Spineless Si Ek Ladki- Where is Suhani?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi everyone! 😊

From the past one week, Suhani has consistently been disappointing me. I feel that SSEL should now stand for Spineless Si Ek Ladki.

What is wrong with Suhani? Really, what in the name of hell is wrong with her? 😡😡😡

Where is the self-respect she used to talk about so proudly?
Where is the dignity she would rush to protect had it been someone else?
Where is the strength of character?
Why has she become a doormat?

I truly didn't understand her in today's scene when she SMILES at him and delivers some crap about how Lata has taught her that she should take her time before making an important decision! 🤢😡🤢😡 Really, Suhani? You are being SO friendly to Yuvraj, just completely forgetting that he doesn't love you and the treatment he dished out to you during your marriage? You completely forgot that there were times he mislead you into believing he loved you?

The CVs promised a role reversal where we would see a Sadu Suhani with a Desperate Yuvraj, but I'm only seeing a Spineless Suhani with a Desperate Yuvraj right now. Her spinelessness is ruining YuvAni scenes for me too, 'cause I constantly keep asking myself- Where is the Spunky Suhani we saw earlier?

Also, she has taken it upon herself to be the BH Maid and it was disgusting to see her working like bonded labour for a bunch of people who don't appreciate her in the least. I just can't understand her at all.

We were all crying about Yuvraj not standing up for Suhani, but really, why should any of these people think about Suhani when she herself is a spineless doormat who doesn't care about herself or her self-respect?If Suhani doesn't care, why should he? ❓

I'm tired of ranting now, 'cause there will be no change from the CVs' side. Don't know why I'm still watching, TBH.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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she has become gopi bahu. i dont know how she digests abuses from dadi. just because she loves yuvraj, she will take anything. she has taken it before and will continue to take it.
but i liked the previous episode, how yuvraj said '' main soumya se pyar nahi karta, mujhe us se shadi karke kuch nahi milega.'' i am relieved that finally he said it instead of just saying '' get out soumya.''
and i think soumya was better in dealing with abuses. atleast she takes crap from no body.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sonarikafan

she has become gopi bahu. i dont know how she digests abuses from dadi. just because she loves yuvraj, she will take anything. she has taken it before and will continue to take it.
but i liked the previous episode, how yuvraj said '' main soumya se pyar nahi karta, mujhe us se shadi karke kuch nahi milega.'' i am relieved that finally he said it instead of just saying '' get out soumya.''
and i think soumya was better in dealing with abuses. atleast she takes crap from no body.



I agree with your entire post! SSEL is really annoying me right now. I too am glad Yuvraj just said it, instead of saying 'Get out Soumya'. 😆😆

@bold- I agree. She was much better and I really appreciate her for the stance she took in Krishna's house.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I can say CV only change any one caze of TRP...
cv shows which trp aunties want...
they are just trying to make suhani another crying bahu (punching bag bahu) here... feel like trp is always abt saas bahu dramaz...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Apu I feel the same way. I have no problem with her cooking or cleaning and stuff as long it is for herself and not for people who constantly abuse her and don't value her as an individual. I remember when Soumya was telling Dadi and co that they don't have to make her leave the BM as she'll leave herself because for Suhani, her self respect is very important.

I feel that these CVS don't understand women and issues surrounding them at all. From the time I've started watching almost all bigger issues revolving around women have been mishandled, its truely such a shame.

I want to like Yuvani because they do share such such an awesome chemstry but I find that lately as individuals they both have been very lacking. Their scenes fail to excite me as much because of the deterioration of their respective characters. Like you I'm tired of ranting to CVs who constantly fail to adress our issues.

I agree with Sona that as much as we dislike Soumya we can all agree that she handled the abuse she was suffering from her in-laws much better.

It seems that TRPS have once again triumphed over quality. Hopefully we have not lost the entire essence of SSEL.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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ah this is really a serious issue. i have not thought about it briefly before, but when i put myself in suhanis place, i can see how much abuses she is getting from everyone of the birla house. its really sad and heart touching.it must be hard, when everyone is eager to take out you flaws, and blame you for everything.
i think suhani should revolt now against them and should not take abuses anymore.
Edited by Sonarikafan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: clarity

Hi everyone! 😊

From the past one week, Suhani has consistently been disappointing me. I feel that SSEL should now stand for Spineless Si Ek Ladki.

What is wrong with Suhani? Really, what in the name of hell is wrong with her? 😡😡😡

Where is the self-respect she used to talk about so proudly?
Where is the dignity she would rush to protect had it been someone else?
Where is the strength of character?
Why has she become a doormat?

I truly didn't understand her in today's scene when she SMILES at him and delivers some crap about how Lata has taught her that she should take her time before making an important decision! 😡 Really, Suhani? You are being SO friendly to Yuvraj, just completely forgetting that he doesn't love you and the treatment he dished out to you during your marriage? You completely forgot that there were times he mislead you into believing he loved you?

The CVs promised a role reversal where we would see a Sadu Suhani with a Desperate Yuvraj, but I'm only seeing a Spineless Suhani with a Desperate Yuvraj right now. Her spinelessness is ruining YuvAni scenes for me too, 'cause I constantly keep asking myself- Where is the Spunky Suhani we saw earlier?

Also, she has taken it upon herself to be the BH Maid and it was disgusting to see her working like bonded labour for a bunch of people who don't appreciate her in the least. I just can't understand her at all.

We were all crying about Yuvraj not standing up for Suhani, but really, why should any of these people think about Suhani when she herself is a spineless doormat who doesn't care about herself or her self-respect?If Suhani doesn't care, why should he? ❓

I'm tired of ranting now, 'cause there will be no change from the CVs' side. Don't know why I'm still watching, TBH.


Oh well, if Lata says so then it must be true!🤢🤢

This is why I can't watch her without cringing. I've said this before, but if your husband is marrying (fake or otherwise) another woman, why the hell are you wearing your manglesutra and sindoor?

When Yuvraj reached for her hand, she should have placed the manglesutra on his palm. That would have been a powerful scene with few words needed. Tbh I think just about everyone on this site is fed up with Suhani's holier than thou/part time maid act. At least Ramish gets paid!

I still haven't figured out why the Hell everyone is so intent on showing Soumya the error of her ways. Did I miss something?? Why is Suhani wondering if Soumya loves Yuvraj or not. What the hell does that have to do with anything! Stupid girl!! 😡😡😡

If Soumya's own mother can disown her daughter, then who are Suhani and Yuvraj to be playing these games? Its just stupid. It is almost as stupid as SNS. Even Gopi went to hand her damn maglesutra back!!

The only (and this is a really long shot guys) way I can see this working is if the CV's are builded it up, and then when Dadi agrees that Soumya isn't whats best for Yuvraj (when pigs fly) and turns to Suhani to accept her, Suhani should say no. Then leave. Then let Yuvraj realise what he's lost.

I wanted to write an OS tonight, but I just can't with all this nonsense. Im too annoyed lol





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Posted: 10 years ago
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She's run off, Apu and that's just gopi vahu after drinking polyjuice potion.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Where is Suhani?... Well in AIIMS... the doctors are studying the medical marvel of a human being spineless... 😛😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: nancy1996

Where is Suhani?... Well in AIIMS... the doctors are studying the medical marvel of a human being spineless... 😛😉



🤣🤣

You're right. The AIIMS doctors are probably studying this medical marvel who is as spineless as a lizard. Maybe we should write letters to them so we can contribute to their research, what say? 😉

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