17/06/2016
Today Sita's questions ascertained what I had analyzed in past episodes. The woman of Lanka is allowing Sita to escape because they fear their survival. Also Sita spoke why she doesn't want to go. That she will be questioned by society. This also I had discussed earlier. There is no proof of how Sita was in Lanka. It comes only when Hanuman a neutral person who has never interacted with her before sees her in Ashoka Vatika. He is the proof of her purity, her commitment towards Ram. It shows the selfish motive of Mandodari. If it doesn't affect her husband she will not protect another woman. Isn't that true . Isnt that what Mandodari has been doing or Mandodari like women has been doing. Motive of her action is fear. Sita denies it and make her accept the inevitable of punishment for Adharma.
Now coming to Ram. Ram says why she has to suffer his fate. Vanvass was his fate. Ravan's enemity was with him. Surpi was spurned by him. But the punishment is getting borne by her. Sita gives answer to this question when she speaks to Mandodari. Wife is part of her husband. She partakes his karma. Good or bad. She has to partake his duties too. If there is pain for him, there is pain for her too. It might manifest in different ways. It was his niyati to Kill ravan. But how will he do it without her. Lakshman's niyati was to support Ram. But how can he do it without Urmila. Hanuman's niyati was to be in seva of Ram. But again that is not possible without Ruma and Tara. So in man's mission woman plays a part. A ram realizes it. A Ravan doesn't.
A Laxman understands the importance of his wife in his swadharma, Meghnadh does not. A Tara knows her husband's time is up and accepts the punishment that is also coming to her through his death. Her widowhood is her inability to stop her husband from following the path of adharma. She is ready to accept it. What is the protection a woman gives a man. Is it the Karvachawth vrath she keeps. I am not against the vrath, people can keep it if they believe in it. And yes prayer does provide the protection. But the real protection a woman gives a man whether as a mother or as a wife is in ensuring he does not step outside the limits of dharma. If he steps then she has to sacrifice him. Yes it is painful, but that is the only way.
Now they talk about the Muhurat where if someone repents their sin they will get moksha. And if someone does adharma that will be the beginning of their destruction. I am sure Ram is going to send arrow at Bali at this precise moment. Bali is going to repent before death and he is going to be granted moksha by Lord. Why is Bali going to get Moksha. Yes Bali did adharma, but he had done dharma too. And it is the power of the dharma which he has done which is finally coming to his rescue at the time of death, giving him death at a very auspicious occasion. That's why first time Ram had half knowledge on how the brother's looked. It shows even if you have done adharma, if you have the power of dharma death will be granted to you at a time you get moksha.