Where's Krishna?

Had he had a bit of patience like his father, we wudn't have seen these days.
He shud have not be rude to her at that point, but this Soumya..had she been a good wife and truly loved him, she would have still be there with him, show him that his sis and mom's bad deeds and be with him when he is in stress of not getting job. She should have changed him to a good gentle, calm man..instead of changing herself.

It's ok that she decided to separate with him; it's her wish, but she don't have any right to target some other's husband. No one deserve such a wife who breaks away the bond of 7 lives this easily, not for his rude behavior, but for her desire and eye on other married guy. It is better to die than do that. Esp. when this man isn't bad but realized his mistake, apologized and again offered her to come back.

It's his mom and sis who did something by plotting at first place just like what she is doing now. It is all the angry at that moment he showed her. He didn't have any cunning thoughts, like desire for her wealth and get it thru her. He really wished to look after her well. He even did cooking and all those when she did nothing. He even respected her clothing and defended her from his family at first. But they tried to show him negative, just to give this Soumya, a reason to enter Yuvani's married life.

Y punish him for what his family did to her, y leave him inorder to escape rants from them? Anyway, it is Krishna' good fate that she went away from his life..as soon as she left, he got settled with a job.

I still don't get y he still wanted her, when he clearly understood wat is in her mind and to what a low character she stooped?
They must show what happened to him. One of the good performers just like Sharad..they portray all emotions thru their eyes. They live in their roles.

They shud show him get promoted in his job, doing well, with a gud, understanding wife who changed him from arrogant to calm..and now turned a gentle man with no anger, harsh or arrogance..he shud come with his wife and thank her for leaving him. That's a tight slap for her.

Well, I agree with you that she shouldn't go after Yuvraj knowing that he is Suhani's husband, but I'll have to respectfully disagree with you on Soumya-Krishna.😊

Krishna was from the starting shown to be a hot-tempered and ill-mannered guy. Later on, he became abusive and started showing misogynistic tendencies. Granted, Soumya is a villain now, but during her marriage with Krishna, I found nothing wrong with her behaviour.

Why is it that in Indian society, we always expect the woman to bend over backwards for her husband's family and 'change' her husband? Men should be raised by their parents to be good human beings, it's not the wife's responsibility to reform her husband. It is expected that no matter how bad the man is, the wife should put up with it and even try to change him. A wife is not a teacher or a nanny, she is an equal partner. If the husband is abusive, it is on him to change and not the wife's duty to take any abuse his family doles out to her.

In the beginning, despite Soumya trying her hardest to fit in and compromise with Krishna's anger, he listened to his controlling mother and sister and constantly tried to dominate and "tame" Soumya. He had many dialogues where he said stuff like, "I'm gonna set her right" for doing nothing more than going out to meet her friend. He was abusive and had a patriarchal mindset where he believed that he had the right to control her every movement and action and she should be the in house maid. He actually believed in Rakhi's stupid Mata drama and couldn't see through his mother and sister's manipulation. They vilified Soumya and he believed them. He also manhandled her and humiliated her in public and would have slapped her had Suhani not intervened.

His mother and sister were hell bent on disliking her from the beginning and had a typical patriarchal mindset where they thought she should act like a slave. They were in the wrong, and he should have stopped them instead of joining in.

Clarity, i don't say there is any wrong with Soumya when he was arrogant with her. I was always with her, when she struggled there and when she opposed him bravely. I was even happy when she left his house with Suhani, but the point is she separated from him for not this behavior but for Yuvi, all the pleasures in this house and to escape from hard days there with his mom and sis for easy going life. He realized his mom and sis are wrong, he even scolded them and accused them that it's all bcoz of them. He asked her to come, but she didn't go. Not bcoz she don't want to be with him, but for Dadi's poisonous words that Yuvi is hers and Krish don't deserve her.

That is y i said it is her choice. But truly, Krish isn't a bad guy. It is that time when he is nervous, all stressed and stuck between his family one side and Soumya another side. He didn't manhandle her, that she has to divorce him. There is a stream of line between manhandling woman and being rude with her when he is shown that she hid a letter from some other man by his sis. It's that time when he burst out fully. Bad times, differences, misunderstandings, manipulations by other ppl around and contrast of opinions always happen in every couple. It doesn't mean we have to get separated. If it's the thing, then every woman has to get separated. It's great to remain together and fulfill the marriage promises and show such ppl around their place together. Not in beating them and become lower than them and prove them they are right. It's great to win hearts and change ppl's opinion on them, like Suhani. See Sharad, he easily came to know what she is when he at first felt, she isn't for Yuvi. Now he can easily say, she is the best Yuvi got, ever in his life.

Even Suhani shud have asked Yuvi for divorce, when he shouted on her due to Dadi and Menaka's words. Did she do? No. Bcoz she knew at the end of the day, that Yuvi didn't mean it. And it is done by Menaka.(she don't know about Dadi's hand in it)

It's obvious that Krishna isn't happy and enjoying being rude to her. Had she been with him, he would have surely repented for what he did and admitted his mistakes. SHE DIVORCED HIM NOT FOR HIS BEHAVIOR BUT FOR OTHER MAN..That's my point. Soumya wud have forgave him and return to him..when he apologized her, right when he knew the letter is meant for his sis and his sis lied to him if not for her lust of wanting Yuvi and for Birla mansion's pleasures. He wud have been there for her safety against his mother and sis, had she returned. But due to her act of being in other's house for some other person, made him bit more violent with her deeds. She need some excuse to divorce him for Yuvi and the pleasures she could get there Krishna for sure, is lot better than Soumya. He definitely don't deserve her, not the other way round.

Iam not among the ppl who think woman shud bend infront of him. Both are equal. But according to vows during saath pheras, it is one of wife's duties to bring him towards good if he started going in wrong path and always be with him in his wrong days. After parents, wife is almost next to them..it's not his mistake that his parents didn't teach him..and it doesn't make her a servant or any low if she change him into good..it makes her more above him..and he'll respect her like Goddess if she do that. He isn't any evil who after being wrong with her, got happy and did all this for his saddistic pleasures. We can easily say he isn't one among those types who mistreat woman. He didn't stooped to that level neither like her, who can't be changed. So, is she right by changing herself instead of changing him? But yes, everyone has his/her opinion which can't be completely wrong/right.

Well, I am unequivocally against whatever Soumya did after coming to BH and getting influenced by Dadi and plotting against YuvAni, but we have to differentiate between that and what happened with her in Krishna's house. People, conditions and actions are not black and white. She is totally in the wrong right now, but she was not in the wrong when she was fighting back against Krishna and his abusive family.

Anyway, at the beginning when she left for BH with Suhani, She DID leave him because of his family's behaviour towards her. That time, being with Yuvraj wasn't anywhere in her mind. That happened after coming to BH. I agree with you that once he realised his mom and sis were wrong and asked her to come back, her motivation was not to escape abuse but to stay with Yuvraj. Having said that, if her reason to not return to him were something else, she wouldn't be wrong in not going back to a family where they all harass her.

Also, comparing YuvAni with KrishYa doesn't work because Yuvraj and Suhani have had disagreements and he has been angry with her, but he has never joined in with Dadi to denigrate and humiliate her, has never raised his hand to her, has never physically manhandled her (holding her tight enough to bruise her arms, pushing her), degrading her and humiliating her in public. These are all things which Krishna has done. There is absolutely no comparison between YuvAni and KrishYa.

I agree with you that her motivation for the divorce was Yuvraj and her going after her BFF's husband is an evil thing to do. However, because Soumya has become evil, I think you aren't able to differentiate between the abuse that she suffered through in Krishna's house and what she is doing now. Without sympathising with Soumya's actions now, we can definitely say that what Krishna did was wrong too. I don't think one of them is better than the other, both are useless. What Soumya is doing right now and what Krishna did to her are BOTH wrong.

Originally posted by: -LovelyLakshmi-

Do u remember? During the first days of her stay at the Birlas, she recalled Krishna. That implies she def. had no plans to part from him for entire life. It's when these three brainwashed her and showed her a dream land in their house and in Yuvi's heart for her. That's the reason i said in other post that she has to pay for coming into Dadi's words.

Exactly my point. She is as wrong as Dadi for agreeing to this whole 'steal Yuvi from Suhani' scheme, however, in the beginning when she came to BH, she was thinking about Krishna and was very sad about her marriage. It's her lack of strength of character that she got seduced by Dadi's Birla Bahu dreams. What I'm saying is that it is separate from what Krishna did to her.

What he did was very wrong and he joined his mother and sister in tormenting her. So, I don't think Krishna is a good guy because despite being an adult, he joined in his mom and sis in tormenting Soumya and that was utterly wrong. Similarly, what Soumya is doing right now is also utterly wrong. They are not at all suitable for each other. Personally, I don't want them together but the CVs will probably bring them back together.

Lakshmi I kind of agree with u coz I kind of forgot the forgettable couple good and bad scenes lol. What a miss match these 2 where hardly any real chemistry so its obvious that I dnt rememeber much lol. Bt what I do remember was that if krishna was mean to snaky than she was just as mean to him and if anything she kind of instigated and provoked him to behave even worse. They really where just a destructive couple and together brought out the worst in each another and they had nothing in common besides love. Furthermore she wasn't some sort of damsel in distress whilst she was living with him she was smart, feisty and willing to deal with everything. She had always been aware of his ways from the very beginning and b4 marriage knew hw to smooth him over and see her point of view I remem their 1 good scene b4 marriage where they where in her room and it was raining I think she calmed him down there I cnt remem much though. In no way am I saying that Krishna's behavior was right or even that she should have been more tolerate of him and not have defended herself. Bt she knew what he was like b4 he is a hot head he reacts and thinks later. She knew the diff in their status and that he did have a major chip on his shoulder bt love was blind back then. Bt that is still no excuse for his behavior bt the way I see him is that he is just abit to honest and so his reactions are therefore brutally honest as well. If he sees something wrong he is gona tell it straight and not gona hold back and u add that with his massive ego, his inferiority complex and that just is a bad combo and the end result is him doing stuff like slapping his sister(although he was right to do so). If we say that yuvraj treats suhani anyway coz he subconsciously thinks of her as his own so does krishna for snaky. Quite frankly if anything I felt like the way they both treated there wifes was just down right disgusting, they both wanted to hurt them. Yes yuvraj was more in control, he is a controlled savage anyway bt there was a certain meanness in his ways. A certain nastiness ab his behavior I dnt knw maybe coz rajshri is the superior actress and her expressions are bang on and therefore her scenes where just more memorable and impactful for me that I feel that yuvraj was nastier than krishna. And unlike snaky suhani was actually quite scared of yuvraj b4 watch their scenes together she was terrified of him. I dnt think snaky was ever scared of krishna bt yuvraj managed to somehow have that impact on suhani. Quite frankly I wnt ever forget when he grabbed her and she said he was hurting her or when he told her to 'shut up, just shut up suhani'(uff I wanted to slap him) or that scene when prats got sick and he screamed at her in front of the whole family and threw that gift she got for him. I loved that scene when snaky went to suhani after that scene and said these men think just coz we married them that we their property or slaves or something like that. Snaky was able to defend herself when she was with krishna which I am very proud of bt Suhani I am very disappointed with just in the name of love she disgraced herself and that love and allowed herself to be treated like trash. When she finds out the truth along with everything else I want her to remember all those scenes of him treating her life that and throw it in his face and never allow herself to be treated like that by any man. As for snaky I agree on your points ab her being disgusting coz she really left krishna coz she wanted yuvraj and I think subconsciously that she started wanting his attention whilst she was still with krishna and not solely afterwards. That lie detector scene when yuvraj started being genuine with suhani she wanted his attention back on her and started being more open with him from then. Really Yuvraj truly started all this when he started flashing his money all over the place and he was the 1 who made krishna go even more mad then he already was and than that thing went mad to. And I seriously dnt understand why they made krishna want her back after he realised her true intentions and made him drug yuvraj coz that was very out of character for him. Bt this show only likes to think deeply about snaky's motives and doesn't care for the the rest of their characters. Bt he really got saved when she left him lol he should thank his lucky stars. And I still ship him and suhani together.

I wud have no pbm had she returned to him earlier after some days. But now, no way. Krishna doesn't deserve that bitch. Atleast like her, he didn't desire for her money. I seriously hope, they show Soumya die alone in asylum. No one shud marry her, please for God's sake. Suhani shud n't forgive her bcoz Krish or Yuvi started it. It is she who took it to heights and thought of backstabbing her frnd. Suhani can leave Yuvi for some days, come back to him, forgive him and her father too, but not Soumya. They atleast thought of good for Suhani unlike Soumya.

I never shipped Krish and Som as a couple. And i don't justify Krishna's behavior at that time either. But i won't justify her breaking her relation with him to marry a married man. She thought of him at first, bcoz she knew he didn't do it willingly and not completely bad guy. She wud have went back if not for Yuvi.

But the point is both Krishna and Yuvraj have their own flaws. No one is perfect. Yuvraj is also mean to Suhani at times, but she didn't separate from him, though she felt bad. Bcoz she knew at her bottom of her heart that he has some good too in him. She won his heart back and his frndship.

Now, if Soumya made it look like Suhani has a thing for Ankit to Yuvi, and out of over jealous..if he bursts at her atleast once like Krishna did, do u want her to divorce him for whole life?

What Krishna did is wrong, but it doesn't mean Soumya takes it as an excuse to do more wrong that he and his family did to her. Had she believed in him, she wud have found a way to understand him.

It is rude of him that he didn't like her working..i hated him most for it, but he didn't believe her either just like Soumya has no trust on him. Bcoz may be he has in mind that she can meet Yuvi if she goes out and also he has that feeling that he had no job when she has.

They want to justify Soumya's not returning to him, that's y they showed him want her back, which doesn't happen in real world case.

Forget sticking to marriage, this girl has no respect to that bond. Many days, she wore Krishna's kumkum on her forehead and started looking Yuvi with lust. She wud have atleast removed it. She didn't till Dadi gave her new dresses.

It is correct when she said all men are like this, that is true bcoz she had it experienced. But she didn't think the background cause which resulted in it. That someone probably his sis caused this, if so, then what? She cud have done that when she is away from him. But she sat there enjoying all the pleasures of that house. Men in this show are really no thinkers and they always listen evil and hurt good, which is the most hating thing.

I feel ashamed that i once liked Su- So's frndship and felt it awesome.