Today's most profound message was this. I have always seen people cribbing. This is not there, that is not there. Even if everything is there, then what the neighbour has not is there. It is human nature to look at have nots than the havs.
How many us of think we are blessed because we do not have any disability. We have organs that are perfectly working fine. There are many in the world who have one disability or the other. How many of us think lucky to have parents. Understand there are enough orphans. How many feel thankful for the education they got. Many are still deprived. How many feel thankful they have house, food to eat. Many go hungry and sleep on the streets. Be thankful to what you have. Then you will realize how much beautiful your circumstance is.
Yes vanvass is written for Sita. So I liked the way she took it. if it is there let it come. We will deal with it when it comes. Why worry for it from today. There are parents from the moment a girl is born they will start worrying about marriage. Arey yaar let it come to that, then take the worry. Sometimes the worry will be baseless. Unnecessarily worrying about future you will destroy present, you will not be able to enjoy present. Learn to live in present. Understand that if God brings you to a problem, he will give you strength to overcome it. Solution comes before the problem. We just have to understand the solution.
Even before Sita Apaharan, Sugreeva was banished from kingdom by Bali. For Ram to get the alliance and fight the war.
Even before infamous hall of dice happened, Krishna had ensured Pandavas have an alliance with Draupadi's family so that they are equipped to fight the war.
Bhima had married an Asura woman to have Ghatkolkach even before Karna got the weapon Shakti from Indra.
Abhi was given half knowledge of Chakravyuha even before Drona planned Chakravyuha on day 13
Prahalad learnt about Narayan in Kayadu's womb even before Hiranyakasyapu got the boon from Brahma.
So when you face any problem understand the solution is already created, defense is already made. It will be available at the right time. Whenever faced with choices take Lord's guidance and the choose the path directed by him. Understand he is creating your defense even without you knowing it.
I will tell a simple incident in my life. In early days of my career I had a manager with whom my working relation was really poor. His values and my values never matched. Over and above him on most occasions I gave importance to my duties with my project team. I used to bunk the unnecessary meetings, trainings because I had work with project teams. I had clearly written off my yearly appraisal as I was sure this guy will find some way to give me bad rating. But just one week before the appraisal was due my unit head took a feedback from delivery team heads on our support team's support to their project teams. Only 3 people got positive feedback out of a 35 member team. And I was not only one of those but I had got extraordinary feedback from all the 3 delivery heads I supported. My manager couldnt touch my appraisal and was forced to give me top rating. This incident had always made me realize never compromise on your values. Choose the path of your conscience and your defence will come at the right time. There are many such incidents in my life where I had felt hopeless, but then in a flash my problems disappeared as if they never existed in first place.
Edited by shruthiravi - 9 years ago