Why the negativity? - Page 2

Originally posted by: desibibi

I agree with you !! I love what is going on right now because I'm trying to not over think. My work is to watch not expect.

As I said in another post :lets watch and see. There is nothing else to do. CV's have it all figured out. The audience can't influence them, and they can't be writing what we wan't or what we think would be best. You get what you see, be it good or disappointing.

Originally posted by: rbb1

Nice post lets hope everyone will be positive from now on

Originally posted by: jaleela

I understand, appreciate and respect your opinion😊.

I get that you feel very connected to Suhani's character and there is nothing wrong with that, and if her character isn't reacting the way you were hoping she would, you are not in the fault either. I don't think nor did I suggest that you guys spread or want to spread negativity, all I was saying was that there is so much negativity that makes me not want to come to this forum. I thought I could come and share my feelings, and then when I see so many people feeling the exact opposite how do people like me respond to that?

And I bet some people don't want to say anything because they are afraid of potential bashing too. I'm just speaking for those who find it hard to speak for themselves. This forum is easier to come to when there are neutral perspectives, which at the moment they aren't.

I hope you don't misunderstand what I'm trying to say, and by all means say what you feel but at the same time, if the drama isn't working out for some people then those people should try not to ruin it for others.

I'm sorry if I offended anyone at all because that was not my intention.

That 's why I appreciate your post you have guts to put forth your views... I know how it feels seeing people saying negative and opposite to what you think...
But I can't do anything... May be I expected much from the show...
I tried not to be negative and enjoy the show as it is but I failed... I just pray that I again start liking the show because I love SSEL forum and you are welcome in the family... Hi I am Ashley...

Originally posted by: clarity

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">What a JOKE!😆😆

👎🏼👎🏼 from me for this post.

I can't believe people are supporting this. My illusion that SSEL was a sane forum has been vanquished today. 😕

You know, you should probably realise that if you need to put "I don't mean to offend..." in your post, it probably does. You have DIRECTLY attacked the preferences of members who do not like the show and called us out for 'negativity'. </font><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">You have directly quoted members' statements and are then criticising them. You don't think that's offensive?</font>WOW. Never thought I'd see this day on this forum.

What makes you so confident that your way of watching the show is the RIGHT way of watching the show? As you said, you sacrifice logic while watching this show and what makes you think other people are happy doing the same?
Even while I was criticising the show, I was very careful to never attack the preferences of those who are liking the show. If this post is positivity, I don't wanna be a part of it, thanks. 😃 Apparently, you're allowed to hurt people just because you're liking the show? Have you ever heard of the term 'taste and preferences'? Why should all of us necessarily agree with you?

Here's how what you wrote sounds like if you were to turn it around: Why so much positivity? How can anyone like seeing a girl being degraded like this and enjoy it? How can anyone enjoy a regressive show where a woman's worth is judged by how well she cooks and what clothes she wears? How can anybody enjoy YuvAni when Suhani has become spineless?

See, doesn't sound so nice, does it? We have never attacked anyone else's preferences like this. I wonder who is actually being negative.

Also, I'm not a 'fan'. To me, a fan means someone who is blind in their love for someone/something, and I don't like being associated with the word. I am an SSEL viewer, and I'm so happy to NOT be a fan. 👍🏼

Not everyone is going to be satisfied in accepting the 'this is entertainment' excuse. Guess what? Some of us demand more and desire higher quality. You have no right to tell us that we can't do that. This is a FORUM- which means all views are welcome here. We do not police any one's expression of their views.
How DARE you tell us not to 'fill the forum with such negativity'? How would you like it if I asked you to not make such offensive posts? 😡

Maybe you should be aware that in a forum, differing views will be posted and this is a childish way to deal with it. If, on a day I'm not liking an episode and everyone else is, I'm not gonna post a topic which says, "Guys, please don't post such blindly appreciative posts, because it prevents us from coming and posting on this forum". If you have a problem with posts, you just ignore them, not attack the preferences of members who make them.

Thank you for making US feel like it's waste of time to come to this forum and also for discouraging us from posting here.</font>👍🏼<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"> Congratulations, and keep posting, because we are not in the habit of being the moral police here. 😉</font>

Exactly what made me to post here... Otherwise I don't want to argue...because spreading positivity is not bad...
But highlighting some comments and saying that we spread negativity and ruin the mood of people... Really????
Apu don't feel bad... Cheers 😆 .i am with you...
And sorry to use the word FAN... I should use viewer instead...My fault.. 😛
pls Apu ignore... You have to continue posting and coming to forum for us if you are reading this then pls don't feel bad

Originally posted by: clarity

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">What a JOKE!😆😆

👎🏼👎🏼 from me for this post.

I can't believe people are supporting this. My illusion that SSEL was a sane forum has been vanquished today. 😕

You know, you should probably realise that if you need to put "I don't mean to offend..." in your post, it probably does. You have DIRECTLY attacked the preferences of members who do not like the show and called us out for 'negativity'. </font><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">You have directly quoted members' statements and are then criticising them. You don't think that's offensive?</font>WOW. Never thought I'd see this day on this forum.

What makes you so confident that your way of watching the show is the RIGHT way of watching the show? As you said, you sacrifice logic while watching this show and what makes you think other people are happy doing the same?
Even while I was criticising the show, I was very careful to never attack the preferences of those who are liking the show. If this post is positivity, I don't wanna be a part of it, thanks. 😃 Apparently, you're allowed to hurt people just because you're liking the show? Have you ever heard of the term 'taste and preferences'? Why should all of us necessarily agree with you?

Here's how what you wrote sounds like if you were to turn it around: Why so much positivity? How can anyone like seeing a girl being degraded like this and enjoy it? How can anyone enjoy a regressive show where a woman's worth is judged by how well she cooks and what clothes she wears? How can anybody enjoy YuvAni when Suhani has become spineless?

See, doesn't sound so nice, does it? We have never attacked anyone else's preferences like this. I wonder who is actually being negative.

Also, I'm not a 'fan'. To me, a fan means someone who is blind in their love for someone/something, and I don't like being associated with the word. I am an SSEL viewer, and I'm so happy to NOT be a fan. 👍🏼

Not everyone is going to be satisfied in accepting the 'this is entertainment' excuse. Guess what? Some of us demand more and desire higher quality. You have no right to tell us that we can't do that. This is a FORUM- which means all views are welcome here. We do not police any one's expression of their views.
How DARE you tell us not to 'fill the forum with such negativity'? How would you like it if I asked you to not make such offensive posts? 😡

Maybe you should be aware that in a forum, differing views will be posted and this is a childish way to deal with it. If, on a day I'm not liking an episode and everyone else is, I'm not gonna post a topic which says, "Guys, please don't post such blindly appreciative posts, because it prevents us from coming and posting on this forum". If you have a problem with posts, you just ignore them, not attack the preferences of members who make them.

Thank you for making US feel like it's waste of time to come to this forum and also for discouraging us from posting here.</font>👍🏼<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"> Congratulations, and keep posting, because we are not in the habit of being the moral police here. 😉</font>

Apu, this is a sane forum and this is just someone putting forth their opinion. And some people are agreeing with this because they want to and it is their choice if they want to agree with this post or not. I am a fan of a lot of stuff and I certainly don't love suff blindly.

I am very sorry if any of my words hurt you but trust me, it was not my intention to hurt you 😊

Originally posted by: zainy215

Apu, this is a sane forum and this is just someone putting forth their opinion. And some people are agreeing with this because they want to and it is their choice if they want to agree with this post or not. I am a fan of a lot of stuff and I certainly don't love suff blindly.

I am very sorry if any of my words hurt you but trust me, it was not my intention to hurt you 😊

She has DIRECTLY quoted members' comments in her post and then criticised them. Correct me if I'm wrong, but this post comes under the IF Code of Conduct's section on BASHING.

Also, she has made comments saying that people might not like the show, but they shouldn't 'spoil' the show for anyone else and also not 'spread negativity'. In none of our so-called 'negative' posts, did we ever bash members. We never criticised people's preferences, and she is doing that.

Just tell me one thing, is this positivity? 😕 I guess my definition of 'positive' is incorrect then. She is implying people who don't like the show shouldn't post here, which is not correct. How about if I say people who like the show shouldn't post here? Weird, right?

Well, like Suhani said, "You didn't intend to, but you did hurt me". I am sorry Zainy, but I'm hurt today. I never knew people had so many problems with us. Was gonna be off and on here because of all of you, but really, if I'm causing so many problems for you all, I'd rather not be here. 😭

Originally posted by: clarity

She has DIRECTLY quoted members' comments in her post and then criticised them. Correct me if I'm wrong, but this post comes under the IF Code of Conduct's section on BASHING.

Also, she has made comments saying that people might not like the show, but they shouldn't 'spoil' the show for anyone else and also not 'spread negativity'. In none of our so-called 'negative' posts, did we ever bash members. We never criticised people's preferences, and she is doing that.

Just tell me one thing, is this positivity? 😕 I guess my definition of 'positive' is incorrect then. She is implying people who don't like the show shouldn't post here, which is not correct. How about if I say people who like the show shouldn't post here? Weird, right?

Well, like Suhani said, "You didn't intend to, but you did hurt me". I am sorry Zainy, but I'm hurt today. I never knew people had so many problems with us. Was gonna be off and on here because of all of you, but really, if I'm causing so many problems for you all, I'd rather not be here. 😭

what??????????? no no no apurva, you are the heart of this forum.
you cant leave us.

Apu I feel like I have hurt you and I am so sorry and I feel so upset to know you feel like this. I would like you to know that you are the heart of this forum and it is incomplete without your fantastic posts
And i really do love you a lot. *hugs you*

Originally posted by: wayback

Exactly what made me to post here... Otherwise I don't want to argue...because spreading positivity is not bad...
But highlighting some comments and saying that we spread negativity and ruin the mood of people... Really????
Apu don't feel bad... Cheers 😆 .i am with you...
And sorry to use the word FAN... I should use viewer instead...My fault.. 😛
pls Apu ignore... You have to continue posting and coming to forum for us if you are reading this then pls don't feel bad

@bold- Yeah, I mean, currently, we are being 'bashed' according to the IF COC. 😕😕 Being accused of spreading 'negativity' and 'spoiling the show for others'.

WOW. 😲

@bold2- Thanks a lot, Ashley. The show is not even watchable right now and with such posts, I don't feel welcome in this forum anymore. 👎🏼 Guys, if anyone has a problem with my posts, then please tell me DIRECTLY and not indirectly.

Ash, when I used to post my reviews, there were many who disagreed with me. That's part and parcel of being on a forum and I NEVER thought of it as 'negativity'. 😒 Obviously, we can't be praising the show all the time, right? Are we supposed to praise it even when we think its pathetic? 😆

I don't think we were being negative because we never bashed members and always expressed ourselves cautiously. Even yesterday, I didn't wanna say anything that would attack other members' preferences, but so-called 'positive' people think it's not negative to bash others. 😕

Side note: I am offended and hurt by this post.

Originally posted by: zainy215

Apu I feel like I have hurt you and I am so sorry and I feel so upset to know you feel like this. I would like you to know that you are the heart of this forum and it is incomplete without your fantastic posts
And i really do love you a lot. *hugs you*

I love you too, Zainy, and I'm sorry if I ever said anything to hurt you. 🤗 I am just offended and hurt by this post, 'cause she is directly criticising other members and me. It doesn't feel good.

*Hugs from me too*
😊