I thank the TM who made this thread and all those who commented on it.
I myself felt out of place on a site ironically called India Forums. And made a topic on how forum could be more inclusive.
But apart from few, people started bashing me for it and accused me of trying to control and dictate who joins the site and who doesn't!😲
I am not against foreigners or NRIs. But I will definitely speak out at the excess of ignorant, baseless and hateful comments on India. And often on whole South Asia by those from US or UK.
I mean it is really a joke if you have to give clarifications on even basic things on a site like "India" Forums!
I have seen utterly ignorant and weird comments on even mytho and history discussions.
In BW section, people will readily bash country and its people just to defend a celeb. Or will express concern for future generations of India, just because they did not accept shitty AIB humour!
Many things happen in other countries also. But we do not generalise them! Sikh gurudwara, Mosque, Hindu temple attacked in USA, but do we bash the USA and its people? No!
Then why bashing, abusing, stereotyping is reserved only for India?
The double standards are evident here. Fans from Pakistan burnt effigies or broke TV sets, no one bashed them. Fans from India made spoofs or bashed, then instantly others (including NRIs, foreigners) chimed in to call all Indians jokers, illiterate, fools!
Can few men in Nirbhaya documentary represent all Indian men? How idiotic to think like that!
When we criticise our country and issues, they readily join us. But if we talk about their country also, then we get bashed.
It is not like we cannot differentiate between genuine debate and criticism and pure hatred, ignorant comments.
In debate mansion also I have seen threads bashing Indians for being sentimental, or emotional fools, mocking them for any pride they have in their culture and writing comments like - do Indians even know smell of flowers considering how polluted India is?🤢
Suddenly the same people disappear if there is a thread on their countries, religions.
Even if we give genuine explanations and experiences of having actually lived in India, we get mocked as blind patriots who cannot take criticism and live in fairytale world.
I have often felt like leaving this site altogether. It is sick how you have to either ignore, tolerate abuse, keep giving explanations or get mocked even for any explanation you give!
Some NRIs and foreigners here (some NOT all), even have the nerve to tell you that they do not have to have lived in India to know about it, claim they know better and keep trashing explanations you give!😲
And moderators, NEVER took action. Unless we came all the way to this section, begging for action to be taken! Or unless the thread had words about other countries.
There is no inclusiveness, respectful atmosphere here.
Even if you do not know about a country or had bad experience there, still you cannot generalise and bash it! Shouldn't there be basic decorum?
I myself criticised India, Indian government, Indian shows etc many times. It is not like I am a blind patriot. But criticism and bashing with clear cut hate towards a country are DIFFERENT.
Funny how respect of a celeb is more important than basic respect towards whole countries!
Take our concerns seriously instead of mocking us and expecting us to tolerate shit silently or leave site quietly. Or else please do change your name so that people like us do not get misled and do not expect anything at all.
It's a site for people to bash all things Indian?
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