the entire post was written on 19th dec, 2018 and you will have to believe this. hehe..
a very big thank you to @silpa for listening to all this .. today (19dec, 2018) @silpa and I have decided to share our thought via PMs.. haha. i am glad we did that. and most of the times it was only my rant.. thanku so so much @silpa for being there to listen to me..
i havent told u about this my new adventure of mine. 😆lol. but its a surprise for u.. i love u @silpa for supporting the right and i love all my girls who were there for their mauli..
so guys today (19 dec, 2018) i have assumed that mauli has chosen ishaan over kunal and everybody is happy..
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so now i have written everything with a pov that i have got my best end.. hehe.
here we go..- -
end game was decided way back.. but still for a show to go on they need to keep viewers hooked.. and they did that very smartly.. lol.
but in this process they made my mauli a teenager .. there were times i couldnt connect to her , there were times when i wanted to shout "wake up mauli" haha.. there were times when i thought i lost her.. that was a heaftbreaking feeling.. i left mauli's AT as i didnt want to criticize her there and also i knew mauli will have to doom if they try to use her for trps. using mauli means trying to show that she deseperately wants kunal.. and she actually was behaving really strange in those days.. but i guess to rise higher she needed to doom but she came out as a winner. and today i am a "proud mama" (sancheeta's words)
the day mauli's MIL entered the show i knew ishaan is gonna be a sandwich.. but that was his testing time.. i loved him during those days.. i knew he was the one. the only one.. he deserved her..
mauli's MIL had brought up a new issue that mauli was a divorcee and was in a cordial relationship with her ex sasural. even sometimes mauli's ex husband and his daughter with his second wife kept meeting mauli and family.. so the issue was "mauli's MIL (society) failed to understand that even after divorce mauli-mishti could meet kunal-pari and have cordial relationship with them"
and this was the thing which clearly hinted about "the end". i told @chicksoup in some post if she remembers that todays episode says a lot about the end.. that episode was when ishaan's mother met mauli first time..
making society understand that such weird relationships exist and should be acceptable was the plan..
i guess writer is too much obsessed with PROGRESSIVE things which is GOOD if the things are actually progressive.. ema was not progressive.. but i guess writer's idea behind this show was showing how in modern times people keep falling in love and out of love so easily.. i agree we have people like mauli too , but i am glad she didnt choose to become a devdas.. which is a motivating idea..
but then i used to think what if i am thinking too deep and writers are just thinking about their tagline "juzzbat"" ufff!!
then it could be a twist. like mauli's MIL is ready for marriage and regrets that she has looked down upon mauli's profile for marriage.. she feels lucky and blessed to have mauli as a DIL.
but but but..!! mauli is doing all this for mishti. and ishaan senses it and let her go to kunal...
anyway.. maunal as an end was a joke that time when kunal was still a person who thought he was right in his place..and if he was right then mauli could have accepted him only if she also believes that he was right back then.. but if she accepted that then she was accepting him at her own risk.. who knows he can flip again..
kunal i have always , like always wanted him to redeem. saved him from forum's backlash. hehe. "are we too harsh on kunal?" hehe. i still remember that post.. and then kunal whitewashing started. i thought why did i saved him. haha. but i hated the white washing bcz white washings are forced.. kunal was so mature when he made a re entry in mauli's life and then the camp track kunal was pure white washed kunal. i really hated camp track..
i always had strong feelings that maunal are IMPOSSIBLE. lol u all know this by now..
but i never hated them together but disliked camp track, only bcz of giving me a white washed kunal and a weird mauli..
i always said maunal were needed in one frame to let the show go on.. and they could have used them well in camp track. uff !! let it go man.
but now things are fine.. it feels good that mehek is there for pari.. probably as a mother figure. and mauli has taken a step forward towards ishaan..
not everyone gets second chances in love.. she got.. she is blessed!! mishti is blessed..
i am glad that kunal and mauli will have a cordial relationship after this..
YES this post was written way back.. way way back.. bcz i had a HOPE. and we should not let our hopes die..
as one of the most active forum member (lol) i have interacted with most of the people here. and i really wish to tell them that love is not that mahaan.. don't let love ruin your happiness by making it mahaan/true and eternal.. don't let it drive ur heart when u are already in a mess.. don't keep loving a cheater , he doesnt deserve that love.. don't think that loving that first lover or special person will make ur love true or eternal if it is stopping u from moving on and moving on is needed.. help urself..!!
love yourself.. give yourself a chance to move on.. love doesnt happen once . u can love again. i agree the degrees may vary as @charu said long back.. i always believe that the intensity of loving someone changes as the person u loved changes , as time flies.. now i can see mauli had no deep love for him.. it has changed it form..
one day she will be completely free from her past memories.. it will not hurt her anymore..