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Posted: 6 years ago
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Yes family should be there for you. They did made her understand initially but now she should think calmly that she cannot always blame ruhaan for each and everything. She needs alone time to introspect her feelings. If veer had alleged pari or ansh wrong without knowing complete truth than would mishthi forgive him?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Agree with you all...The way veer left mishty Midway was really heartbreaking to see 😭 it's a fact we do this to a person to whom we are just formal friends .. personally experienced
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Veer is not a one dimensional character, nor does his entire life revolve only around Misti. He is a caring guy - He cares for Misti, her family, his family and his friends which includes Ruhaan. This is not the first time that he has seen Misti and Ruhaan arguing. During Holi, he felt Ruhaan took it too far by throwing the colour plate which Misti was carrying so he told Ruhaan off. During dumb charades, it was Misti who knocked off the board from Ruhaan's hands, so Veer told off Misti.

Misti humiliated Ruhaan by saying if you are a PG, stay like a PG. Veer feels responsible for this. HE insisted Ruhaan to be a PG there. Veer explained the situation to Misti. Misti made it into a Ruhaan V/S Me thing. For a loving person, that is very difficult to take. It is like questioning and comparing love. Kind of distrustful. Still, Veer explains further.

When he comes back, he sees Misti throwing his friends belongings on his feet. He is still trying to explain to Misti there. When Misti tells him that she will explain to him later, he understands and waits. Misti puts another serious accusation on Ruhaan which turns out to be false. At this, Veer finally loses it. (It can be seen as he calls her Misti and not Mish for the first time on her birthday).

If Veer expects Misti to not humiliate Ruhaan, publicly or in front of her family, thats not expecting Misti to be perfect. It is expecting her to be normal. How is he to know that Misti is fighting her attraction for Ruhaan by being especially mean to him? He TRUSTS her.

Misti has suffered as much as Pari, Ansh and Radhika. Losing a single parent is terrifying (Pari) as is never getting to know the two people who love you most on the world (Ansh). In a grandmother's age, Radhika is still parenting Ansh, Paris and Misti,with little emotional support. Pari is just newly becoming independent, Ansh is still a student and Misti's wedding is upcoming. Wedding preparations stress every parent out. She is managing every single thing beautifully. A single GRAND parent who has somehow managed to keep the bond intact of 3 siblings with different parentage.

Arnav, Veer and especially Ruhaan, who is really just a P. G. (an outsider) are really sensitive and loving to EVERYONE they meet.

On the other hand, Misti has made her difficult childhood an excuse to justify her dominating, rude and entitled behaviour which is obvious in Ruhaan's case but can been seen subtly even in the case of her family. She doesn't trust Pari to handle situations by herself, she blows at mistakes instead of explaining (Pari's FIRST time client deal, Ansh smoking and rifling through Ruhaan's belongings without permission) and listens to no one (Radhika, Su Bua after dumb charades or birthday party). Misti likes to feel sorry for herself in self created circumstances. If Misti creates a scene on birthday, which could have been resolved firmly and effectively in a better way and makes a public issue about Veer, Ruhaan, Pari, Ansh, why should these people not react? Ruhaan is too sweet and Misti is taking advantage of it.

I feel Rohan has a lot to improve as an actor but the character Veer loves Misti, just not only Misti. He apologized to Pari and Ruhaan and the drunk guy's friend did tell him that Veer would not spare him before Ruhaan came there.

I see Misti as a very flawed character and it makes the show realistic. She is not mahaan and not a mature, or averagely selfless character either. Misti has a lot to learn and her birthday can be a good starting point.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: PranPriye

Veer is not a one dimensional character, nor does his entire life revolve only around Misti. He is a caring guy - He cares for Misti, her family, his family and his friends which includes Ruhaan. This is not the first time that he has seen Misti and Ruhaan arguing. During Holi, he felt Ruhaan took it too far by throwing the colour plate which Misti was carrying so he told Ruhaan off. During dumb charades, it was Misti who knocked off the board from Ruhaan's hands, so Veer told off Misti.

Misti humiliated Ruhaan by saying if you are a PG, stay like a PG. Veer feels responsible for this. HE insisted Ruhaan to be a PG there. Veer explained the situation to Misti. Misti made it into a Ruhaan V/S Me thing. For a loving person, that is very difficult to take. It is like questioning and comparing love. Kind of distrustful. Still, Veer explains further.

When he comes back, he sees Misti throwing his friends belongings on his feet. He is still trying to explain to Misti there. When Misti tells him that she will explain to him later, he understands and waits. Misti puts another serious accusation on Ruhaan which turns out to be false. At this, Veer finally loses it. (It can be seen as he calls her Misti and not Mish for the first time on her birthday).

If Veer expects Misti to not humiliate Ruhaan, publicly or in front of her family, thats not expecting Misti to be perfect. It is expecting her to be normal. How is he to know that Misti is fighting her attraction for Ruhaan by being especially mean to him? He TRUSTS her.

Misti has suffered as much as Pari, Ansh and Radhika. Losing a single parent is terrifying (Pari) as is never getting to know the two people who love you most on the world (Ansh). In a grandmother's age, Radhika is still parenting Ansh, Paris and Misti,with little emotional support. Pari is just newly becoming independent, Ansh is still a student and Misti's wedding is upcoming. Wedding preparations stress every parent out. She is managing every single thing beautifully. A single GRAND parent who has somehow managed to keep the bond intact of 3 siblings with different parentage.

Arnav, Veer and especially Ruhaan, who is really just a P. G. (an outsider) are really sensitive and loving to EVERYONE they meet.

On the other hand, Misti has made her difficult childhood an excuse to justify her dominating, rude and entitled behaviour which is obvious in Ruhaan's case but can been seen subtly even in the case of her family. She doesn't trust Pari to handle situations by herself, she blows at mistakes instead of explaining (Pari's FIRST time client deal, Ansh smoking and rifling through Ruhaan's belongings without permission) and listens to no one (Radhika, Su Bua after dumb charades or birthday party). Misti likes to feel sorry for herself in self created circumstances. If Misti creates a scene on birthday, which could have been resolved firmly and effectively in a better way and makes a public issue about Veer, Ruhaan, Pari, Ansh, why should these people not react? Ruhaan is too sweet and Misti is taking advantage of it.

I feel Rohan has a lot to improve as an actor but the character Veer loves Misti, just not only Misti. He apologized to Pari and Ruhaan and the drunk guy's friend did tell him that Veer would not spare him before Ruhaan came there.

I see Misti as a very flawed character and it makes the show realistic. She is not mahaan and not a mature, or averagely selfless character either. Misti has a lot to learn and her birthday can be a good starting point.

That's what I was saying, when everything goes right everyone can care ( I said it earlier too that Mishti is not being her real self with veer, she is acting goody infront of him) aaj jese hi Mishti ka ek flaw samne aaya veer left her!
And it's not about losing parents, it's human nature ... Veer failed miserably and how
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: PranPriye

Veer is not a one dimensional character, nor does his entire life revolve only around Misti. He is a caring guy - He cares for Misti, her family, his family and his friends which includes Ruhaan. This is not the first time that he has seen Misti and Ruhaan arguing. During Holi, he felt Ruhaan took it too far by throwing the colour plate which Misti was carrying so he told Ruhaan off. During dumb charades, it was Misti who knocked off the board from Ruhaan's hands, so Veer told off Misti.

Misti humiliated Ruhaan by saying if you are a PG, stay like a PG. Veer feels responsible for this. HE insisted Ruhaan to be a PG there. Veer explained the situation to Misti. Misti made it into a Ruhaan V/S Me thing. For a loving person, that is very difficult to take. It is like questioning and comparing love. Kind of distrustful. Still, Veer explains further.

When he comes back, he sees Misti throwing his friends belongings on his feet. He is still trying to explain to Misti there. When Misti tells him that she will explain to him later, he understands and waits. Misti puts another serious accusation on Ruhaan which turns out to be false. At this, Veer finally loses it. (It can be seen as he calls her Misti and not Mish for the first time on her birthday).

If Veer expects Misti to not humiliate Ruhaan, publicly or in front of her family, thats not expecting Misti to be perfect. It is expecting her to be normal. How is he to know that Misti is fighting her attraction for Ruhaan by being especially mean to him? He TRUSTS her.

Misti has suffered as much as Pari, Ansh and Radhika. Losing a single parent is terrifying (Pari) as is never getting to know the two people who love you most on the world (Ansh). In a grandmother's age, Radhika is still parenting Ansh, Paris and Misti,with little emotional support. Pari is just newly becoming independent, Ansh is still a student and Misti's wedding is upcoming. Wedding preparations stress every parent out. She is managing every single thing beautifully. A single GRAND parent who has somehow managed to keep the bond intact of 3 siblings with different parentage.

Arnav, Veer and especially Ruhaan, who is really just a P. G. (an outsider) are really sensitive and loving to EVERYONE they meet.

On the other hand, Misti has made her difficult childhood an excuse to justify her dominating, rude and entitled behaviour which is obvious in Ruhaan's case but can been seen subtly even in the case of her family. She doesn't trust Pari to handle situations by herself, she blows at mistakes instead of explaining (Pari's FIRST time client deal, Ansh smoking and rifling through Ruhaan's belongings without permission) and listens to no one (Radhika, Su Bua after dumb charades or birthday party). Misti likes to feel sorry for herself in self created circumstances. If Misti creates a scene on birthday, which could have been resolved firmly and effectively in a better way and makes a public issue about Veer, Ruhaan, Pari, Ansh, why should these people not react? Ruhaan is too sweet and Misti is taking advantage of it.

I feel Rohan has a lot to improve as an actor but the character Veer loves Misti, just not only Misti. He apologized to Pari and Ruhaan and the drunk guy's friend did tell him that Veer would not spare him before Ruhaan came there.

I see Misti as a very flawed character and it makes the show realistic. She is not mahaan and not a mature, or averagely selfless character either. Misti has a lot to learn and her birthday can be a good starting point.


well said..
he can even imagine in his wildest dream what kind of attraction his fiance is feeling towards his friend..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi_

That's what I was saying, when everything goes right everyone can care ( I said it earlier too that Mishti is not being her real self with veer, she is acting goody infront of him) aaj jese hi Mishti ka ek flaw samne aaya veer left her!
And it's not about losing parents, it's human nature ... Veer failed miserably and how


Sorry, if I am too harsh but this is what I believe:

Veer has not only been there for her when things have been alright. Be it Ring Ceremony or Holi or Dumb charades, he has always been looking out for Misti.

It is not flaw but Misti's nature. It didn't come out today.
Veer has been noticing it since a long time and trying to sort it out in his own way with both Ruhaan and Misti who are not confiding in him. If Veer didn't love Misti, he would not be trying to be a part of her family and make her a part of his own.

Veer did not fail at all. It was Misti. Everyone had worked hard to make Misti's day a special one. She ruined it for herself and everyone.

Veer didn't abandon her. He felt hurt, disappointed and upset and left. I feel it was normal since it was a bad day for him too. I don't believe Veer is perfect or ideal. He is a good person, who undoubtedly loves Mishti.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: raaya

Mishthi created a scene at party without knowing complete truth. She threw ruhaan's luggage thinking that he was behind ansh's smoking and yet everyone should console her. M sorry she's wrong and it's high time she should accept it. Everyone knows she gets hyper and in starting everyone made her understand calmly but now she should be one who needs to calm down and not to rush into conclusion.

Bold: scene create kia coz baat uski behen ki thi,koi bhi badi behen aise hi react karegi agar uski behen ko koi pareshaan kare and Ruhaan ko usne baar baar un logo ke sath dekha tha toh it's obvious ki wo usko bolegi hi,ha tareeka galat tha (mere liye nahi) but reason & action sahi tha.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I guess they were all very angry because that was one hell of a scene! They will come back to comfort her for sure! But yes the crack in MishVeer relationship paved its way!
Veer didn't know that his fiance could be a real tigress and couldn't handle it and surprisingly went away though Mishti begged to b heard. Not so perfect relationship as u well pointed!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: SK_Love

Today ruhaan was there for mishti.. only he understand her now..Now I m also a mishan fan..I was mauhaan and mishti fan only



Agree an me to Mihaan fan Ruhaan fan Mishti fan.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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here mishty shouted at ruhaan with out knowing the fact . she did not even listen what veer is sayinghere mishty is wrong getting angry on ruhaan without knowing truth so naturally her family will not stand by mishty when she is wrong
Edited by surabhi01 - 6 years ago

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