Love at first sight - Page 3

Originally posted by: arfanazneen

Kya bola hai Unisha....

Mast tha...

Ruhaan jaisa sach me mile toh aur kya tha 😂😂😂

Actually, love is a very complex word. Sometimes, it's very platonic and sometimes it's deep. It really depends on the context..

So true it differs to different people with their experience. I really want to experience it myself. Yeh pyaar me feel kya hota hai. TV and movie ke Tara Baal hawa me udta hai kya🤣

Originally posted by: HeartBeat321

So true it differs to different people with their experience. I really want to experience it myself. Yeh pyaar me feel kya hota hai. TV and movie ke Tara Baal hawa me udta hai kya🤣

Mujhe b karna hai experience. But, believe me, koi hawa wava nahi aati..koi baal nahi udte..Aur galti se haat lag gaya toh current nahi maarta😂😂😂

Maine pucha hai couples se. They be like, aisa tv jaisa kuch nahi hota. Tv me over hota hai..First time may be kuch ho dhamaka. But, har time kuch nahi hota 😂😂

Originally posted by: arfanazneen

Mujhe b karna hai experience. But, believe me, koi hawa wava nahi aati..koi baal nahi udte..Aur galti se haat lag gaya toh current nahi maarta😂😂😂

Maine pucha hai couples se. They be like, aisa tv jaisa kuch nahi hota. Tv me over hota hai..First time may be kuch ho dhamaka. But, har time kuch nahi hota 😂😂

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Arfa, good question to debate.
Personally, I don't understand love at first sight, mujhe nahi hua, but I won't be as dogmatic to say that it doesn't happen to other people.

For me, though love can't happen in vaccum. Without a lot of scrutiny, good friendship bhi nahin hota mere liye, so love is out of question.

Here, what I felt is that Ruhaan had a strong attachment ( I don't want to call it physical attraction ) when he saw her for the first time. Probably, if they never met again and if he is simply left with pictures, may be that would have fizzled out or may be he would have made all attempts to find her again and pursue her, I don't know. But then, he met her in a very unexpected role and of course that led to disappointment. He didn't want to leave his chances of knowing her a little more closely by staying in her house. He experienced all of her moods, he also saw her underlying personality, almost childlike, fiercely protective of family, immensely responsible, a young woman trying like hell to be an adult and pull off a family and livelihood, a fighter. But he also saw a vulnerable young woman who is forever scarred by the cheater father and her rigid determination not to be the same. I feel all of this, probably his understanding of her true self, underneath that facade of a confident, cutting edge young woman, not what she is portraying outwardly made him gather all the finer emotions in her favor, eventually turning that strong attachment into unwavering, deep love for her❤️🤗. And then, from there on, one thing led to other and as they say, the rest is history😃He identifies his life, his happiness and his sanity with her. So, I don't believe even for Ruhaan it was love at first sight in a true sense, but what had turned into a love at first sight. I know he told us otherwise🤔and I don't know how to reconcile with that information. It is very sad that nobody, not even her family has a true understanding of real Mishti, barring Ruhaan🤗Bless them to be together forever❤️

Not sure if this makes sense.

Love at first sight....wow....it's just a simple phrase....yet, how deep it's meaning is...I'm a hopeless romantic.... I crave romance in every situation.... I'm a girl who was shipping Tyrian and Sansa🙈🙈😂😂

For a romantic, I'm yet to fall in love....but the thing is....I do believe in connection.... Everyone does....some people ignore it, some don't.... In our lives...we encounter many people.... Some of those we started liking instantly.... Some of those we don't... See, in a room full of people who admire you, if there's this one person who doesn't like you, he doesn't show it....behaves very sweetly very cordially with you....yet, you sense that the said person doesn't like you....I don't know about you guys...but I do.....no matter how sweetly a person interacts with me....if she/he has some grudge against me, no mater how veiled it is....I get to know it....I sense that he has something against me.....call it sixth sense or intuition... But it happens.

Same goes with liking and feeling a connection with them too....sometimes we meet a person only once....and once is all it takes....we spill all our guts to him/her.....share our deepest and darkest secrets with him.....and unknowingly started trusting him with all our heart...

Now comes the love at first sight.....some people don't believe it happens and some do.....people who don't believe in it present a very strong argument; how can you fall n love with someone you don't even know....fair point!

But the thing is....the connection, the vibe is so strong that we do not need to know that person....we just see him and....boom! It happens as naturally as breathing.....I know it's not a strong argument but it is all I have....I believe in it....and some people even call it lust....maybe they see it that way....but I don't think so...love at first sight is not just about looks....if it was just about looks plain people would never be loved by anyone.... It's something that come within yourself... You just see someone and your heart recognizes it....your eyes might find them beautiful and maybe not.....but you know what it is....even though you live in denial; how ridiculous it is, it can't happen and all.....but dude...you're gone for good...!

Now, forgive me if I bored you to sleep....even I dunno what I said....so read it on your own risk😉

Originally posted by: Vartika026

Love at first sight....wow....it's just a simple phrase....yet, how deep it's meaning is...I'm a hopeless romantic.... I crave romance in every situation.... I'm a girl who was shipping Tyrian and Sansa🙈🙈😂😂

For a romantic, I'm yet to fall in love....but the thing is....I do believe in connection.... Everyone does....some people ignore it, some don't.... In our lives...we encounter many people.... Some of those we started liking instantly.... Some of those we don't... See, in a room full of people who admire you, if there's this one person who doesn't like you, he doesn't show it....behaves very sweetly very cordially with you....yet, you sense that the said person doesn't like you....I don't know about you guys...but I do.....no matter how sweetly a person interacts with me....if she/he has some grudge against me, no mater how veiled it is....I get to know it....I sense that he has something against me.....call it sixth sense or intuition... But it happens.

Same goes with liking and feeling a connection with them too....sometimes we meet a person only once....and once is all it takes....we spill all our guts to him/her.....share our deepest and darkest secrets with him.....and unknowingly started trusting him with all our heart...

Now comes the love at first sight.....some people don't believe it happens and some do.....people who don't believe in it present a very strong argument; how can you fall n love with someone you don't even know....fair point!

But the thing is....the connection, the vibe is so strong that we do not need to know that person....we just see him and....boom! It happens as naturally as breathing.....I know it's not a strong argument but it is all I have....I believe in it....and some people even call it lust....maybe they see it that way....but I don't think so...love at first sight is not just about looks....if it was just about looks plain people would never be loved by anyone.... It's something that come within yourself... You just see someone and your heart recognizes it....your eyes might find them beautiful and maybe not.....but you know what it is....even though you live in denial; how ridiculous it is, it can't happen and all.....but dude...you're gone for good...!

Now, forgive me if I bored you to sleep....even I dunno what I said....so read it on your own risk😉

You didn't bore Vartika.

I really agree with you.

That is what I was trying to say. If it's only lust or physical attraction, then some people have fallen at first sight for average looking (plain) people, too.

I am a strong believer of vibes & intuition.

I agree, sometimes you just spill your guts out with a person you've recently met & sometimes, you can't share a single thing with a person you know since ages(Happened with me) It really depends & differs from person to person.

Thanx for sharing your view 😁

Originally posted by: arfanazneen

You didn't bore Vartika.

I really agree with you.

That is what I was trying to say. If it's only lust or physical attraction, then some people have fallen at first sight for average looking (plain) people, too.

I am a strong believer of vibes & intuition.

I agree, sometimes you just spill your guts out with a person you've recently met & sometimes, you can't share a single thing with a person you know since ages(Happened with me) It really depends & differs from person to person.

Thanx for sharing your view 😁

Exactly... We're at same page on this babe😍😍😍maybe because we both are hopelessly romantic people. Two crazy people believing in a crazy thing..... Then again, people have called even the great inventors crazy at first😉😉 so there's still some hope for us😍😍

I believe in love at first sight though It didn't happen with me yet😆. Actually no one can define love . My sister always says "soch samajhke pyar nhi hota, pyar jab hona hota hai ho jata hai" . & for her it was love at first sight.

Originally posted by: Vartika026

Exactly... We're at same page on this babe😍😍😍maybe because we both are hopelessly romantic people. Two crazy people believing in a crazy thing..... Then again, people have called even the great inventors crazy at first😉😉 so there's still some hope for us😍😍

How I wish to be a great inventor 😁😛😛😛😛

Originally posted by: Angelicdiya

I believe in love at first sight though It didn't happen with me yet😆. Actually no one can define love . My sister always says "soch samajhke pyar nhi hota, pyar jab hona hota hai ho jata hai" . & for her it was love at first sight.

Your sis is right. You know, we have a mental picture of someone. Jaise ke, ideal partner aisa hona chahiye, waisa hona chahiye.. Also, we don't like few things/qualities in general.

You might have two people infront of you. One, who has all the qualities you want in your partner & second, who has qualities which you don't like. But, still you might fall for the second one(jisme tumhari pasand ke traits na ho)

So yes, love is such kind...