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Posted: 6 years ago
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So I read lot of bashing abt Mauli showing love towards Pari at pool n ignoring mishti.

I m a mom. If my child had done what mishti did, (bathroom n pool ACCIDENT), I wud feel bad for Pari too. I too would show little love towards that child. Doesn't mean I don't care abt my child! Showing concern to others doesn't mean we don't love our child.

And pool scene was accident but bathroom was not. U expect Mauli to pamper mishti for that? Asking mishti to apologise was wrong? Mishti is going through difficult phase n till that is sorted out, they hv to see that she doesn't harm Pari knowingly or unknowingly. So little sternness was required.

She needs TLC no doubt.. but they actually need to make her understand more abt what's going on.. Make her understand that here Pari is not at all at fault.. Kunal mishti talks are required.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Completely agree with you. I will copy paste my reply on other post here.what people expect mouli to do?
because Mishti is standing there, she should go away from there without any word , without looking at pari , without saying anything to that child whose current condition happened because of her own child Mishti. Why should mouli to be scared of Mishti. ? If something bad happenes to others by us or our child, our first concern Wil be if they r okey or not. Not that what my child think of me. She didn't kiss pari without any reason. Unintentionally hi sahi, her own daughter is responsible for her condition. She can't go away from there neglecting the fact
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Posted: 6 years ago
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what mauli did was right in my opinion..
any other mother would have done the same..
and kissing pari or asking her if she is fine or saying sorry to kunal or even to pari was fine.

mauli is feeling bad for pari who has to bear the brunt of mishti's hatred..

but i think its mauli who needs to talk to mishti.. scolding mishti or telling her that ishaan is not her father is no solution..
tell her that mumma loves mishti the most.. and tell her that no matter what mishti is her priority and even everybody in the house loves mishti.. tell mishti that pari isnt bad..

ahhh. though it looks simple but it isnt..
i dont know if talking can be helpful..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I totally agree with you...i have nothing more to add...👍🏼
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Posted: 6 years ago
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showing love to that other child hurt by mishti in front of mishti n asking her to apologise is not wrong n mishti also would not have felt bad if that child was not pari whom she knows mishti hates n has time n again wanted assurance from her that she don't meet pari n Kunal and the reason also she knows...so mauli could have behaved a bit more sensible, after leaving mishti outside she could have run back n hugged n kissed pari as much as she can n apologized to her on mishti's behalf but what she did was like showing off to mishti how pari is a good girl n she is a bad girl *thats how a child will perceive* she was totally insensitive to how mishti would feel...also she could have avoided confronting her daughter in front of all rather said to meher she will go home n ask her daughter n taken mishti with her n left that place...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

what mauli did was right in my opinion..

any other mother would have done the same..
and kissing pari or asking her if she is fine or saying sorry to kunal or even to pari was fine.

mauli is feeling bad for pari who has to bear the brunt of mishti's hatred..

but i think its mauli who needs to talk to mishti.. scolding mishti or telling her that ishaan is not her father is no solution..
tell her that mumma loves mishti the most.. and tell her that no matter what mishti is her priority and even everybody in the house loves mishti.. tell mishti that pari isnt bad..

ahhh. though it looks simple but it isnt..
i dont know if talking can be helpful..



As of now either Ishaan or Kunal ka talks are needed..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ruhi122



As of now either Ishaan or Kunal ka talks are needed..


ishaan may help her if he is told how she is feeling. but he doesnt know about the recent incidences so i dont know if he will be able to help her right now.

and kunal.. what will he explain her?? 😕 i really dont know.. he has no answers to her innocent questions just like he never had for mauli's questions.. so i dont think he can actually help her by apologizing or by telling her she is equally lovable..

i dont know RU !!
i really dont know how this problem can be tackled..
i always thought a gesture from kunal may lessen her anger but cvs are not interested in any gesture ..
lets see how mishti will find her peace..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mauli was rIght in the pool scene today.But she has to understand mishti what she is feeling.Mishti has to be made feel special that everyone loves her and tell her that kunal didn't leave her and pari is not at fault.It has to be done very carefully with love.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silpa91

Mauli was rIght in the pool scene today.But she has to understand mishti what she is feeling.Mishti has to be made feel special that everyone loves her and tell her that kunal didn't leave her and pari is not at fault.It has to be done very carefully with love.



I think mishti had heard *U didn't want us n now we don't need u* dialogue. Somewhere it's etched on her mind that he didn't want her. They big time need to make her understand. She is too young to even understand full mess but at least know that she is loved by mom, papa, popsie n family..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mauli needs to have communication with her daughter. Not scolding her but sit down and talk to her. Understand the child's pain.

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