bought her a gift. Can't help wondering if he'd have bothered if Rohan hadn't made him aware that if he's not, someone else might be interested in his wife.
Again, there is nothing definitive to show love. There are no words or gestures and no introspection that says YES, this can be nothing but love. All his words, expressions or actions can be equally explained as loss of pride, as being a dog in the manger, as frustration at not being the one who controls the relationship. Please understand what I'm saying--I'm not saying he doesn't love her, but that there's no absolute indication, because the writers have a warped idea of love, relationships and what's okay to do and say

Yeah Anita!!! I agree with you. You made it clear and u are right. There is no pain from Yuvraj as a husband today. Infact i'm surprised there is no guilty in his behavior. He is like; that he's right and Suhani is wrong. Right now he is feeling bad because for him his friend is leaving the house without his permission. It is actually looked only like that for me. 😆

Nooo don't say this happy anniversary suhani is not for a friend he was planning to sort but she left n in upcoming episodes u will see he will try to sort I posted that olv today please don't hate yuvraj at least for today yuvraj agreed yesterday yuvraj was😡

Well said anita..!!


i honestly don't really care if he loves her or not because irrespective of his emotions not one of his actions can be justified.. i have no sympathy for a man who chooses to publicly humiliate the women he apparently cares for although he sees her more as a possession then anything else rather then discuss the issue like adults.. but then expecting anything remotely normal from the likes of Yuvraj is a futile attempt on our side..

what he did was unforgivable.. I always found it hard to like him before.. and now I can honestly say he disgusts me.. he can't tolerate the fact that his toy has a mind of it's own.. hence his aggression.. if there was real concern on his side he would had looked within himself and realized he is unworthy of her and he needs to work at making her want to stay with him.. not accuse her of something she should have done a year ago..!!!

Yuvraj, Its not enough to be in "pain"... Try to realize what you have done... what you have brought upon yourself instead of blaming any other person or circumstance... And you are so concerned about respect for your family members including hell hound Dadi... Who's Suhani? your next door neighbour? What about a little respect for her? I don't think she asks for much anyway...

I agree that it's hinted that he loves her. Unfortunately the love he has for is the possessive, juvenile kind of love that is fleeting. It's often exhibited by stalkers or abusive husbands in B-list or made-for-TV movies (I'm thinking about the Lifetime channel for my fellow Americans out there).

I'm considering seriously shipping Rohani now. Like taking to twitter or emailing the creators - that kind of stuff. Yuvraj is a total let-down.

Agree with u anita!! The lack of remorse pissed me off as well. Y is it that it is always sharad pointing out his gurus faults and bhabhis pain??? Y can't they show yuvraj sitting in his room alone thinking about his idiotic speech feeling bad and going to suhani ALL BY HIMSELF? ?? Dear cvs, for the kind of patience v show, itna toh banta hai.

And about his love, yes he loves her but has done not much to show her. Ok if he wants her to stay with him for life, has he ever wondered why since she is supposed to be his friend for life?? Nd if it is love then how will suhani know since he has never ever acknowledged it...he does look hurt when is alone but yet again doesnt want to show it to suhani, ego u c..yuvraj has always had a bumpy ride in this show nd now they have pushed him so low it had to b something dramatic and gud to redeem his character.

Sorry, going out of topic : soumya will u stop saying dialogues like mujhe yuvraj se umeed nahi thi nd acting goody goody?? doesnt suit u..

Originally posted by: bfsams

Yeah Anita!!! I agree with you. You made it clear and u are right. There is no pain from Yuvraj as a husband today. Infact i'm surprised there is no guilty in his behavior. He is like; that he's right and Suhani is wrong. Right now he is feeling bad because for him his friend is leaving the house without his permission. It is actually looked only like that for me.😆

But I really hope the actual pain and desperation will be suffered by him only after he realises his love for Suhani. Until then there will be no improvement from his side; he only feels cheated by Suhani and gets angry over her. .

Exactly, Benazir, he was acting like she was wrong and he was right! That anything he said was perfectly okay, because she hurt him and therefore deserved it.

I have few hopes that even if he realizes anything at all that he will feel regret, deep remorse, guilt, as he should. It's obvious that the writers think his behaviour is just bad, not unforgiveably hideous. See how Sharad is so quick to believe that maybe Suhani did something--'Suhani bhabhi kuchh kiye kya' he asks, before they hear Menka and rush in. As if ANYTHING excuses insulting your wife in public on a day she achieved a victory. I might have forgiven that if he had shown any guilt or regret--zilch. He's so selfish, he's not even thinking beyond his own so-called pain.

Originally posted by: Lavina1996

Nooo don't say this happy anniversary suhani is not for a friend he was planning to sort but she left n in upcoming episodes u will see he will try to sort I posted that olv today please don't hate yuvraj at least for today yuvraj agreed yesterday yuvraj was😡

But today yuvraj was very painful yaar

He was planning to sort things out? Why didn't he? He had plenty of time. Of course that's the cvs plot device to bring about the separation, but nonetheless, whee is his regret? Why doesn't he feel sorrow and pain for what he did to her? He feels bad only for himself, that the girl he insisted was only a friend is finally walking out. I don't feel the least bit sorry for him.