Is it easy? - Page 6

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

everything here is blown out of proportion something like ishaan is a nataunki types

Originally posted by: pranurosid

Ye kab hua?

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

hua jab ishaan ne mauli ko kunal ki help ke baare main btaya tha tab usko natunki bol gaya tha but lets not talk about that i just gave an example which sabhyata will understand

Originally posted by: poiu123

It matters to me . Maybe not to you. The actions matter because development of feelings is not in anyone's control. Ruhaan has not taken any action to covet Mishti for himself. Mishti has not taken any action to go closer to Ruhaan. She is uncomfortable and trying to analyse the changes in herself.



Waise bhi there is no depth in Mishti's or Veer's feelings for each other. The alliance would have broken even if they got married. Ruhaan nahi bhi hota to.

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

but you did compare mauli with veer why will veer question himself or why will anybody laugh at veer mishveer are going to have amicable break up neither mishti not ruhaan is cheating him yesterday mishti s monologue made it very clear she is going to betray veer no matter i have never seen her giving any wrong singles to ruhaan in today s episode mishti clearly uncomfortable when ruhaan picked her up she didnt wanted him to touch her this is i think very different from the kind of betrayal mauli faced right what happened with her was horrible horrible and it was done by two people she loved the most here nothing of that sort is happening instead mishti is doing anything and everything to save her relationship so again why will veer question himself or why will anybody laugh at him ?

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Note : It is not a bashing post.

I am just trying to understand if it is so easy to forget someone, you thought you loved and arranged a romantic date for him a week ago?

Where has Mishti forgotten Veer? It is the very fact she has him in her mind that she is ignoring her complex feelings and doesn't even try to understand herself.

From what I am seeing, Mishti is not thinking that her breaking up the marriage will affect Veer, she is concerned about her image, she doesn't want to be like her father but what about Veer?

What image? She is just scared because she denounces her feelings more than the world would. She doesn't have to convince anyone . When she says what would people say of her, if they caught her accidentally bringing up Ruhaan's name , she is over thinking. Even Pari didn't feel anything amiss when Mishti kept repeating Ruhaan's name because it was not odd to her. Mishti has been overreacting and over thinking things. Her feelings are there, but she has already termed it bad.

Was it so easy for her to exchange "ILUs" and Kisses then forget the whole relationship in a matter of a week?

😕Where she has forgotten Veer? Do you see her planning secret dates with Ruhaan or even dream of Ruhaan?!

I am in no way saying that Mishti should end up in a loveless marriage, but she is being very selfish, not freeing Veer from this mess. She is already cheating on him emotionally.

Again , she is not deriving any secret happiness from this whole experience. There is no cheating emotionally. She is hurting the most, more than anyone else. That's because she thinks she has control over the situation and things will get better.

This girl Mishti was afraid of losing Veer and her happiness like a month ago on her engagement, what has changed?

If Veer is sexist, dominant, chauvinist etc. He was all those things when Mishti got engaged to him, when she planned a date for him, when she enjoyed Pre-Holi shower with him.

If there is a new side to Mishti that Ruhaan sees only now, why don't we ask him why he didn't see this side to Mishti through all those said dates? We don't, right? If you look objectively at who knows Mishti better, there is only one answer. It didn't take months , in a matter of days Ruhaan knows how Mishti feels. Why doesn't Veer know her that well? We don't ask that too, right?

The thing here is that before Mishti's realization of feelings for Ruhaan, she should have realized that there is nothing between her and Veer, if she is leaving Veer for Ruhaan, what's the guarantee that she won't leave Ruhaan for someone else?

Where is she leaving Veer for Ruhaan? Has she said that even once?

Falling out of love is understandable but there is some connection with the person you thought you loved, isn't there? Or a better one comes along so the old one doesn't matter?

Where does Veer not matter for her? She is avoiding him and being rude to his parents or what? She is just confused about the same thing. She doesn't feel comfortable with his touch because that is not just violating her, it is also violating him. She is not pushing him away. So long as her feelings are not sorted out, she is not going to be comfortable with physical intimacy. You won't find her daydreaming about Ruhaan carrying her too.

I am also amazed at how effortlessly she lies to everyone. CVs include the dialogue of Mishti being like Mauli in every other episode, how about they give her some qualities for Mauli?

Mauli was righteous, you won't find a single scene where she lied to anyone Preleap, saying that Mishti is like Mauli doesn't help when the character is nothing like Mauli.

It's like saying "Abhishek Bachchan is as good an actor as Amitabh Bachchan", and that people should praise him like they praised his father.

Where does she lie? For her to lie, she should admit somewhere that she has feelings for Ruhaan which she is going to PURSUE. Even having feelings for someone is not something Mishti is going to act on. She will sit on it till those feelings go away... Afterall, Mauli thought she had feelings for Kunal too postleap , which went away. And Mauli did keep Ishaan waiting too, unsure of her feelings and she had to rule out Kunal before she could settle down with Ishaan . In that way, Mishti is her mother's daughter. She happens to have two men in her life at the same time. Before she commits to one, Mishti will let the other one know. For now, she has chosen Veer and she has made that very clear to Ruhaan. If she chooses Ruhaan after this, she will surely let Veer know. Till then, wedding jitters it is!

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I didn't compare Mauli to Veer

I replied to a post.

I don't know why I am explaining this to you, but Mods are very strict about this comparison thing, which I did not do BTW.

You have to understand context of a post to be able to reply it, I know we have never seen eye to eye on anything but please read properly before commenting...

I have written in my post that Mishti should break up with Veer before she acknowledges anything for Ruhaan because Veer deserves that little respect of not being dumped for his friend, it is not for Mishti because she doesn't exist, it's for makers... When Mishti questioned her love for Veer, you can check my posts, I praised her for it but now after all that she is going ahead with the wedding and simultaneously Mishaan are getting closer.

I don't see Mishti trying to save her relationship, Mishti is going along with the marriage with feelings for some other man and its not fair to Veer. So if they break up it shouldn't be because Mishti loves Ruhaan, it should be because Mishti doesn't love Veer.

About why people will make fun of Veer? Because they do that, even Mauli was mocked for being cheated on saying she didn't satisfy Kunal, it's not a comparison, I am not comparing their circumstances, I am saying that people do this, even if you are not wrong.

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

my reply was soley based on your reply to ria s post i know comparison is not allowed

mishti is confused right now its just very messed up situations i want her think properly before taking any decision

about people laughing at veer that not gonna happen because break ups do happen the circumstances of mauli are quiet different what mauli faces was betrayal and veer and mishti are just going to break up no betrayal

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

"Mishti is like Mauli and Ishaan" is also comparison with S1

"Pari is like certain someone who cried all the time in S1" is comparison

There's a huge difference between giving examples of situations and comparing characters. Isn't mocking people for S1 against forum rules?