Unequal Justice of Ayodhya

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How is it possible that Ayodhyavasis allowed Kaikeyi, a queen who caused their King's death and exiled their beloved Ram to continue to live in their city while Sita who displayed every good quality is rejected by them? If Ayodhyans forgave Kaikeyi because Ram forgave her, this forgiveness should also have been extended to Sita who was re-accepted by Ram after Raavan's death.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Maybe it's because they felt threatened by the fact that Sita could be so, divine, and so pure, and couldn't probably relate to her, but could relate to this grey, more human side of Kaikeyi.
P.S. it's just a guess people, I mean no offense.

Also, Sita wasn't re-accepted by Ram because she wasn't rejected by him in the first place.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: newmoon

How is it possible that Ayodhyavasis allowed Kaikeyi, a queen who caused their King's death and exiled their beloved Ram to continue to live in their city while Sita who displayed every good quality is rejected by them? If Ayodhyans forgave Kaikeyi because Ram forgave her, this forgiveness should also have been extended to Sita who was re-accepted by Ram after Raavan's death.

Bold - Sita had committed no wrong. So, the question of Ram "re-accepting" her does not arise at all.

Your query is exactly why Ramayan is much more relevant in today's times than we think.

The younger generation - AND this very show - has no qualms in judging Ram and Sita by today's standards. But, when it comes to debating society's role in employing different standards for Kaikeyi and Sita, nobody talks about it.

It is a basic reflection of hypocrisy of today's society. Even today's society is hypocritical - let's not forget it. We like to adopt different strokes for different folks.

Someone who commits a sin gets forgiven (perfectly fine), but dirt is unfairly unleashed upon someone who is clean. Doesn't that sound all too familiar?

But, the Ayodhyaavaasis DID learn the folly of their ways - but it was too late.

If I have to give a philosophical explanation -
We are all pawns in the hands of Time. Sita's exile was meant to happen (due to Rishi Bhrigu's curse to Vishnu) - Ayodhyavaasis were just a medium to cause the ill-fated events to happen.

Bhagwaan ki maya kaun jaane?
Edited by lexy_rix - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have learnt from life that righteous people have to give a lot more agneepariksha than the one's that are not. People make righteous people to go through hell for even the smallest error that they make. I think probably that's Gods way of testing them to take them to the highest spiritual level. Sita's case was to prove that.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@newmoon I have lot to write on this question. But have already written quite a lot on it in the symbolism thread. Could you please read that. it is a sticky now.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: raima18

I have learnt from life that righteous people have to give a lot more agneepariksha than the one's that are not. People make righteous people to go through hell for even the smallest error that they make. I think probably that's Gods way of testing them to take them to the highest spiritual level. Sita's case was to prove that.


Yeah , Agree with you 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ayodhya did provide unequal justice, no doubt. But it was Raj Dharma that exiled Queen Sita. Note here, when I say Queen, I mean Queen. The wife resided with the husband Shri Rama. The King Shri Rama did exile the Queen.
One of the foremost rules of Raj Dharma is that a king should be one with the praja, the King has to take a decision the praja would take. As the praja wanted Sita to leave, she had to leave. Besides, my feeling is that Raghunandan sent Sita away simply because He would prefer hands pointing at Him over her, and He wanted her dignity saved.

About Kaikeyi, the praja saw Shri Rama forgive her, but they didn't see Sita do the agnipariksha. Visual proof is the most important for anything and everything.

I also agree with @raima18. Those who are good go through the most agniparikshas. For it is the that they will attain God.
Hari Maya cannot be understood by us 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you all for responding. When I said Ram re- accepted Sita, I meant in the eyes of Ayodhyavasis who thought he was overlooking her previous transgressions which of course there were none. Sita was given a cruel punishment because she was thought to be impure, any other woman in this situation would not have survived. This means the punishment in Ayodhya for being considered impure was death. On the other hand, Kaikeyi who was Queen at the time committed treachery, disloyalty to the crown and even caused the King's death and this is a pardonable offense. I am not saying Kaikeyi should be punished, I just find it strange that for Ayodhyavasis, a woman's perceived impurity is considered a more serious offense than treachery and conspiring against the King.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: newmoon

How is it possible that Ayodhyavasis allowed Kaikeyi, a queen who caused their King's death and exiled their beloved Ram to continue to live in their city while Sita who displayed every good quality is rejected by them? If Ayodhyans forgave Kaikeyi because Ram forgave her, this forgiveness should also have been extended to Sita who was re-accepted by Ram after Raavan's death.


Actually you have a very valid Point

What i think is that when Ram was Exiled , Ayodhyans did revolt against the king , and the king was Dashrath that time . In some versions , Dashrath is himself said to have pleaded Ram to overthrow him and grab the throne . His mental balance was lost after Ram's Exile , and though personally he never wanted this to happen, in the praja's eyes , he was always Guilty.

The injustice done to Ram happened right before Praja's Eyes , to which they were witness of and needed no proof , and praja's sympathy and support lied with him , It was due to Ram's Public request to his people that the Ayodhya waasis didnt turn offensive towards Kekai and Dashrarth , their anger burst on Manthara though😆

Plus there is one more point to add , when Ram Left , many walked alongside him to forest , in this case rather than throwing kekai out , they themselves left ayodhya


Mind of Praja is really a diificult one to understand😆
Edited by Shivam... - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Kaikeyi was punished for her sins, in front of their eyes, so the praja did not revolt against her. She indirectly killed her husband, her son Bharat renounced her for 14 years, and she lived in utter isolation without seeing any of her ambitions come to fruit, and she did penance for those 14 years, so she was suitably punished.

Sita was not guilty. We all know that, but in the praja's eyes she was, and they did not see her agni pariksha and thus did not believe in it. Which is why they revolted.

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