Pratima's Yuvraj vs Dadi's Yuvraj: Why Yuvraj was silent today - Page 6

Originally posted by: anita_m

I've just read the posts on the first page. Clarity, great analysis, and good replies from Elita and yanks. I was not happy with yesterday's episode. Yuvraj has left the door open for Snaky to continue her fantasy, and there is actually some element of doubt as to whether Yuvraj still has feelings for her, which she so doesn't deserve--and neither does Suhani. Suhani was very irritating in her 'somu-somu' crap -- oh get some sense, girl! Apart from trying to manao someone who was totally in the wrong anyway, and a proven liar, how can she forget all her doubts and confusion from yesterday and fixate on making Snaky feel better rather than concentrating on analyzing what all these things mean--Soumya telling Yuvraj she loves him, pretending she was so drunk on 1 peg that she thought Yuvraj was Krishna (oh come ON!), the lie revealed when she learnt Snaky wants to divorce Krishna, Yuvraj's flare-up and uneasiness...
And like seeing a film can solve life's great problems.
Just stupid.
But Clarity's post did actually make sense of it -- I hope the writers take a cue from it. I totally agree that Yuvraj cannot accept that he might come to love Suhani, and he's certainly not there yet. The points the others made are also valid. But this kabhi khushi-kabhi gam fluctuations from day to day, with Suhani never really getting any real victory, is tiresome.
Another point, thinking back to the NY party and the song chosen for Yuvraj-Suhani, Yuvraj did give Snakey a meaningful look when he said 'haqueekat ki duniya mein chahat nahi hai'' (For those whose Hindi isn't their strongest point, the verse roughly translates to: Sagas of love are printed in books; love does not exist in real life; In the market of the world, this is a commodity; that no one needs. This is a useless, worthless thing...)
Maybe Yuvraj's heartbreak over Snaky (even if it was only a crush) may have made him feel that all this love stuff is not for him. Maybe Snaky's persistence in telling him that he still loves her has shaken him a bit. Maybe somewhere it's a kind of sweet vindication, though on the face of it he's too concerned about what it will do to Suhani to find out the truth. That, I think, was partly the purpose of the scene with Sharad in the garden the previous day--to be reminded that Suhani loves him and TRUSTS him.

Yes, I've already said this once but Suhani sometimes looks like a pushover when she doesn't react appropriately to people who mistreat her. I feel like the CVs regularly conflate being good with being a doormat which is not correct. Good people are those stand up to evil doers. They also make Suhani ignore obvious cues from Soumya, like yesterday, when Suhani was picking out clothes for her and Soumya became hysterical, Suhani didn't think even once why Soumya had such an extreme reaction to being told to get read in 15 mins. Why make her out to be so ignorant? 😲

Yuvraj has definitely given up on love. He had very high expectations from Soumya and had decided that she was it, so her betraying him completely closed the doors of his heart to love. Of course, he never even considered Suhani someone he could love because of her looks, so what his heart is experiencing is new to him. It's like looking at a food item, deciding you don't like it and then reluctantly liking it once you start eating. When people decide against something, it takes a lot of time to change that decision. That song was chosen carefully by the CVs to depict Yuvraj's confusion and lack of trust in him having a happy life. The problem is that Yuvraj himself is not willing to give love a second chance, so it is tough for him to see Suhani from a romantic standpoint.

Just wanted to add that this was an amazing post Clarity. Something that was really needed considering the episodes we've had to stomach lately! Hopefully Pratima's Yuvraj wins the battle sooner rather than later😊

Nice post buddy 😳 agree with u

Originally posted by: SaJanLuv14

Clarity your posts are always a pleasure to read 😃 I agree with your post and you've perfectly described Yuvraj's turmoil. However, I'll definitely say I was surprised when Yuvraj spoke about his role as Suhani's husband. He clearly stated he was committed and in recognition of his responsibilities (Pratima's upbringing, clearly not Dadi's.) That wake up call once again did not bring any shame to Soumya. 😡 I don't know what is going to shake this girl? The only thing I can think of is Yuvraj's confession and when Suhani breaks her friendship with her. At that point forget RagMen, even Dadi won't be able to stand against that.

As for Pratima I hope she continues to stay blessed in the show, if Dadi had raised Yuvraj completely forget today I think he would have gotten rid of Suhani long ago. Dadi's pretty-new/used-ugly-throw away mentality is sickening. Soumya is her latest upbringing and creation. Even Rags has a certain sense of sophistication and is a respected villain in the show compared to Soumya. Soumya pretends to be sweet and amazing when in reality she's burning jealousy inside.

What bothers me is that why doesn't Soumya herself tell Suhani that she loves Yuvraj? Suhani has directly confronted her at least 2 times and like Soumya said she does remember a good amount from that night (at least the most important ILY part.) Suppose Yuvraj even agreed, she wants to make Suhani look like an unsuccessful partner/friend/person and Yuvraj as the beechara husband. Soumya herself was to look like God's miracle in Yuvraj's life so that way to others she doesn't look like the "other women," instead she looks like a blessing in disguise whose paid Birla's hospitality off in the royalist way. 😡

Soumya believes what she is doing is right because she thinks Yuvraj is trapped in a loveless marriage. Dadi's goading doesn't help because Dadi has convinced her that she is destined to be with Yuvi. Soumya's double standards and hypocrisy are exactly why people hate her more than RagMen. 😡Although RagMen are villains too, they are at least not disingenuous about who they are. They don't pretend to be angels and don't fake it. They are villains you like watching, 'cause you like seeing their plans foiled but Soumya is someone you just wanna kick out of BH. Soumya is a really dishonest person, look at the way she hides everything from Suhani and acts frightened when Suhani questions her. She is scared to death of losing her "Sweet Soumya" image that she tries so hard to maintain. I hate people like her who shirk dealing with the consequences of their actions.

As for Yuvi, I am waiting for the day when he will consider Suhani his equal in both his heart and mind. That will be the day he will realise what love actually is and finally let go of all his prejudices. He must realise that love is not finding the perfect person, but learning to love an imperfect person perfectly.

Originally posted by: sandiab

Guys what an awesome, awesome discussion I loved reading it. I will add my thoughts more about the actual topic a little later but 1 thing that caught my eye and I got to ask about is the color of suhani skin truly a barrier for Yuvraj? I have never seen him make an issue of it, if anything he has never been shown to actually care ab it even in the beginning he loved souyma he couldn't care less what suhani looked like. And I dnt think he sees her as an ugly girl coz she is dark. His main problem has always been that her father took away his right to choose his own partner. He has been from the outset thought that he would never fall for her coz he didn't choose her and this right was taken away from him. And more so he wasn't and isn't willing to hand over his heart to any1 so they can break it again, I dnt think it was like a check list when it came to her where he ticked off reasons as to why he would never fall for her- fairness, thin, rich wasn't so much on that. Am I missing something coz I missed a few episodes in the beginning of the show ? And chaipatti- means tea wife or what coz it sounds bad bt I dnt knw what it means and that's the only thing he calls her

@bold- Yes, Sandi, I do think it's a barrier for him because the very reason why he was dismissive of Suhani from the beginning was because he equated dark with ugly. You are right that he never thought about Suhani, precisely because he never saw her as someone who mattered because of how he perceived her looks. I feel that now he is letting go of that prejudice because he has now started seeing her as a person rather than just a collection of body parts and skin colour. This happens a lot. You might meet someone for the first time and not think they are beautiful, but as time passes, everything you like about them as a person starts reflecting on their face and you start getting attracted to them. I think that is what is happening with Yuvraj.

@bold italics- It was a checklist for him when it came to Soumya. She checked all the right boxes. Fair, thin, rich etc. Suhani was never even in consideration because he never thought of her as a woman he could be attracted to. Men behave very differently with girls they think of as women and those who they don't think of as potential partners. Look at his behaviour with Suhani pre-marriage. He only started being nice to her once Sharad told him it would help woo Soumya. He used to get quite annoyed with Suhani in the beginning. He just thought of her as one of the boys- kind of sexless.

Originally posted by: Parm.

Just wanted to add that this was an amazing post Clarity. Something that was really needed considering the episodes we've had to stomach lately! Hopefully Pratima's Yuvraj wins the battle sooner rather than later😊

Thanks a lot, Parm! 😳
Pratima's Yuvraj will definitely be the ultimate winner. We just have to wait for it.

Originally posted by: Akdhaparijatluv

Nice post buddy 😳 agree with u

Thanks for reading and liking it, buddy! ☺️😉

Originally posted by: Elita

Let's see how the blackmail scenario plays out. I, for one, want it to be a test of Yuvraj's feelings for Suhani. I want him to show us the extent to which he can go to protect Suhani. 😳 I want a Yuvraj vs Soumya battle to play out.

You got it right!

All these qualities will disappear in a few years and then what do you have left? A hollow person you can't love because all the things you liked about them are no longer there? Look at Dadi and her botox obsession- she is a shallow person and has nothing to offer to anyone.

awesome post clarity👏

Originally posted by: shamil

awesome post clarity👏

you make a lot of sense here

Thanks a lot. 😳

P.s. what is your name?