Originally posted by: jhalak7
As I have told earlier cheating in love doesn't matter at all in love comparing to marriage ...because love and marriage is not same and you will understand this when you will get married and go through the whole world change. In love you are still there where you can start fresh. How is this and marriage where your entire world is change can be same?
Mauli's start can't be compared to Veer's start. If I see Mauli...Veer's start is nothing. He doesn't have a child and seven years relationship where he lost his family, his health , respect , honor, money, time like Mauli did. If I see Mauli's seven+6 years ...what is Veer? He is nothing comparing to Mauli's life.
This post is about Veer and Mauli...so I thought you will understand why I wrote that ...
Nobody is comparing Veer's pain to Mauli's. Of course Mauli's pain would be more, that is natural.
But does that mean the Veer's pain would not matter at all?? If a murderer kills 100 people and another murderer kills only 10 people, then obviously we will say that the first murderer is worse. But does that mean that second murderer's crimes don't matter at all? He might have killed only 10 people, but that is still a heinous crime.
Similarly, Veer's pain will not be as much as Mauli's, sure, but he'll still have pain. And Mishti would still be wrong.
Cheating is wrong no matter whether you're married or not. The act is still wrong. The pain might be worse in marriage, but that does not mean that before marriage there is no pain at all.
You cannot say that cheating does not matter if you're not married. The act of cheating is the same before or after marriage. Playing with someone's feelings is wrong even before marriage.
Pretending to be in love with someone and then going around with someone else is a very very wrong act. Being unmarried does not lessen the unethicality of the act.
Try to understand, here we're only talking about ETHICS and not the IMPACT.
Edited by krystal_watz - 6 years ago