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It is said that trust is blind and if trust has to deliver you should have that kind of belief in your trust. It is said that faith should not be questioned. And we all know any question on faith doesnt matter which religion what all hungama happens.
But do we know how the process of trust happens. Because in the name of blind trust, blind faith what we are doing is showing of as blind trust and blind faith but if things dont go our way shout at God or remain skeptical if God will really help us.
Yes it is always good to have intuitions, positive feelings. But if you dont validate your feelings logically then you will be in the position of trusting yet not trusting.
So can we question. Yes we can. We can tell God our doubt and request him to help us clear it. Even Arjun does the same when Krishna gives him BG. He asks so many questions. Does asking questions belittle the status of Arjun as Krishna's best friend. No. For Krishna still he is his friend.
And Arjun doesnt ask Krishna's power, yet Krishna vindicates Arjun's choice. And if you look how could Arjun make that choice. To understand it we have to go back to many incidents in Arjun-Krishna relationship where everytime when Arjuna needed help the most, Krishna had given him that. If Arjun got Panchali it was because of Krishna. If Arjun did Tapasya for Pasupathastra it was because of direction of Krishna. Krishna's help to Panchali in multiple occasions or rather viewing Krishna's actions at a subconscious level a trust develops for Arjun.
So action is the first basis of trust. So look at how Hanuman establishes himself. How beautifully he sings the song of Ram-Siya. That action invokes a positive feeling in Sita. And she is almost sure he is Ram's sevak.
Still she demands solid proof. Something specific to Ram. Where Arjun knew Krishna, Sita is seeing Hanuman for the first time and he is claiming to be Ram's sevak.
Trust in existing relationships in strengthened using actions. But to form a new relation something connected to a strong relation has to be there. And Hanuman gives the solid proof of her strong existing relation.
And does Hanuman gets offended by Sita asking the question. No. Because Sita tells the reason she is asking proof.
And look at one of the most important things. Sita trusts her feelings. For trust to begin the first step is in trusting your feelings, then asking God directions to bring it logically in visual medium. Once in visual medium for existing relations observe the actions and for new one look for connect with existing relation.
If you follow this process , first you will trust yourself, then you will understand God in a better way and will learn to trust him the way trust should happen. Let the process of trust start with proof. Because then it is long lasting, fearless and more strong. Without understanding the process of trusting dont claim to trust blindly. it never works.
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