What is wrong with Meera?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Have u all ever though abt how Meera was before & how she is now? After marriage, her adamancy has not changed. But her self confidence has reduced. When a man insulted her mom, she slaped him infront of every one. But now though she is happy with her husband, it is afer so much beatings & insults. Y the hell has the character become so mean? They could instead show her as more intelligent & sharp...😕

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Posted: 18 years ago
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in susral u have to act different than ur maayka...
if she behaved like she did in her maayka
she couldnt be able to win sumar and stuff...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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this is to show that in our society, after marriage, a girl has to change herself in order to blend with her in-laws family...the meera of before was the wayward, bullheaded girl (albeit with good intentions at heart)...and the shagun after marriage is the tolerant, patient, dutiful wife and daughter-in-law. it is symbolic of the true society
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i totally agree with tassamsi...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Ya true. Meera needs to blend with her in laws. But she needs to show some intelligence too in the show. She is becoming dumber day by day
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i think she'll come back later in the show in a very subtle way and sumer will help her but for now she needs to win sumer's love
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Posted: 18 years ago
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I know from experience that you cannot be as you were before marriage especially when you are living with your inlaws. You have to pick your battles. I am sure that when the big battles come, Meera will take charge and show them all what she is made of!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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ya i agree wd u.... but yes her self confidence has reduced....... but u have to do it to........
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Posted: 18 years ago
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agree with u she no longer is the meera who use to fight for her rights
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: tasshamsi

this is to show that in our society, after marriage, a girl has to change herself in order to blend with her in-laws family...the meera of before was the wayward, bullheaded girl (albeit with good intentions at heart)...and the shagun after marriage is the tolerant, patient, dutiful wife and daughter-in-law. it is symbolic of the true society

I disagree with you. I was disappointed with the way Meera change. I agree in your sasural you do need to be patient, tolerant. But if your husband hits or beats you in anyway and wants to marry another -- you as a wife should not only not tolerate it but we as mothers should also teach our daughters not tolerate this behavior and teach our sons how to treat and respect women.

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