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another very enlightening episode, where Rama shared his views on the true meaning of marriage ...
And on the significance of matching patrikas :
The fact that all 36 gunas of Rama and Sita match, gives the 3 mamas a chance to adao their leg as meeting of all 36 gunas can lead to a lot of strife in marriage
But through Rama, we got to hear a beautiful interpretation of the patrika matching - these are only indicative, and can help the couple to be to be better prepared for marriage - true happiness doesn't lie in the patrikas, it lies in the two working together, respecting the qualities of each.
And how beautifully he goes on explain the meaning of marriage - that of shared responsibilities, duties and commitment - that of always working together - love with a common purpose doesn't lead to happiness, it a sense of common purpose and the mission to raise a family that leads to a true marriage.
I think he was so right, when the first flush of romance ebbs away, the thing that keeps a marriage happy is their common goals of building a family, securing a future, caring for aging parents, sharing the joys and sorrows of families on both sides that makes marriage such a complete relationship !
Once again, Rama's greatness lies, not in big miracles, but in his wisdom and in explaining the true significance of life and it's complexities !
Another beautiful scene was Sita's words as she gave her permission to her father to take the patrika - her trust in her fathers judgement, and her faith that he would always to the best by her, because he has always kept her happiness as a priority - were really well written.
Of course, also enjoyed the cute reunion of the brothers! So all in all another good episode - and a good lesson in family values !
Anupamaa
