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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mumoos


Everyone looks at the physical damage of pari and her mom and are very sympathetic towards them.
What about the emotional turmoil mauli was in the beginning of the revelationand the sameapplies to misthi.. she's hurt so much.. mentally she's going thru so much.. ppl ar just ignoring the child..

I agree with misthi.. iam hating mauli too now..

ignoring the child is wrong. Same way ignoring her wrong doings is also wrong. Mishti ko samjhana is the job of mouli. Mishti is mouli's respsibility. The way she behaves, the way she treats others, if something happens to others by your child is also her responsibility.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty


She knows that Mishti is going through a bad phase, did she try talking to her like a mother?
"Dida Mishti ne ye Kiya" "Ma Mishti ne wo Kiya" "Bataya kyu nahi"

In all this Mauli ne kya kiya?

1 Mauli should have asked Dida and Radhika not to hide things like this from her, she is Mishti's mother
2 She should have spoken to Mishti alone, Mishti is not some 20 years old, she is 6, she is insecure, don't you see she is throwing her to Ishaan? Now she can't even have Ishaan, apparently a child is losing her mother Mauli to Pari, she already lost her father to Pari, now she is losing her Popsie..

What was Dida and Radhika's advice? "Mishti ko kuch Dino ke liye chhod do"
And Mauli agreed

Mishti did that infront of the whole crowd present there. A kid's life was in danger , which is witnessed by everyone. Taking ur own child from there without giving any explanation . How it even possible. Mishti is mouli's respsibility, not kunal's or anyone present there. She is answerable to everything her child does. Because she is the mother. Kissing pari and asking her if she is okey is only thing she can do there. Because damage is already done.
I never supported dida and Dadi hiding the matter from mouli. There too they bend in front of Mishti , as she pleaded to not tell mouli any truth which is wrong.
Edited by greeshma014 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: FruitToasty


She knows that Mishti is going through a bad phase, did she try talking to her like a mother?
"Dida Mishti ne ye Kiya" "Ma Mishti ne wo Kiya" "Bataya kyu nahi"

In all this Mauli ne kya kiya?

1 Mauli should have asked Dida and Radhika not to hide things like this from her, she is Mishti's mother
2 She should have spoken to Mishti alone, Mishti is not some 20 years old, she is 6, she is insecure, don't you see she is throwing her to Ishaan? Now she can't even have Ishaan, apparently a child is losing her mother Mauli to Pari, she already lost her father to Pari, now she is losing her Popsie..

What was Dida and Radhika's advice? "Mishti ko kuch Dino ke liye chhod do"
And Mauli agreed

@bold it's mishti's thinking. But not the truth. That's why it should be changed.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: FruitToasty


She knows that Mishti is going through a bad phase, did she try talking to her like a mother?
"Dida Mishti ne ye Kiya" "Ma Mishti ne wo Kiya" "Bataya kyu nahi"

In all this Mauli ne kya kiya?

1 Mauli should have asked Dida and Radhika not to hide things like this from her, she is Mishti's mother
2 She should have spoken to Mishti alone, Mishti is not some 20 years old, she is 6, she is insecure, don't you see she is throwing her to Ishaan? Now she can't even have Ishaan, apparently a child is losing her mother Mauli to Pari, she already lost her father to Pari, now she is losing her Popsie..

What was Dida and Radhika's advice? "Mishti ko kuch Dino ke liye chhod do"
And Mauli agreed


Completely agree . As a mother she should take a charge of her daughter's actions by asking her why why why beta ??? In place of that,this woman is just interested in mishti ne ye kiya and mishti ne wo kiya ... bataya kyun nahii etc .

Abhi bataya or pata chala to kya ukhad liya mauli ne??? Mauli ki daant se mishti ko pata chala ki uske papa ne usko nai choda tha???? mauli ki daant se mishti ko pari ke liye bad feel hua???? Mauli ki daant se mishti ko apni galti ka ehsaas hua ??? Did she ask mishti WHY ?????? Here every solution is there in asking mishti WHY ?

As a mother before scolding your child at least ask your child did you do this ? if yes than why ?? if you are not finding any logic in your child's answer than you have every right to scolding him/her. What kind of parenting is this where mother is having not that much basic understanding to ask WHY before scolding child.😲
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: greeshma014

@bold it's mishti's thinking. But not the truth. That's why it should be changed.


It must be changed agree but how ??? Mauli ko aj mishti ka behave pata chala to bhi mauli ke actions se kuch result aya ?? Mishti is still not understanding her mistake. Mishti is still hating kunal and pari . Asa nahi karte ,pari ke sath jo kiya wo galat tha ye to sabko pata hai fir bhi mishti ko yahi line bolte hai . why no one is asking mishti WHY MISHTI WHY ???

What a way of parenting where mother is scolding her child without asking/listening/understanding her child's mental psychology .

Agree child is wrong in doing her deeds so mother must scold her but most basic understanding between mother and child is missing because mother is not bothered about asking WHY ?
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@fruity @greeshma

i think both of u are right ..
when fruity is saying that mauli should talk to mishti she is right..
and when greeshma is saying what mauli did by pool's side she is also right..

mauli isnt supposed to leave pari without assuring pari that she isnt hated by mishti or by mauli.. and mauli made sure that mishti appologises bcz today it could be an accident but yesderday's incident was certainly not an accident.. mauli was ashamed of mishti's harkat.. hence the round of daant lagana to mishti..

but when she went home she should have thought more deeply about it.. if they think that mishti has intensionally pushed pari in the pool then its a serious thing. and even if it was an accident , the hatred mishti has for pari and kunal is too much.. mauli should think of something which can lessen this hatred.. this is not good for mishti.

Edited by prettywomaniya - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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This post is more directed at the writer than to character analysis..
I never said that Mauli kissing Pari was wrong, I am saying after going home, Mauli should have shown Mishti the same affection, Mishti is wrong, you don't yell at kids to make them understand that they are wrong. They don't sense your words, they sense your tone, you abuse them with a smile on your face and they will take it as a compliment because they don't understand the meaning of it...

I know Gajra is not giving Mauli these scenes because she is adamant on making Kunal, Kal Ho Na Ho ka Aman Mathur, remember when everything was going wrong in Naina's life, Naina's mom wishes for an angel, apparently Kunal is that angel, abhi we are all talking about Mishti's bad behavior by end of Christmas track, Mishti and Pari will be best of friends thanks to Kunal the God...

I would reiterate that I don't have a problem with Kunal starting his own religion and crusading to gain followers, Gajra will be the first one to join, I just want something for Mauli... Something
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Fruity ji, I like the sarcasm you throw at Kunal while describing him 😆.
And I agree, Mauli is really getting disappointing. I totally get her initial reaction. She is bound to get angry at Mishti and she has every right to get mad at her when she gets to know what Mishti has been up to off late. But once you are home, how can you let go of the matter? Leaving the entire world aside she has to sit with her daughter and TALK!! It is high time Mauli talks to Mishti of what is bothering her so much and why is she behaving the way she's been off late. A child who was so kind and helpful, suddenly starts being this rude and starts hating on another kid, there has been a sea of a difference in Mishti's recent behavior.. doesn't it ring any bell in Mauli's head?
Edited by sancheeta - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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fruittoasty u have written exactly what the writers are upto in pw's topic...soon they will show how ishaan was the one who manipulated mishti to hate Kunal n pari due to his insecurities of losing mauli to Kunal n they will also turn him to an obsessive lover...they showed mauli as incompetent mother to whitewash kunal, now they will put all the blame of mishti's changed behavior on ishaan to justify mauli was never wrong...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@Reshami SBRK, these days reminds me of that movie by Ram Rahim guy titled "MSG", it's all Jai Jai Kunal
@Sancheeta Yes, they can give scenes with Mauli and Mishti but they won't because if Mishti bonds with Mauli or Mauli does anything good for her then how will Kunal become Mauli's angel?

@Jaz Kunal's jahar wali line made me think there's more to Mishti's reaction and believe it or not, it does make sense that the child was manipulated, otherwise kids don't generally react like this, her hatred was directed towards Pari

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