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Squadmishali

@Squadmishali

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Posted: 6 years ago

I kind of feel Pari's pain more coz imagine living in a house where your mother is unwanted topic...

For this I would majorly blame kunal then anyone else, he shouldn't had stayed there if Nandini wasn't accepted as Pari's mom .For Pari Mauli Aunty was Mauli aunty, who never became her mom ,she loved her but she yearned for motherly love too. . .Now imagine staying in house where your mother isn't even mentioned and is considered biggest taboo on earth.

She can't have her pic and only thing she has is her mother's locket, no other memories. It's difficult rather very difficult.

Kunal who used to do, all the puja for nandini wouldn't had done that in all these years when he was alive?

The turmoil that Pari is into and mess is in which she is into, is because of kunal's inability of taking a stand for nandini as Pari's mom ,he regretted being wrong to Mauli but never regretted his affair and marriage to nandini then y such turmoil should Pari face?

Also no I dont want either Mishti or Pari to experience unrequited love, whatever their parents it went off with their death. These girls deserves happiness.

I really like the fact that Arnav understands Pari's pain and suffering, so yes a protective me would want her to end up with Arnav neither Ruhaan and in no ways veer to be tyaag ki murti.. .

Here I wouldn't suggest Pari to go out and live as she loves her family and she is really closest to Mishti and they are family ultimately, but a little compassion for Pari's feelings towards her mom is something I'm hoping for that's it 😊

Edited by Squadmishali - 6 years ago

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Silpa

@Silpa20

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Posted: 6 years ago

I agree here.Kunal could not take stand for his dead wife.Kunal is at fault here.Nothing good can be expected from him anyway

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MsChanadlerBong

@MsChanadlerBong

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Posted: 6 years ago

Pari is suffering. No argument against that. Its truly justified that she can remember her mother and yearn for mother's love. Like you said, Mauli was not a mother figure for her. Thou she kept wishing she did have Mauli as her mother but all Mauli was to her was a very loving aunty who took care of her well. So its perfectly natural for her to remember and cry for her mother.

Regarding the living arrangement, it still is so unclear. Did Kunal shift back with Pari to Radhika's house after Mauhaan marriage? Or did they all live together like a big happy family (oh god I hope not). Mishti and Ansh probably moved in with Radhika after Mauhaan and Kunal's death. Maybe Kunal did hang Nandini's pictures like in his old house he shared with Pari. Maybe they took them out once Mishti and Ansh moved in or something like that. Or maybe Kunal and Pari lived in their old apartment and Pari only moved back in with Radhika after his death. That explains the whole picture thing.

Now lets clear a thing, Mauli forgave Kunal and Nandini but she never accepted them. Dida and Radhika forgave Nandini but didn't accept her. There is a difference. And they have whole right to not accept her. Kunal their son left them just for her. How can they accept and respect her? They were a part of a big happy family that Nandini did destroy so why would they accept her or hang her pictures after her death? For them Mauli was the daughter and daughter in law. Honestly speaking it would have been a big insult to Mauli and even Radhika and Dida if they had happily hung Nandini's pictures.

Nandini is not mentioned in the house cause well she is a uncomfortable subject for them. Mishti still doesn't like her and never will and even Pari will be at an awkward position when Nandini is mentioned. How will they remember her? As a home breaker but lets accept the fact that she was one. And that doesn't change. You can forgive but not forget.

Pari can remember her mother but no one else is obliged to remember her or accept or respect her.

And what about Pari staying with her family? They are their family at the end of the day and she needs them. Radhika is the only adult figure she has in her life and Mishti and Ansh are her only family so its natural for her to live with them. Whats wrong in that? Yes they don't discuss Nandini but they don't bad mouth her either so whats the problem.

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FruitToasty

@FruitToasty

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Posted: 6 years ago

Kunal had Nandini's picture in his home so I don't understand how come they don't have her picture after everyone's death. Maybe they removed it after Mishti/Ansh moved in so they are not hurt by seeing Nandini's picture.

I don't think Radhika has to forgive Nandini but Pari can move out of the house where she is not required. She is a grown up woman, she can definitely live on her own.

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Squadmishali

@Squadmishali

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: MsChanadlerBong
Pari is suffering. No argument against that. Its truly justified that she can remember her mother and yearn for mother's love. Like you said, Mauli was not a mother figure for her. Thou she kept wishing she did have Mauli as her mother but all Mauli was to her was a very loving aunty who took care of her well. So its perfectly natural for her to remember and cry for her mother.

Regarding the living arrangement, it still is so unclear. Did Kunal shift back with Pari to Radhika's house after Mauhaan marriage? Or did they all live together like a big happy family (oh god I hope not). Mishti and Ansh probably moved in with Radhika after Mauhaan and Kunal's death. Maybe Kunal did hang Nandini's pictures like in his old house he shared with Pari. Maybe they took them out once Mishti and Ansh moved in or something like that. Or maybe Kunal and Pari lived in their old apartment and Pari only moved back in with Radhika after his death. That explains the whole picture thing.

Now lets clear a thing, Mauli forgave Kunal and Nandini but she never accepted them. Dida and Radhika forgave Nandini but didn't accept her. There is a difference. And they have whole right to not accept her. Kunal their son left them just for her. How can they accept and respect her? They were a part of a big happy family that Nandini did destroy so why would they accept her or hang her pictures after her death? For them Mauli was the daughter and daughter in law. Honestly speaking it would have been a big insult to Mauli and even Radhika and Dida if they had happily hung Nandini's pictures.
Nandini is not mentioned in the house cause well she is a uncomfortable subject for them. Mishti still doesn't like her and never will and even Pari will be at an awkward position when Nandini is mentioned. How will they remember her? As a home breaker but lets accept the fact that she was one. And that doesn't change. You can forgive but not forget.

Pari can remember her mother but no one else is obliged to remember her or accept or respect her.

And what about Pari staying with her family? They are their family at the end of the day and she needs them. Radhika is the only adult figure she has in her life and Mishti and Ansh are her only family so its natural for her to live with them. Whats wrong in that? Yes they don't discuss Nandini but they don't bad mouth her either so whats the problem.

After Mauli's wedding they could had, and because of Radhikaji and her curse only nandini is no longer alive, we all know that and apparently if she can forgive her son then definitely nandini, she became a easy scapegoat for everyone apparently . .For one Daughter in law, they showed progressive approach for deceased legal daughter in law ,she is a big taboo so honestly it's kunal who should had been clear by his stand atleast after Mauli got married. ..Because every time it can't be about just Mauli na?Apparently she got life she deserved with Ishaan then y not a bit of compassion for Pari. ..i agree kunan may be worst but they are ultimately Pari's parents.

I stand by that nandini should get respect as Pari's mom and kunal's deceased wife, coz it looks like typical saas bahu types Otherwuse where u forgive your son but not nandini.. .

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Squadmishali

@Squadmishali

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Silpa91
I agree here.Kunal could not take stand for his dead wife.Kunal is at fault here.Nothing good can be expected from him anyway

Yes I'm sure that's y apparently he signed in for Mishti's adoption and gave it to Ishaan...

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Squadmishali

@Squadmishali

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: FruitToasty
Kunal had Nandini's picture in his home so I don't understand how come they don't have her picture after everyone's death. Maybe they removed it after Mishti/Ansh moved in so they are not hurt by seeing Nandini's picture.
I don't think Radhika has to forgive Nandini but Pari can move out of the house where she is not required. She is a grown up woman, she can definitely live on her own.

But I don't think Mishti would had any problem, and Ansh what does he has to do with this? Y hurt Pari in this whole process? Just because she is Nandinis daughter ?

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Aria

@Cinnamonn

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Posted: 6 years ago

Why is her mother an unwanted topic..

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FruitToasty

@FruitToasty

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Squadmishali

But I don't think Mishti would had any problem, and Ansh what does he has to do with this? Y hurt Pari in this whole process? Just because she is Nandinis daughter ?

I really don't know if Gajra will give answers to these questions, I have an idea. Will dm you