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Posted: 6 years ago
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My first post on the forum.
Veer is the guy who is not possessive about his girl. She dares to kiss a random guy, he is completely ok with it. And in that dismisses her guilt, her anxiety.

He laughs seing Mishty's concern about his mom.

He just says I wanted to put colors on her first. That's it. Moves on.

Veer laughs after her girl hugs his friend mistaking him to be Veer.

Everybody in the family finds Veer a good guy.

And Mishty??? All of the above made her feel extremely bad, extremely guilty, extremely sad, extremely frustrated. Extreme emotions. But she has to stifle them inside her coz his man doesn't understand. He feels all of this is a kiddos drama. She is starved of that kind of attention and involvement. She is practical and has high morals. Knows still she will go ahead with the marriages.

Here comes Ruhan. Takes her very seriously. Responds to her every reaction with full involvement. Feels her anger, gets angry on her. Says sorry and thank you together. They are completely in sync.

This is what the makers are trying to show. Veer has made her starve of this. He loves her, but is not involved. Almost like he doesn't care. It's like, cut the crap. This is what she hears when he laughs at her, mocks her.

And with Ruhan, she feels alive, she feels aknowledged, she feels important. Why , why will she not get attracted to him? Why will not feel like being with him? This is reason enough. Not lust or even may be not love. But attracted. And rightly so.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Completely disagree !
Mocks her ? Whrn ?

It showed how kuch trust he had in Mishti , how understanding he is whrn he didn't make a big deal of these situations...he could have questioned her but didn't...instead didn't make a big deal at all

This is not mocking but a sensible thing which he did
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Are you suggesting that if she was dating Ruhaan and mistakenly kissed another guy then he would have had an angry outburst at her, and that would have been more appropriate than laughing it off?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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When I see these episodes this is what I feel. Not neccneces for everyone to feel the same way. What I felt is mocking when Veer joked about how Mishty was so tensed about his mom, i felt he mocked her. May be others won't feel like that.
The CVs hasn't shown Veer in bad light yet. But if there is any flaw in the relationship then I feel it's this.

Coz Mishty is not a light hearted happy go lucky kind of girl. What you are appreciating of Veer, Mishty might not. And she was clearly hurt in the breakfast table when Veer told the family how she had reacted about his mother.

These are little things. But when a contrasting character comes in front of her she can't help but give her attention to that man.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Heisenberg23

Are you suggesting that if she was dating Ruhaan and mistakenly kissed another guy then he would have had an angry outburst at her, and that would have been more appropriate than laughing it off?


I am not saying appropriate. I am saying that's what Mishty might have expected. But she was upset. He misunderstood her thinking she is hurt that he might have kissed another girl.
So there is misunderstanding between them. Not in sync.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Good post. 😊
Everyone can have their own opinions. We feel different about different people . Please respect it
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Posted: 6 years ago
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This is what the makers are trying to show. Veer has made her starve of this. He loves her, but is not involved. Almost like he doesn't care. It's like, cut the crap. This is what she hears when he laughs at her, mocks her

This is what I exactly feel about mishveer . I never ever find them completely involved or in sync . I want mishti to break this engagement as soon as possible and inform veer on time and avoid all the unnecessary mess . Involvement and sync both are highly missing in this relationship.

This is enough reason for break up.

Just because of poor execution mishaan sounds only base on attraction but no there is so much deep details of their relationship which can only be understood by understanding small gestures .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Agree with you.. Good post 😊
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Veer is a sweetheart.
It is good to be not possessive about her.
That scene where he laughed at her embarrassment was the best scene in MishVeer relationship and one of the best scenes in the show for me.

That's the only way to defuse the situation. I don't think Mishti disliked his reaction. It was a really funny situation from Veer's side.

Problem is, Mishti is never going to understand this light Side because she is struggling with her issues.

Where he should have been possessive was to be the very first person to wish her. Both Mishti and Veer seem to know the theory of love correctly. They are trying to apply it, but it is just not working out. That is because love cannot be contained in rules and demonstrations. There is something beyond all that.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Yeah, Veer should get insecure and scream at Mishti for hugging Ruhaan or kissing him. maybe then you'd find them more 'involved', eh?
Doesn't matter that he trusts her with all his heart, does not suffocate her with affection, and tries to lighten her mood in his own way.

You're basically saying that she wants a guy who treats her like shit and remains depressed 24*7 like her.

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