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Posted: 6 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Abhilasha practically you are correct in every point as you are talking on biological terms .

We are referencing season 1 here so only i want to add one more line that kunal malhotra was fail as husband not just once but twice .

Nandini's photo is missing on this wall . It was kunal's responsibility to make a place of his daughter's dead mother and his dead wife for whom he left his everything behind . Why even after mauhaan's marriage there is no place of nandini in radhika's heart ?? Did kunal never talk with his mother radhika that she should forgive his second wife who is not just his second wife but pari's mother too ? Why kunal fails to make a place of his dead wife in his mother's heart even after mauli got married again ?

Kunal failed as husband twice who neither gave justice to mauli when she was his wife nor get justice to his dead second wife nandini.


I agree.


It was Kunal's responsibility to see to it that his second wife , even though dead is accepted in the family specially now when Mauli had also re-married.


By not doing so he has given Pari a difficult life where she needs to deal with the insecurities all alone.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: Squadmishali


I don't see any unsaid hatred between Radhika ,Mishti and Pari, they are a family just like any other normal family.

I know there is no photo of nandini in wall but that doesn't mean they hate Pari ,Radhika loves both the girls eaually and even Ansh..

Mishti is too protective and possessive about Pari and Pari obeys her from the place of love and rests t as an elder sister .Mishti doesn't want her sister to go away from her...Well as far as I see all three kids are equal for Radhika and apple of her eyes ...



I am not saying that anybody hates her, but by seeing that wall Pari is time and again reminded of the wrong her mother did with this family.


Yes ! She does not consider it as wrong but the other members does.


Hence she tries to imitate Mishti and not commit any mistake .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Agreed!!!

Pari does live like an outsider in that house, not saying that they don't love her, everyone loves her but I guess there's a sense of fear in her which is not letting her be herself. I don't know if it will be explored but I would like to see Pari telling people what she feels



I am sure she will be reminded of this fact by Mishti in one of her fights with Pari.


Mishti is a character who has a bad tongue and temper , plus she turned cold the moment she saw Nandini's photo in the locket , so this topic will be brought up by Mishti for sure.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream



I am sure she will be reminded of this fact by Mishti in one of her fights with Pari.


Mishti is a character who has a bad tongue and temper , plus she turned cold the moment she saw Nandini's photo in the locket , so this topic will be brought up by Mishti for sure.

Now Mishti became bad mouthed girl too..Okay..Great..Mishti is elder daughter,also a caring and responsible girl of the house..She has sense and maturity..She knows how bad it would affect Pari if she says something about Nandini.She loves her siblings..I admit that she bursts out her fears and concern in the form of Yelling but that doesn't mean she will say anything to them.By the way how should Mishti react seeing Nandinis' photo?
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Posted: 6 years ago
#25
Though I am
Mauhan fan and found mishti sweet when she was kid some how I felt her views on Pari off beat
Unless you give people responsibility they will not learn and we can make mistake too so why scold pari so much on that agreement in partnership it has to be dealing with problems
She told Pari to learn bcz she is getting married why cannot she help the family after marriage they seems very modern as they drink beer instead of water for dinner lunch but married girl cannot work great
And Pari is one year younger so she will also get married soon so why Pari should handle business till Ansh grows up
Mishti is the head of this family that does not mean she can decide things
Mishti character is grey I feel
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream



I am sure she will be reminded of this fact by Mishti in one of her fights with Pari.


Mishti is a character who has a bad tongue and temper , plus she turned cold the moment she saw Nandini's photo in the locket , so this topic will be brought up by Mishti for sure.

so what u expect more from misthi to hug and love nandini who cheated her mother her father leaves her mother she has seen almost everything what pain but still she love as her sis pari li lucky to get loved like this what her parents did that was no words what parents did that ultimately comes to child same is happening here misthi all goodness of mauli whereas pari even scared to be like nandini
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chumki1968

Though I am
Mauhan fan and found mishti sweet when she was kid some how I felt her views on Pari off beat
Unless you give people responsibility they will not learn and we can make mistake too so why scold pari so much on that agreement in partnership it has to be dealing with problems
She told Pari to learn bcz she is getting married why cannot she help the family after marriage they seems very modern as they drink beer instead of water for dinner lunch but married girl cannot work great
And Pari is one year younger so she will also get married soon so why Pari should handle business till Ansh grows up
Mishti is the head of this family that does not mean she can decide things
Mishti character is grey I feel

as a sibling there are lots of tension when u are about to get married ita a normal sibling discussion its not a fight its abt the lesson which elder one is giving to younger i relate because i hv my big sis u saying misthi character grey i would wish u see see how pain that girl has faced then stll she is scaring its all the pain mother has faced and father and her friend give to her sill she is loving caring understanding what more u exoect from her at the first episode pari said to nandini mom u were not wrong thst was like oh really ? Her mom did nothing wrong isse pata chalta ki kon grey he kon saaf i m not here to fight i repect views
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chumki1968

Though I am
Mauhan fan and found mishti sweet when she was kid some how I felt her views on Pari off beat
Unless you give people responsibility they will not learn and we can make mistake too so why scold pari so much on that agreement in partnership it has to be dealing with problems
She told Pari to learn bcz she is getting married why cannot she help the family after marriage they seems very modern as they drink beer instead of water for dinner lunch but married girl cannot work great
And Pari is one year younger so she will also get married soon so why Pari should handle business till Ansh grows up
Mishti is the head of this family that does not mean she can decide things
Mishti character is grey I feel

This is not the first mistake Pari is making.. From their conversation it was clear that Mishti has been trying to make Pari responsible from some time but Pari keeps doing mistakes... Yesterday was the last straw and mishti exploded.. And its good to enjoy life when someone else is handling all the responsibilities . But it's not a good feeling to handle all the responsibilities alone all the time.. Mishti has done it for the sake of her siblings since her parents death and the poor girl forgot to live.. Now that she is marrying she doesn't want to handle all the responsibilities alone.. She want Pari to take equal responsibilities so that Mishti can enjoy her marital life and also meet the expectations of her in laws as a DIL.. Its not like Mishti is not gonna work after work.. She will work but she can't be 247 involved in it like before . So she want pari to share the responsibilities.. What's wrong in that.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ardhanarishwara

This is not the first mistake Pari is making.. From their conversation it was clear that Mishti has been trying to make Pari responsible from some time but Pari keeps doing mistakes... Yesterday was the last straw and mishti exploded.. And its good to enjoy life when someone else is handling all the responsibilities . But it's not a good feeling to handle all the responsibilities alone all the time.. Mishti has done it for the sake of her siblings since her parents death and the poor girl forgot to live.. Now that she is marrying she doesn't want to handle all the responsibilities alone.. She want Pari to take equal responsibilities so that Mishti can enjoy her marital life and also meet the expectations of her in laws as a DIL.. Its not like Mishti is not gonna work after work.. She will work but she can't be 247 involved in it like before . So she want pari to share the responsibilities.. What's wrong in that.

truly agree 😛

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