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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

so what is big issue if mauli took pari name. yes nobody can force her to love pari but if she wants to love pari then it her choice


and loving pari doesn't not mean manual going to happen.. mauling loving pari is not connected to manual union

even mauhaan married mauli will not stop loving pari

and even ishaan has no problem mauli loving pari. even ishaan also love pari

jo galti mother father ne ki uska anger mauli innocent pari pe kyon nikaale

I have no issue with Mauli loving Pari but loving Pari as much as her own daughter. Treating Pari at the same level as her own daughter. Please no ways. No mother can do it and the only reason why Mauli is being made to do is so that Kunan becomes less hateable .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: shivanitakur


it's not just punch beat a lot of serials have this kind of track. there are serials that are built on this whole concept. i personally love those stories but this doesn't feel like it all. of course mauli loves pari. not only is she a genuinely good person she's a child of 2 people she loved at one point, that's not surprising.

in those serials where a woman accepts a child of husbands affair, she's is usually given some rights, the couple is still married, one of the parents will request that the woman raise the child as their dying wish, and then woman would wholeheartedly take in the child and raise the child and mauli wholeheartedly loves but who's letting her raise Pari. Nandini's tape really means nothing when Kunal is still around and Kunal didn't want Mauli to have it. Kunal didn't give Mauli the right to raise Pari like her own. He doesn't want to give Mauli custody.

Like Mauli gave Ishaan the right to be Mishti's father when she started letting Mishti call him Popsie. She even wanted a legal adoption, so then it makes sense that Ishaan has rights over raising Mishti. Even MauHaan looking after Pari isn't that unrealistic because everyone knows it's temporary but Mauli feeling she has some permanent rights over Pari when no one has given it to her is just crazy. Imagine if you're Kunal and you recover from this memory loss thing and you find out Mauli took care of your daughter while you're ill you would be eternally grateful of course but you're not going to give your ex wife partial custody.


So custody is everything is it? Well in that case ishaan never got custody rights. It's misti who accepted him as popsi and he accepted her as his daughter mentally first. The love developed first. Isn't it? The love doesn't wait for custody rights. Ishaan was never aware that mouli will accept his love. He came trying and in the process he became a family. Till today he isn't sure of mouli s love. But irrespective of who mouli chooses he promises to be a father of misti and promises her to be always there for her as popsi. So similarly mouli doesn't need any custody rights.

Mouli approached lawyer when she got to know that kunal came to know about misti but kunal never demanded of misti who is her n kunal child then why should she expect custody rights. Remember she had gone to lawyer to make sure kunal stays away from misti and give custody rights to isshan but she cancelled it.

Nways the whole point is to love u don't need custody rights. Even if kunal comes out of memory loss he will have no problem with pari meeting mouli. Pari and misti are sisters will keep staying at each others place. Kunal and pari will stay with dida and radhika . Misti will come to stay with them and in this process bond with kunal. If at all the new dadi isn't loving towards misti she will share her problems with kunal. Similarly if kunal isn't able to understand pari he might sent pari to mouli for few days. I think they are family and will always be.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile


So custody is everything is it? Well in that case ishaan never got custody rights. It's misti who accepted him as popsi and he accepted her as his daughter mentally first. The love developed first. Isn't it? The love doesn't wait for custody rights. Ishaan was never aware that mouli will accept his love. He came trying and in the process he became a family. Till today he isn't sure of mouli s love. But irrespective of who mouli chooses he promises to be a father of misti and promises her to be always there for her as popsi. So similarly mouli doesn't need any custody rights.

Mouli approached lawyer when she got to know that kunal came to know about misti but kunal never demanded of misti who is her n kunal child then why should she expect custody rights. Remember she had gone to lawyer to make sure kunal stays away from misti and give custody rights to isshan but she cancelled it.

Nways the whole point is to love u don't need custody rights. Even if kunal comes out of memory loss he will have no problem with pari meeting mouli. Pari and misti are sisters will keep staying at each others place. Kunal and pari will stay with dida and radhika . Misti will come to stay with them and in this process bond with kunal. If at all the new dadi isn't loving towards misti she will share her problems with kunal. Similarly if kunal isn't able to understand pari he might sent pari to mouli for few days. I think they are family and will always be.


i literally never said legal custody is everything ??? i was saying it's an important factor in developing a relationship between parent-child relationship in other serials. i used Ishaan-Mishti's relationship as an example of a person who was given parental rights (not just legal in an emotional sense too) over a child he didn't father.

And i NEVER said there was no love between them or that Kunal or Radhika wouldn't let Mauli ever interact with Pari you just completely made that up. I'm saying being a family member is completely different than being a parent. you can start as a family member and then become a parental figure but that development hasn't happened in the show yet. just because pari's father is ill right now doesn't make mauli her mother.

I agree that Mauli loves Pari and she will always be there for her but she isn't her primary mother figure or her step mom YET, she's her aunt. Pari may not understand but Mauli isn't a child she knows that. We ALL know Mauli doesn't have the same rights over Mishti as Pari so why would she consider the 2 equal? again i'm not saying legal rights and i'm not comparing the 2 loves, i'm saying the relationships are different it doesn't make one less meaningful.

The writers saying that Mauli considers Mishti and Pari on the same level in her subconscious doesn't make any sense because they haven't shown that yet in the show.

if you reply to this with Mauli took care of Pari when she was sick or that Mauli is taking care of Pari right now I'm not going to respond, that's literally what all family members and even close friends would do that doesn't make someone a parent.
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