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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Mano-

Both the scenes u mentioned where lovely today

The way Vashista was proud of Ram
When he said to the mamas that Ram can give answers
People who are so crazy about horoscope matchs
Should watch this ep
How many lives get spoiled in the name of Horscopes


Sita Janak scene was touching
If freedom is provided to the children by Parents
Children in-turn do the same to the parents
It develops trust and respect😃


Ekdum sahi Mano, people give undue importance to horoscope matching and do not focus instead on appreciating the real qualities which will cement a relationship.

And it was really touching to see the relationship of trust between Janak and Sita!

All in all a beautiful episode
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Arshi you are too good..LOve you always 🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: xPalkix

I loved how Sita gave her father the permission not just because he was her father but because, he was a good father.

She trusts him not just because it's her duty but also because he has gained her trust. Janak is also a great father, he never forces anything upon his daughters, he makes sure they are happy first. And that's why he has their trust.


So true, trust is a two way street, parents can earn the trust of their children by trusting their children and by giving them freedom, and not by demanding it!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Arshics a very beautiful post for a very beautiful episode. The dialogue writers are doing a fab job with Ram's dialogues. See when Krishna breaks rules, we know he is breaking rules, he creates illusion for other's to break the rule first

But Ram he is also breaking the rules creating an illusion no rule is broken. Yes he is breaking the unnecessary physical barriers, meaningless rituals and pradhas in his own way but keeping the essence of the rule, rituals and pradhas.
Today also someone told 36 gun Milan can be disastrous. Yes many challenges came in Ram-Siya life. Together with a sense of purpose, sense of duty they overcame all challenges. Their love for each other transcended the physical barriers and even while apart they truly belonged to each other. That is what marriage is, even when they say chance of failure with your commitment, with your actions you make it a success.
@Mano horoscope matching is a problem because people speak with half knowledge. And secondly now it has become fanatical because of increase in divorces. Without trying to sort out the real cause of the divorce, the attitude shift that is needed for society towards girls who are now educated and want respect in a marriage horoscope is treated as a one stop remedy. And when that doesn't work horoscope is blamed. And yes many girls life's are still getting ruined because of the fanatical use in the name of doshas and some specific stars.


Krishna gave us a different way, but Rama showed us the righteous path - by breaking those rules which were unfair and which were hurting the very people they were meant to protect.

Rama has protected the real soul and spirit of the rituals, he has just broken the outer form of these rituals !
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome post Arshi 😊
Amazing episode 😊

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