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FruitToasty

@FruitToasty

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

#71

I had written a few months ago about what will this guy tell his daughters? Will he accept the life he gave Mauli for his daughters? His selfishness has ruined many lives including his own.

Malhotra family is dysfunctional like that, these people do not talk about issues, their daughter is afraid of playing dumb charades, is that the kind of life they are wishing for her? Shouldn't they talk to her about this?

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Nandy141

@Nandy141

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: FruitToasty
I had written a few months ago about what will this guy tell his daughters? Will he accept the life he gave Mauli for his daughters? His selfishness has ruined many lives including his own.
Malhotra family is dysfunctional like that, these people do not talk about issues, their daughter is afraid of playing dumb charades, is that the kind of life they are wishing for her? Shouldn't they talk to her about this?

Even today both Radhika Ji and Veer were trying to pacify Mishti rather than trying to solve the real issue. Dida was deciding dates for MauNal's wedding without asking anybody's opinion. From the Gen 1 , they have this problem of not having a proper coversation .

or May be season 2 is sketched in such a way that all the siblings will open up to Ruhaan and he will guide them in the right direction

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Piya

@piya2025

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 6 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: Nandy141

One heck of an emotional rant. Just remembering the outburst i had after revelation episode .. hope you feel better now 😆

I don't know,if I feel any better or not but these days (Really don't know why)wherever I look,I get to read stuff related to "falling out of love" concept & what amusing is that people think it's okay,it happens.

I understand that it happens & I am okay with it,like I said in my main post if it has any valid reason but still I don't know what is this feeling & why it hurts my heart so much,even though I am not in a relationship. 😆

The thought off someone loving you,making you fall for them,making you dream of having a life with them & one day you just wake up,that same person coming to you & telling you that omething changed in them & they don't love you anymore, no reason,no logic - it must just hurt so much..

Cheating on your partner with someone else & for no reason telling someone that you don't love them anymore,J don't know what more worse.

I just don't like it when some people try to justify such acts,their acts.They even go on to say how it made them a better person,how they found their perfect partner, I am happy for them but no offence,did they ever think about the one they left without any fault of their own? Like you found your perfect one while the other person might just never be able to love someone else or even worse they might just start doubting their worth,thinking what went wrong & they might just never be able to lead a normal life again.

Promise is a big thing .. as important as being loyal to someone.. if you honestly can't keep a promise,you shouldn't make it in the 1st place..Yes, ,situation happens sometime ..In that case,if you can't explain yourself with sincerity & honest reason,for me those are truly some ******up human,who either acts out of hormones or just plain selfish ones.

& I ended up ranting again.😒

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FruitToasty

@FruitToasty

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

#74

Originally posted by: Nandy141

Even today both Radhika Ji and Veer were trying to pacify Mishti rather than trying to solve the real issue. Dida was deciding dates for MauNal's wedding without asking anybody's opinion. From the Gen 1 , they have this problem of not having a proper coversation .

or May be season 2 is sketched in such a way that all the siblings will open up to Ruhaan and he will guide them in the right direction

I really get uncomfortable when I watch scenes like that. Mishti is probably the most powerful person in that living room but she is afraid of playing dumb charades, this is a scary life, no?

If someone is putting restrictions on me, I can ask him to stop but when I am doing it to myself, it's not possible to stop. If Radhika can't see this, I don't understand how she raised Kunal, why stop your kids? Give them a voice

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Nandy141

@Nandy141

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

I really get uncomfortable when I watch scenes like that. Mishti is probably the most powerful person in that living room but she is afraid of playing dumb charades, this is a scary life, no?
If someone is putting restrictions on me, I can ask him to stop but when I am doing it to myself, it's not possible to stop. If Radhika can't see this, I don't understand how she raised Kunal, why stop your kids? Give them a voice

Yea its truly disturbing Bold - Perfect 👏👏👏

Dont we all know the result of Radhika Ji's upbringing ??.. The only person who was allowed to voice an opinion and the one who kept her self respect intact in the Malhotra Khaandan was Mauli.

She stood by the right and Radhika Ji just stood by Mauli's side

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angaswamol

@angaswamol

Navigator

+ 2

Posted: 6 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: Nandy141

I will not disagree to this .. I understand you like Veer , you want his character to be explored more and you want MisVeer.. If Veer is the right person and if MisVeer as destined to be together in the show , let it happen

No he is not my fav in S2. I follow S2 because out of habbit rational logical story follower.

I want if mishaan happen for them selve not because Veer character have any kami. I see mishveer not happen because of mishti herself. In mishveer relation she lacking in every department not veer. Veer is khuli kitaab for mishti because he totally love her N have utmost trust on her like mauli had on kunal.

In maunal relation kunal is weak link exact like in mishveer relation mishti is weak link due to her own insecurity, trust, senciaritu, she cant control her new jazbatt so she dhamkofy everyone n blackmaling them emotionally.

Here i dont find any baimaani from veer but yes found lack of honesty in mishti who gave lame reason to hide her confuse n dis honesty towards veer.

Here is question is not veer sutaible for mishti or not but yes mishti is not sutaible for honest n goody guy veer.

I hope what i feel explain here.

Once again I'm not a fan of anyone neither any shipper n not want any perticular ship sail this season.

I get my lesson from S1😆

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Nandy141

@Nandy141

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: piya2025
I don't know,if I feel any better or not but these days (Really don't know why)wherever I look,I get to read stuff related to "falling out of love" concept & what amusing is that people think it's okay,it happens.
I understand that it happens & I am okay with it,like I said in my main post if it has any valid reason but still I don't know what is this feeling & why it hurts my heart so much,even though I am not in a relationship. 😆
The thought off someone loving you,making you fall for them,making you dream of having a life with them & one day you just wake up,that same person coming to you & telling you that omething changed in them & they don't love you anymore, no reason,no logic - it must just hurt so much..
Cheating on your partner with someone else & for no reason telling someone that you don't love them anymore,J don't know what more worse.
I just don't like it when some people try to justify such acts,their acts.They even go on to say how it made them a better person,how they found their perfect partner, I am happy for them but no offence,did they ever think about the one they left without any fault of their own? Like you found your perfect one while the other person might just never be able to love someone else or even worse they might just start doubting their worth,thinking what went wrong & they might just never be able to lead a normal life again.

Promise is a big thing .. as important as being loyal to someone.. if you honestly can't keep a promise,you shouldn't make it in the 1st place..Yes, ,situation happens sometime ..In that case,if you can't explain yourself with sincerity & honest reason,for me those are truly some ******up human,who either acts out of hormones or just plain selfish ones.

& I ended up ranting again.😒

I am trying to understand your POV.

To be honest with you , Falling out of love is something that happens for no reason . Just like the sunset and sunrise, certain things are bound to happen. We may fight for the victim and abuse the cheater. End of the day Karma might hit the cheater and Victim might move on.

or they can get back together.

Life is a painful suspense thriller, you can hope for the best to happen but we have no other choice than accepting reality.

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Nandy141

@Nandy141

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#78

Originally posted by: amolaarohi

No he is not my fav in S2. I follow S2 because out of habbit rational logical story follower.

I want if mishaan happen for them selve not because Veer character have any kami. I see mishveer not happen because of mishti herself. In mishveer relation she lacking in every department not veer. Veer is khuli kitaab for mishti because he totally love her N have utmost trust on her like mauli had on kunal.

In maunal relation kunal is weak link exact like in mishveer relation mishti is weak link due to her own insecurity, trust, senciaritu, she cant control her new jazbatt so she dhamkofy everyone n blackmaling them emotionally.

Here i dont find any baimaani from veer but yes found lack of honesty in mishti who gave lame reason to hide her confuse n dis honesty towards veer.

Here is question is not veer sutaible for mishti or not but yes mishti is not sutaible for honest n goody guy veer.

I hope what i feel explain here.

Once again I'm not a fan of anyone neither any shipper n not want any perticular ship sail this season.

I get my lesson from S1😆

There are N number of discussions on why Veer is not the right guy for Mishti and a unanimous opinion on how Veer is a perfect guy but not the one for Mishti and like you say she is not the right one to be Veer's girl.

End of the day , you and me are agreeing over the fact that Veer and Mishti are not perfect or the right ones for each other.

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Piya

@piya2025

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 6 years ago

#79

Originally posted by: Nandy141

I am trying to understand your POV.

To be honest with you , Falling out of love is something that happens for no reason . Just like the sunset and sunrise, certain things are bound to happen. We may fight for the victim and abuse the cheater. End of the day Karma might hit the cheater and Victim might move on.
or they can get back together.

Life is a painful suspense thriller, you can hope for the best to happen but we have no other choice than accepting reality.

Sunset & Sunrise are something bound to happen but they happen for a reason.

Sunrise comes with a new hope, hope for a new day,while sunrise happens to give you time to rest,to gear up for that new day.

Can "falling out of love" really be compared with sunset & Sunrise? I swear, I am trying,I am trying really hard to understand,so help me if you can, coz it's really messing up with my mind.

When someone cheats,there is a victim,there is a cheater but when someone falls out of love (possible that they fell for someone else while being in relationship already & if they come & tell you with all honestly,what would you call it or could be that they aren't in love with anyone new but they don't find them loving the person they claim to love once,anymore) what to do with them? You can't blame them,you can't curse them either..What should one do with such pain,which even time may not be able to heal.

Some say how it's not easy for the one who falls out of love & I seriously have issue with this one argument. Like tell me honestly,do you seriously have no reason? There is always a reason behind everything. I am not saying it's not hard,yes it is.Its hard coz you feel guilty & letting the the person know about it,does 2 things;

1 - free you from the guilt.

2 - It kinda save the other one from seeing you drifting apart slowly & painfully..

But at the end of the day,it still doesn't help them much.They still suffer. Everyone's way of dealing with a situation can vary but Its kind of unfortunate.

I agree with the last para though.Life is truly an unexpected ride towards a destination that's unknown.While some promise to stay with you till the end but get busy with someone's else comoany,forgetting you,while some just sits beside you through out your journey telling nothing & sometimes it's only you completing your journey all by alone.

Truth is no matter how much we appreciate truthfulness & act like oh it's fine but deep down we know,its not really fine & may we never had to live with such truth,' Cause it hurts..

I'll leave you with this beautiful tweetfic,it's painfully beautiful but the pain that it gives you somehow overpower the beauty of the relationship..Check it out if you want to.

https://mobile.twitter.com/chokegiwhy/status/1090552913896792064

Warning : it's boyboy (excuse me,if you are not comfortable)

This made me feel the pain & feelings that honestly was foreign to me. It makes you smile,laugh, love then it makes you ask question that why , scream, makes you cry.. But you don't get any answer,can't blame coz you love the person too much (that person loves you too yet they never gives you a proper ans & the things they say makes you feel tgat you were influencing their life in a way that they couldn't see anything but you & now that they can see the world they don't see you in it,anymore.

It's complicated but who knows it might just be able to see it in a different light.. :)

Edited by piya2025 - 6 years ago

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 6 years ago

#80

Originally posted by: piya2025
I don't know,if I feel any better or not but these days (Really don't know why)wherever I look,I get to read stuff related to "falling out of love" concept & what amusing is that people think it's okay,it happens.
I understand that it happens & I am okay with it,like I said in my main post if it has any valid reason but still I don't know what is this feeling & why it hurts my heart so much,even though I am not in a relationship. 😆
The thought off someone loving you,making you fall for them,making you dream of having a life with them & one day you just wake up,that same person coming to you & telling you that omething changed in them & they don't love you anymore, no reason,no logic - it must just hurt so much..
Cheating on your partner with someone else & for no reason telling someone that you don't love them anymore,J don't know what more worse.
I just don't like it when some people try to justify such acts,their acts.They even go on to say how it made them a better person,how they found their perfect partner, I am happy for them but no offence,did they ever think about the one they left without any fault of their own? Like you found your perfect one while the other person might just never be able to love someone else or even worse they might just start doubting their worth,thinking what went wrong & they might just never be able to lead a normal life again.

Promise is a big thing .. as important as being loyal to someone.. if you honestly can't keep a promise,you shouldn't make it in the 1st place..Yes, ,situation happens sometime ..In that case,if you can't explain yourself with sincerity & honest reason,for me those are truly some ******up human,who either acts out of hormones or just plain selfish ones.

& I ended up ranting again.😒

What u said is correct but what happens most people don't justify. They just speak reality. It's happens. It's not in anyone s control. Once u start seeing it happening around u. U accept it . It's not anyone is trying to justify them. Innitially I also used to get into solid arguments this is wrong that bla bla but eventually u see it happening around and u realise that's how it is. U realise human beings are not perfect and nobody is perfect like mauli and ishaan.

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