Does anyone remember this? - Page 3

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

This is it...
You are taking that phase as Kunal's whitewashing phase, so you are completely discarding it's existence in the story... Similarly when Kunal was a monster it was Nandini whitewashing phase, should we discard it?

The point here is that Mauli herself is not blaming Kunal for that anymore, Mauli is not the one who blames herself for Kunal's weakness, when he tried to act like a victim she told him - "You are not the victim Kunal, I am the victim here"

I am not saying it's wrong or right, I am just answering your question, do I remember it? Yes, but I also remember that Mauli forgave him for it...

Originally posted by: sweetzzz

Exactly! Even after these many years of marriage (7 he said right? 7 yes itch) he is still stuck to his teenage love with surprises, gifts, roses, romance! Always?? Where is the maturity !!

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

What am I discarding? I already explained that betrayed partners are often in denial about the narcissistic tendencies of their partners. That's why Mauli defended him. The whitewashing was the constant ego boost by that useless Mehek. And where was Nandini whitewashed? She was never defended by the 3rd parties? It was only Kunal who defended her.

But whatever Mauli said to Kunal was before Mehek's entry, no?
Anyway, Mauli wasn't blaming herself, she was in her senses, she saw Kunal as a good father and thought that she should have told him and they would have been together... She didn't say it was her fault, it was her wish to get back with Kunal, even after all he did to her... Here grieving party Mauli herself has said this, it wasn't a blame, you have to watch the episode and see her conversation with Dida... She wasn't in blame game mode...

Don't you remember Nandini whitewashing phase? Nandini planning Mauli's birthday? Mauli going to a dargah and something was about to fall on her head and she was saved, then the baba told her that someone's dua saved her? Then Dida told Mauli that someone's dua has made Mauli pregnant? Then the whole blame of EMA was taken from Nandini to Kunal and that was the time, Kunal was ruined completely...


I can discard whatever Kunal did as Nandini's whitewashing, but in the story he was completely inconsiderate towards Mauli, I have bashed him badly but when Mauli herself says that he wasn't at fault...

This is just an answer to your questions, as I said I remember everything but the story is not stuck there, the story moved from Kunal blaming Mauli to Mauli forgiving him... That's what happened in the show..

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

But whatever Mauli said to Kunal was before Mehek's entry, no?
Anyway, Mauli wasn't blaming herself, she was in her senses, she saw Kunal as a good father and thought that she should have told him and they would have been together... She didn't say it was her fault, it was her wish to get back with Kunal, even after all he did to her... Here grieving party Mauli herself has said this, it wasn't a blame, you have to watch the episode and see her conversation with Dida... She wasn't in blame game mode...

Don't you remember Nandini whitewashing phase? Nandini planning Mauli's birthday? Mauli going to a dargah and something was about to fall on her head and she was saved, then the baba told her that someone's dua saved her? Then Dida told Mauli that someone's dua has made Mauli pregnant? Then the whole blame of EMA was taken from Nandini to Kunal and that was the time, Kunal was ruined completely...


I can discard whatever Kunal did as Nandini's whitewashing, but in the story he was completely inconsiderate towards Mauli, I have bashed him badly but when Mauli herself says that he wasn't at fault...

This is just an answer to your questions, as I said I remember everything but the story is not stuck there, the story moved from Kunal blaming Mauli to Mauli forgiving him... That's what happened in the show..

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

But Mauli did blame herself. She got carried away, yes but she did blame herself for lying about the pregnancy in the camp track.

See, when I say whitewashing I meant the fake praises by a third character. Post leap it was Mehek. In case of Nandini, other than cheater Kunal ,no one defended her. And I go by the action of the characters, not what other characters think of them. And Mauli clearly hasn't moved on from his actions, otherwise she wouldn't be getting these flashbacks. Her actions say otherwise

You asked a question and I answered it, your interpretation of everything is different from mine, I am just giving you a point of view that in story Mauli already forgave him for that, you can say it was self blaming but the scene where she did it was more like a wish than blame...

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

You asked a question and I answered it, your interpretation of everything is different from mine, I am just giving you a point of view that in story Mauli already forgave him for that, you can say it was self blaming but the scene where she did it was more like a wish than blame...

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

That's okay. But that wish doesn't exist anymore because his past actions still haunt her, as it was seen in yesterday's episode .

That's because after getting to know her wish Kunal got Mehek, helped Ishaan, acted like a money hungry unethical man, a woman beater, threw her out at the night...

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

That's because after getting to know her wish Kunal got Mehek, helped Ishaan, acted like a money hungry unethical man, a woman beater, threw her out at the night...

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

But Mauli doesn't even think about Mehek or the post leap - Kunal acting like a jerk scenes anymore. They showed her getting traumatized because of the pre leap actions. Her flashbacks don't indicate that she is bothered about those scenes. Flashbacks indicate that it was the cheating and the humiliation which broke her completely.

Maybe writer is writing the story by editing the whole post leap story, this is inconsistency in her writer which is not making sense. I didn't forget anything that happened pre leap but I guess now we have to forget what happened post leap

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Maybe writer is writing the story by editing the whole post leap story, this is inconsistency in her writer which is not making sense. I didn't forget anything that happened pre leap but I guess now we have to forget what happened post leap