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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7

After marriage...after cheated by hubby+best friend...after insulted by hubby+best friend...after giving birth to a daughter and raising her alone...usually woman don't want to marry again as they think all men are bas***ds.
But Mauli is taking that risk...trusting another man again. It is not that easy as her old memory is still haunting her. She was an amazing wife...she was a lover and she was a good heart woman too. Still her hubby cheated her, insulted her and left her brutally. In this kind of situation if hubby lost his memory wify would use all sorts of way to give him the cruelest punishment possible. Mercy etc is not written in our religious books also. 😆😆😆 So Kunal doesn't deserve a forgiveness and if Mauli takes revenge religion usually don't tell her wrong. 😆😆😆

But Mauli is an exceptional case. She is living with the man who destroyed her life, insulted her and questioned on her capability as a wife+lover.
Comparing to that Ishali's relationship doesn't look strange to me.
But it's all depends on whom you choose...Shakti or Kinshuk. Besides it is not a "romance" serial. It is about a woman who was deceived and a man who deceived her. So not worried about why romance scenes are less between Ishali. Mauli is a mature woman with a kid. A single mother don't romance like 16year old teenage girl. She doesn't want a guy to call her every 5minutes...sp when she is a busy Doctor. She wants a guy who loves her, her child and her existence just the way she is. She wants a guy who stands beside her when she needs him and a guy waits for her when she gets time to meet him. Okay...that's single mother's love story. As far as I am seeing Ishali is having that...so I think CVs are now showing the practical single mother's love story...which actually happens in real life.
You will never find a connection unless you witnessed a single mother's love story. Because it is just not like a teenager's love story.


Very well said. 👏


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: NainoMeinSapna


Okay look, I am a huge believer in forgiveness when one repents of their misdeeds and if Kunal was sincerely sorry about cheating on Mauli and then leaving her for the other woman, I would totally forgive him. I highly doubt that that's going to happen but that's a topic for another time.

Here is where my problem lies with this apology. He feels bad for cheating on Mauli and leaving her, fine. I say forgive him. But what is the point of him feeling bad now that everything is over. Nandini is no more, so abh uski apology ka kya faayda. If he was still married to Nandini and regretted/repented what he did to Mauli that would be great, I would actually respect him for that. 👏 But now that Nandini is no more, his apology is bilkul pheeki because he enjoyed his marriage with the other woman and he had a kid with her. And now that she's gone, he's coming back and saying "sorry." And Nandini did literally the same thing, she didn't regret until she found out she was going to die. Only after that did she make a CD for Mauli that too with ulterior motives of making Mauli her daughters nanny. This woman didn't even have the guts to face Mauli or even call her.

Kunal saying sorry to Mauli after Nandini has died is like me taking my friend's ice cream, fully eating it, and then saying sorry, I was wrong.



Also apology doesnt mean love. Same with forgivess. Mano ki Kunal ne aafi magli aur Mouli toh inti achhi hai, usne maafi bhi dedi...Does this automatically mean they are good and back to married life?

Are people really saying that Kunal needs to apologize only to prove that he loves Mouli? So, if Kunal did really love Nandini and he did really have a good life, is there then no reason for apology? I thought that if you hurt some, sp knowingly, then you owe that person a sincere apology regardless they accept the apology or not and regardless they forgive you or not.

Apology isn't some trade: I apologize and in return you love me. You dont demand forgiveness, let alone love.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7

After marriage...after cheated by hubby+best friend...after insulted by hubby+best friend...after giving birth to a daughter and raising her alone...usually woman don't want to marry again as they think all men are bas***ds.
But Mauli is taking that risk...trusting another man again. It is not that easy as her old memory is still haunting her. She was an amazing wife...she was a lover and she was a good heart woman too. Still her hubby cheated her, insulted her and left her brutally. In this kind of situation if hubby lost his memory wify would use all sorts of way to give him the cruelest punishment possible. Mercy etc is not written in our religious books also. 😆😆😆 So Kunal doesn't deserve a forgiveness and if Mauli takes revenge religion usually don't tell her wrong. 😆😆😆

But Mauli is an exceptional case. She is living with the man who destroyed her life, insulted her and questioned on her capability as a wife+lover.
Comparing to that Ishali's relationship doesn't look strange to me.
But it's all depends on whom you choose...Shakti or Kinshuk. Besides it is not a "romance" serial. It is about a woman who was deceived and a man who deceived her. So not worried about why romance scenes are less between Ishali. Mauli is a mature woman with a kid. A single mother don't romance like 16year old teenage girl. She doesn't want a guy to call her every 5minutes...sp when she is a busy Doctor. She wants a guy who loves her, her child and her existence just the way she is. She wants a guy who stands beside her when she needs him and a guy waits for her when she gets time to meet him. Okay...that's single mother's love story. As far as I am seeing Ishali is having that...so I think CVs are now showing the practical single mother's love story...which actually happens in real life.
You will never find a connection unless you witnessed a single mother's love story. Because it is just not like a teenager's love story.


You nailed it! Put is so well

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