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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Mages


are u sure this is a good idea😆...becos i am sure the reverse will happen if she goes to kunal...she will never go back to ishaan-mauli ever..infact she will want her real parents to unite back and pari her sister to be with her

I know so. 😆 If it was before she had a fight with Pari...may be she would go to Kunal. But now she was scolded and was about to get a slap from moma for Pari. After all these if you threat her to stay with Pari in same house that will be enough for her to get scared. Sp Mehek auntie lives there too. 😆 She will never go to Kunal's house. I do this to my son often. Whenever he has a fight with his friend etc I threat him I will send you to his house and there your friend and his family would give you a dhulai ...😆😆 And it always work, at least till they have a dushmani with each other. 😉 You know Pari is not just a friend now and Kunal is not a friend's papa. For her Kunal is that guy who left her, Pari is that girl who is getting all the attention. Mishti hates Pari. Mauli doesn't have to send Mishti to Kunal's home...just threat her...that's enough. 😉

what is a win win situation for ishaan is...mishti has never bond with her real father..she doesn't have a emotional connect...the day this father-daughter start to bond and the father-daughters(trio)start to bond...ishaan though will remain her popsie will take a backseat till mishti comes back to him

I know this too. That's why the day Ishan started to react like Mauli...mahan...I was bashing Ishan..."Saale ullu ka patha...do you know you can lose Mauli if you let Kunal and Mishti meet each other." 😆 But now the situation is no longer that anymore. Mishti hates Pari and Kunal. Uparse Mehek made it concrete solid. ...unknowingly .Mehek is doing a favor to Ishan. 😆

Edited by jhalak7 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
@prettywomaniya


Your answer is in your question itself. 😊

Everyone is human here & everyone has his/her share of faults.

Do I hate Mauli? No. She is my favorite in this show. But do I find her way of dealing right now problematic? Yes, because she has created a mess & pretty much everyone in this forum is vocal about her.

i don't doubt u man!.. my concern is not mauli here.. yes she is problematic!
So why can't we point fingers at Ishaan's certain traits? And believe me by pointing at someones fault you can't justify yourself. Even Kunal was roasted by a few when he wanted to stop Mahek the other day..

u can point out fingers. definitely u can! and this is what we are discussing! but its not me who pointed out faults in other character but u compared mehek's reaction to ishaan. so i did the same to make u understand whose reaction was better.. kunal wasnt roasted and discussed to this level that the pages of thread reaches to page 14 and that condition can not be even compared to today's. pari was drowned in pool.. and everybody was saying mishti pushed pari.. kunal spared mishti and said those dialogues..
was that bearable? i made one small statement about him.. and here i am defending ishaan to page 14.. if thats the case then mauli's reaction is not motherly.. she is not concerned but strict.. 😕

You are taking my words regarding Ishaan way too seriously. 😊 Even you had commented earlier that Kunal's reaction at the pool scene wasn't as it should have been. That's what I had written in my first comment. That I was disappointed with Ishaan's reaction in that particular episode. Any father would have a heart attack thinking what could have happened to the little one. But Ishaan seemed calm. So I didn't like it.
Mahek's comparison came as I found her reaction to be genuine among Mauli-Kunal-Ishaan.
That's why I was pissed off that when they are showing an outsider to react like this why can't they show the parents to behave properly?

Ishaan is a good person. But that doesn't mean he can never be wrong or lack some fatherly instinct.

yes we are debating about that only..

Plus leap has happened & pointing at KuNan has reached its' saturation point long ago.
Mishti is traumatized or Kunal chose Nandini - these aren't sufficient to overlook the blunders created by the adults here & I mean everyone including Kunal, Dida, Radhika, Mauli, Ishaan.

i didnt get these points of yours.. what do u mean to say here?? pls care to explain if u can.

I made this statement in general sense. I know you are one of the very few FORUMWASIS who are not biased towards any certain character. But in most of the threads even when it's not required, comparison between Mishti-Pari or Mauli-Nandini or Nandini-Pari etc starts. My point is right now the situation is grave. Here each of the parent has to come forward for the betterment of Pari-Mishti. At this point I prefer not to point at what Kunal did to Mauli pre-leap or draw a comparison between him & Ishaan.
That's what I wanted to say. But I apologize if my statement seemed harsh or out of the line to you. 😊
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: sancheeta

PW - idhar aa ja 🤗 A big jhappi to you. You are being very patient here 😆

Parenting is a tough and most rewarding job.No parent is perfect.Every parent in this world is flawed and every parent has his/her own style of parenting and every parent along with the child learns in the process. We cannot really say ki this way is only right and that way is only wrong, it doesn't work that way. Kids are very smart, they know which parent is going to react in what manner and accordingly they place their argument in front of them. I can vouch for that being a parent myself. Hell even my toddler who is not even 2 runs to his dad when he see's my angry face 😆 Basically I am the bad cop in my house. Both my kids will run to their father when they are upto some mischief or have done anything wrong, not because their dad will support them in their wrongs, itni door ki sochte bhi nahi woh 😆 but at that very moment they just want to be shielded from mommy's scoldings/shoutings. They know dad has their back! Didn't we used to do the same. Run to the lesser strict parent when caught doing wrong because we used to feel that parent will understand us better?
Mishti trusts Ishaan the most and she knows he has her back and Ishaan has earned this trust from her by being there for her and doing things for her and most importantly spending time with her whenever and wherever possible.

Mauli needs to COMMUNICATE with her daughter ASAP! If Mishti is being rude, Mauli needs to know why she's being rude. Mishti didn't turn this hateful overnight.. how come her mom and grandmoms can't see this? Problem sab ko pata hai, solution nahi dhoondna. Keeping Mishti away from Popsie is taking Mishti more away from Mauli. And yes, strictly my opinion but Ishaan most definitely is getting the shorter end of the stick here.



Hi, I like it your post very much & i totally agree with you. Mine toddler also one & half year old. She was also doing same when i angry on her she run towards her father, when her father angry she run towards to me & when we both mother-daughter angry on her she run towards her grand parents shelter. Then we all family laughing how their work as per there convenience. They not think whats good & bad, what better & wrong. They just know love is good & scolding is bad. Its not about my experience but also I notice with mine Sister in Law, she have two children one is 12 year & second 6 year.

As you said parent also learn how to parenting with child growth. I myself learning with my husband.

Ishaan, Mauli & Kunal now is learning parenting. There approach are very much different from each other. Here I'm found of very much toward Ishaan because he tried hard to understand mishty despite of he is not bio-logical father to her & he succeeded. He never dependent on other when come to father responsibility. He always maintain his responsibility towards mishty in absent or presence of her mother & grand mothers. And he never glorify himself about that & demean other for his ego satisfaction.
Edited by amolaarohi - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
@Anahi
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: nushy1995

@prettywomaniya


You are taking my words regarding Ishaan way too seriously. 😊 Even you had commented earlier that Kunal's reaction at the pool scene wasn't as it should have been. That's what I had written in my first comment. That I was disappointed with Ishaan's reaction in that particular episode. Any father would have a heart attack thinking what could have happened to the little one. But Ishaan seemed calm. So I didn't like it.
Mahek's comparison came as I found her reaction to be genuine among Mauli-Kunal-Ishaan.
That's why I was pissed off that when they are showing an outsider to react like this why can't they show the parents to behave properly?

hey!
na na. its not about u girl
i dont doubt your intensions, but u must have noticed how ishaan is intensionally made a villain, a negative character, grey person, people keep doubting about him.. 😆
like intensionally finding reasons to find faults in him.. he is been acussed of so many things. like so many that i am making a list of it.. sachi!! i never denied his reaction was just underwhelming when it was about mishti wandering on road.. even i also get pissed when they show things related to kids so casually. when pari was allowed to go with mauli ishaan post leap secind episode , i literally made an issue about it. like aise kaise.. 😕😆

I made this statement in general sense. I know you are one of the very few FORUMWASIS who are not biased towards any certain character. But in most of the threads even when it's not required, comparison between Mishti-Pari or Mauli-Nandini or Nandini-Pari etc starts. My point is right now the situation is grave. Here each of the parent has to come forward for the betterment of Pari-Mishti. At this point I prefer not to point at what Kunal did to Mauli pre-leap or draw a comparison between him & Ishaan.
That's what I wanted to say. But I apologize if my statement seemed harsh or out of the line to you. 😊

even i say that unnecessary comparisons are not required.. i try to avoid it ! it creates panic and insecurities. i have said this a few days back if u have read my post.

regarding ishaan and kunal,
i can compare marry ishaan and stay single situation but i dont want to compare kunal with ishaan.. for me there is no comparision!
whether ishaan is there or not, i personally dont want mauli to go for kunal!
for me its not like choose ishaan not kunal, its like dont choose kunal..
i have stated this many times i think!
made a post "maunal as end game" i dont know if u have read that.! but reagrding kunal mauli i m very clear.. if i were some real case , i can not ask any sister/cousin/friend to re marry such guy! never! then i can never imagine mauli getting back to him when she is my favourite..

nahhh baba.. dont apologize!! i am not too touchy about characters if opinions are unbiased.. hurt vurt mat bolo. hehe!! 😆

gud morning 😊

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

@Anahi

Make a post for today's episode
Discuss karna hai bitiya


heheh. 😆

aaj toh acha tha. banau kya post..??
mere post itne khich jate hainn..
poora din yahi chala jata hai !!!
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya


heheh. 😆

aaj toh acha tha. banau kya post..??
mere post itne khich jate hainn..
poora din yahi chala jata hai !!!
😆

Anahi banao post.Din bhar chalta hai chalta rahe mai hun na tumhare saath.😆
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Silpa91

Anahi banao post.Din bhar chalta hai chalta rahe mai hun na tumhare saath. 😆


😆😆
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seriously yaar! then i feel responsible k reply krne hain.. 😆
sbko.. 😆

aa jao ban gYa.
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Posted: 6 years ago


Couldn't agree more. 😊
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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya


hey chick, merry xmas to u too girl.!

yes mauli is lacking parenting skills and i hope they give proper explanation for this.. is it bcz of her shaken confidence that she isnt able to get a grip of things?

regarding kunal , yes he is truly sorry and probably is regretting his decision of leaving mauli.. i guess so. .
i am glad if he actually realises that he was wrong back then but i have no sypmathy for him.. i can only pity him for losing such wonderful wife..
now that kunal is going through bad phase in life he is able to understand mauli's pain .. its not like she didnt cry before , or she didnt accuse herself before for being a bad wife but that time he was thinking about him only..

life is teaching him a good lesson..

and i noticed pari was there when he called..but they didnt make her notice all that which is stupid but again cinematic liberties..



People like Mauli are just like that. They have given all their life, they can't stop giving. And Mishti is considered a part of herself, so Mauli doesn't realise she has a different personality. She doesn't shy away from demanding what she feels is rightfully hers. Mauli would never do that- she had to be drunk to demand Kunal back from Nandini too.

I have a friend like that. She is very very giving and a great multitasker. Her daughter is different from her and she doesn't understand why she is like that. I guess it takes one demanding person to understand another.
Mauli takes liberties with both Mishti and Ishaan. She wouldn't do that to anyone else. She feels both of them can take the hurt just like her. I don't know if this means she loves Ishaan deep down. It is intetesting to watch anyway.

Edited by chicksoup - 6 years ago

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