Molestation : A plot device / joke? - Page 2

Originally posted by: IFLove

First of all, I missed Ur posts. Ur posts were the only ones when one could give unbiased opinions. Or should I say, I missed reading similar thoughts as mine.

Coming to the topic, I had exactly same feelings. To start with, pari did not give in to the guy's demands n go out, she was going out to keep the party unaffected. This girl is badass, she can handle a guy alone, so I don't think she did anything wrong in this. If need be, her family was just a call away, so she was safe too. Then when mishti yelled at the guy, pari repeatedly said that she'll handle it. Pari didn't look surprised or shocked when mishti told her what that guy was trynna do. So that should be enough a hint for others to know that pari knew what was happening there n she must have faced something before the others came to know of it. But radhika, Arnav, mishti...nobody cared to ask her what had happened. Mishti's anger got directed towards ruhaan in a second. Ruhaan got angry cuz he couldn't take mishti's accusations. I loved the scene when pari cried hugging ruhaan. That was a scene where I could feel how lonely pari is in spite of having family. The way she said, Kuch Nahi, baas Rona aa Gaya...that really broke my heart too. After she lost her mother when she was just a baby n then her buddy who was her world, she finally found someone in whose arms she can cry like a baby. We may call it her guilt about the past or her love for her sister, but even in worst of any conditions, this girl thinks about what mishti must be feeling or going through. If mishti didn't react like that, I m sure pari would have given more attention to her issue. But when both of them r in pain due to any reason, pari will keep her issues aside n think about mishti. Oh I love this girl!

N I love this guy ruhaan! He is so sorted omg! In a fraction of moment he can change his behaviour. If mishti's accusations bothered him to an extent that he hit the guy black n blue, the moment he saw pari her tears affected him. He forgot what all mishti said in a moment n made sure pari was made to feel secure n comfortable. N now when ruhaan was again humiliated, pari forgot what had happened with her just a while ago n she tried to make him feel better. Rihaan is the most precious bond of this season 😳

I agree mishti loves pari a lot n she is genuinely concerned for her but the execution is so poor that it shows that mishti is full of herself n nothing is more important than her emotional locha. Mishti was full of her anger, veer was full of guilt n self pittying, radhika n Arnav only cared until they knew pari was with veer, hence safe. Thank God su bua didn't give her rubbish...it's ok it happens n all.

I wonder why they don't show ansh as a loving brother. What they r showing about him is good...these teenage issues n lack of a man in the family n all. But in spite of all this, a boy does love his sisters n always has that protective feeling for them even if he is way younger than the sisters. We hardly ever get to see true love from ansh's side. They r overdoing while showing that he can't open up with his elder sisters. They could have showed his love n concern for his sisters. But no! They have to make everything about Mishti's anger issues n her feelings alone! I m no mishti hater, I just hate such scenarios in any show where unnecessary importance is given to the leads in certain scenario where the demand of that scenario is something else!

Originally posted by: nushy1995

It's unfortunate that such issues are used as a plot device and surprisingly even we so called educated, unbiased viewers put up with it as long as it's not the FL or ML in question.

Even I have noticed, makers do all sorts of things to keep the FL PURE by society's standard that if they are attacked or something, some sort of miracle happens.

Kya Kasoor Tha Amla Ki probably is the only show in recent time where a rape victim was the protagonist. If there are more, please let me know their names. 😊

Everyone has their own opinion and I agree to disagree with them sometimes.

But I cannot help but wonder if the same situation had happened with Mishti, would the members react the same way. Pari is the victim here and here I have read at least 5 different thread of comments how she is the worst and she doesn't value Mishti and bla bla bla. Like what the hell? 😡