Yuvraj or Rohan? - Page 2

Originally posted by: IKEAwizard

I'm going to have to disagree with you, hon. I still think Suhani deserves better than Yuvraj. It's true that people like him do exist and many relationships are imperfect in real life, but within the context of this TV serial, I would prefer to see Suhani get with someone who can be on an equal footing with her.

It's one of the main issues I have with the Suhani/Yuvraj relationship. I've never felt like they were equals. Part of that has to do with Yuvraj's undiagnosed OCD and the other part probably has to do with Suhani's subservience uncharacteristically combined with gumption. They really do not fit well together. I do not think Yuvraj is capable of challenging Suhani the way she does him and I really like to see that in TV relationships - just personally.

Edit: also, Yuvraj can be a man-child sometimes which can be a total turn-off.

Originally posted by: drummedup

Guys, aren't we all missing an important point here?

How was Suhani with Yuvraj before she fell for him/got married? There was fire then. Because, he meant nothing to her.

That is how she is with Rohan too, right now. Because, he means nothing to her.

If once, she truly loves someone she becomes the submissive one in the relationship.

It's a fault in her that she has to correct. Even Rohan can't do anything about it... and he looks the kind of guy who will be okay with Suhani, if and when she starts bearing his idiosyncrasies too... aren't we treading that path lightly here already?

@Anita: Yuvraj-Suhani: For me though, their personalities have been shown clearly and their need for each other is established.And I have seen their journey as a unit as much as individual.They need to work on their faults... if not, Rohani or yuvani is same.

Originally posted by: anita_m

But samcek, neither su nor yu's love has burned particularly hot, so far. In fact, it's been noted for being too tepid, too unarticulated, too unknown. Chemistry, yes, but chemistry isn't love.

Of course Yuvraj is no prize, but I've usually seen him as basically a good person, even kind, covered in layers of ego. He hurts, but I feel he often lashes out as a defense, often his behaviour is a means of interaction (which was confirmed in yesterday's episode) because he cannot openly ask Suhani for her attention and affection, even though that's always on tap. I know it doesn't speak well for him, but I have a sneaky suspicion that he intends to hold her by his silly carping. And he does see her goodness--he's said it often enough. He's even told her to never change.

I think for all of us, Yuvraj's biggest flaw is his silence when Suhani or his mother or Sharad are treated like shit--and not just by BQ. Then again, I recently saw an episode du recommended, where he does stand up to BQ for her--whatever his motive--and I was surprised for 2 reasons: how he told off BQ and what he said. He said that BQ picks on Su for every little thing, but doesn't see or say all the good things she does. And isn't that true for Yuvraj too? I feel his standing up for Pratima/Su gets zero results long-term, maybe only increases BQ's hatred for them, so he's taken the path of least resistance. It's not right, but it's not quite so unforgiveable. Don't the other brothers behave the same way?

Though he has praised Su, tried in fits and starts to make her feel better when she's down, shared with her what he's told no one else, even (finally) beaten up someone who insulted her, he's inconsistent ('cause cvs don't want it that way) and often too indifferent. But he's grown a little, now I believe he will suffer seeing Rohan horning in, he will suffer if she leaves, but he's still to proud to acknowledge why, so he'll lash out at her, dig his own grave.

Rohan has personality, a career (but isn't he just sitting around doing nothing too? No pending cases? No clients?) and success (or so we're told). He lights up the place. I love his behaviour with/onbehalf of Suhani, but actually it's his too-soon love which is in greater danger of burning out or tipping over into obsessiveness. And isn't he conveniently blind too? Supposed to be so sharp he can read people, how can he miss the difference between BQ's false claims of sympathy for Su and how she treatsher, speaks to her, addresses her?

I guess I'm hoping eventually Yuvraj does deserve Su.

Originally posted by: samcek

With his slow character development, it will probably be by sometime next year 😆

Yuvraj was too immature to tell his damn dadi that he didn't want to be with Soumya and he wanted to show Soumya the right path...Is that guru title going to his head?

I know they haven't actually had their "love" yet. But by the time they get around to it everyone will have lost interest because its been dragged out for sooo long.

Honestly, If Suhani was a normal woman, she would be fed up with his crap by now, and would have probably given an ultimatum. Leave this house and be with me, or keep being poisoned by your family members.

Dadi is an evil witch, that much is true. But if Yuvraj would just actually sit down with the whole family at once and say "guys, this is my wife, i'm not interested in getting a divorce, if you love me than can you let us sort this out" than she'd have no excuses left. I'm not saying she'd stop her nonsense, but hey, at least she'd have no excuses left for when she's caught.

As for Rohan not working, perhaps thats the curse of Birla House. They should write "Abandon all hope ye who enter here" above the front door!

Originally posted by: drummedup

Guys, aren't we all missing an important point here?

How was Suhani with Yuvraj before she fell for him/got married? There was fire then. Because, he meant nothing to her.

That is how she is with Rohan too, right now. Because, he means nothing to her.

If once, she truly loves someone she becomes the submissive one in the relationship.