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Posted: 6 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: poiu123



I'm curious about one thing though. It is not in anyone' s hands to fall in love or stop falling in llove.It's a matter of heart and feelings. It's not the brain that is involved here.

The brain judges right or wrong but u fall in love through your heart and not the brain.

Then how can someone be right or wrong if they fall in love. And how can you judge the person as wrong?


Falling in love is not wrong but making a commitment to someone if u r not in love is wrong , falling for someone else despite in a happy committed relation is wrong ...If there is a problem with the partner or relation is not really working and still both or is trying to stick to it just for the sake of it then breaking up is valid ! but not when both partners are happy and very much looking forward to their wedding day

I wouldn't have a problem with Mishti if she fell in love if she wasn't in a happy committed relation

If she never loved Veer and saw him only as a way for a perfect life then she has been unfair with the poor guy all along...Plus now post the commitment where she has professed her love for him so many times, decided to marry him after dating him she falls for someone else then again it is unfair and wrong in my opinion

Coz of her in both the cases Veer will suffer and I can't root for a character or a relation that causes pain and heartbreak to someone who isn't even at fault

precisely why i said it is about choosing between less and more wrong..but in both cases Mishti is wrong and can't be justified
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Posted: 6 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: surabhi01

whether any one call it date or any other words but it was sure mishty was very much in love with veer . just because mishty by mistake romance with ruhaan it doesn't not give proper excuse for mishty to leave veer and start feeling for someone else


strong love hota na mishti ka to itni mess uske life mai kabhi hoti he nai .
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Posted: 6 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: anshvi



Falling in love is not wrong but making a commitment to someone if u r not in love is wrong , falling for someone else despite in a happy committed relation is wrong ...If there is a problem with the partner or relation is not really working and still both or is trying to stick to it just for the sake of it then breaking up is valid ! but not when both partners are happy and very much looking forward to their wedding day

I wouldn't have a problem with Mishti if she fell in love if she wasn't in a happy committed relation

If she never loved Veer and saw him only as a way for a perfect life then she has been unfair with the poor guy all along...Plus now post the commitment where she has professed her love for him so many times, decided to marry him after dating him she falls for someone else then again it is unfair and wrong in my opinion

Coz of her in both the cases Veer will suffer and I can't root for a character or a relation that causes pain and heartbreak to someone who isn't even at fault

precisely why i said it is about choosing between less and more wrong..but in both cases Mishti is wrong and can't be justified



in that case let's agree to disagree.In one sided love also the person in love faces pain and heartbreak for no fault of his or hers.

It's not necessary someone has to have a fault to face pain and heartbreak.

Love is like that. It happens . No one has control over it and hence can't be blamed.

Only cheating is very wrong.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#54
even in if role reversal wrong is wrong. u cannot leave ur life partner just because u find other very dashing
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Posted: 6 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: tanvismile


U guys not able to understand one thing. If misti was in loveless relationship nobody would question her feelings. The complicating part is she was very much in love with veer before ruhaan s entry.

Bingo. And she still keeps saying to veer. I love you. Desi twilight chaalu kar diya hai inhone😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

yes my i would have still said the same because to me break ups are better than LOVELESS MARRIAGE



Because breaking up before marriage is better than your husband cheating on you. 😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
#57
I do believe Mishti loves Veer but not the way he loves her. From what I've seen of Veer so far, he's a pretty straight forward character. He honestly loves Mishti and wants to spend the rest of his life with her. He tries to understand her and is always attentive of her needs. I wouldn't call him perfect (no one is perfect) but he is GENUINE. And he may not know all her insecurities but he knows her biggest ones. After their engagement, she revealed to him that she's scared all of this will be taken away from her. She revealed one of her bigggest fears to him then and there.

Mishti on the other hand is a more difficult character to understand. A flawed human being who believes in being perfect and having her life all planned out. That's her biggest flaw. You can't plan life out. Life is unpredictable. It will throw curveballs at you and you have to find a way to deal with it. Mishti does not know how to deal with it. I believe Mishti does love Veer but not in the way he needs. If you truly love someone, then another's presence will not bother you. Ruhaan serves the role of the catalyst. A catalyst that will break Mishti and Veer apart.

Think about the clubbing scene. They could have easily shown Veer being effected by another woman there but no he only had eyes for Mishti because he truly loves her and is secure in what he feels for her. Mishti is not. Is that fair to Veer? No. Will this break his heart? Definitely. I've never tried to justify Mishti or her feelings but that doesn't mean I dislike her for what she feels. No one forced Mishti to be with Veer; in fact, she's forced herself into a box. While I understand you can't root for her because of this heartbreak, I simply can't root against her. I'm liking all the characters and am hoping for a happy ending.

I do think the writers could have executed things better though I find myself giving them a leeway because they've been placed in a 3 month stint. Not to mention they have so many characters to focus on. I wish they would have condensed the amount of characters being shown but it would be unfair not to develop them.

Also, I must admit I am bias. The only actors I was familiar with were Aneri and Rohan but I was blown away by Teju and Kunal. I have never seen a show of theirs before and have found myself greatly enjoying their chemistry 😊
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Posted: 6 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: dmgfannn

I do believe Mishti loves Veer but not the way he loves her. From what I've seen of Veer so far, he's a pretty straight forward character. He honestly loves Mishti and wants to spend the rest of his life with her. He tries to understand her and is always attentive of her needs. I wouldn't call him perfect (no one is perfect) but he is GENUINE. And he may not know all her insecurities but he knows her biggest ones. After their engagement, she revealed to him that she's scared all of this will be taken away from her. She revealed one of her bigggest fears to him then and there.

Mishti on the other hand is a more difficult character to understand. A flawed human being who believes in being perfect and having her life all planned out. That's her biggest flaw. You can't plan life out. Life is unpredictable. It will throw curveballs at you and you have to find a way to deal with it. Mishti does not know how to deal with it. I believe Mishti does love Veer but not in the way he needs. If you truly love someone, then another's presence will not bother you. Ruhaan serves the role of the catalyst. A catalyst that will break Mishti and Veer apart.

Think about the clubbing scene. They could have easily shown Veer being effected by another woman there but no he only had eyes for Mishti because he truly loves her and is secure in what he feels for her. Mishti is not. Is that fair to Veer? No. Will this break his heart? Definitely. I've never tried to justify Mishti or her feelings but that doesn't mean I dislike her for what she feels. No one forced Mishti to be with Veer; in fact, she's forced herself into a box. While I understand you can't root for her because of this heartbreak, I simply can't root against her. I'm liking all the characters and am hoping for a happy ending.

I do think the writers could have executed things better though I find myself giving them a leeway because they've been placed in a 3 month stint. Not to mention they have so many characters to focus on. I wish they would have condensed the amount of characters being shown but it would be unfair not to develop them.

Also, I must admit I am bias. The only actors I was familiar with were Aneri and Rohan but I was blown away by Teju and Kunal. I have never seen a show of theirs before and have found myself greatly enjoying their chemistry 😊



Agree 100%. Very well written. The one in Bold is what I strongly believe.
If you really love someone with all your heart , there is NO room for a third person.

If there is room for a third person , it means you are NOT truly in love and need to introspect on your relation.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: poiu123



Agree 100%. Very well written. The one in Bold is what I strongly believe.
If you really love someone with all your heart , there is NO room for a third person.

If there is room for a third person , it means you are NOT truly in love and need to introspect on your relation.



Thank you 😊 huge bump to Mishti introspecting on her relationship! She also needs to self evaluate and figure out what she truly wants. There's a lot of heartbreak in store for these characters and I hope the writers handle the situation properly.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: Poorabhforever

suhagarat really 🤢 do you realize that it was just a normal date and mishti just tried to make up to him

did she tried toi have sex with him do you know what suhagrat means


She has no problems kissing him and bathing with him, why will she not have sex with him also? It's obvious that she doesn't have any issue getting intimate with Veer.

I'm shocked that people feel that sex is a big deal for someone who can get intimate in other ways. 😲

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