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Posted: 6 years ago
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Her not being able to move on is understandable! I hope she would though and she shouldn't let Kunal affect her in anyway because he's been nothing but a jerk!!!
What irks me the most is that how is Kunal so stupid to not figure out that Mishti is his daughter???? It's so obvious!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yezabel


Of course she can continue to have contact with her in laws. I mean Mishti should see her grandmothers but Mauli cant move on if she still lives with this people in same house where Kunal was living b4. You cant change your life when you dont change your surroundings.

Lol, Yezabel. I see you have never been brokenhearted girl😊😊 It's called the 6 month no contact rule. Supposedly in order to get over an ex you need at least 6 months of no contact with him/her. No phone calls, no texting, no visits, nothing. It's like boot camp for the brokenhearted. Don't know if it works but it is basically number one advice given here...
But yes, the children do complicate things. But Mauli has had 6 years--that's why I am so mad that she is being written as confused? I don't know what to make of her reactions...I sure hope the writers don't ruin her character though
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anahi

wont talk about kunal's falling for nandini. that was a crap.. and has no reasons at all..

moving on to mauli.. here my reply to some othwr post.

its common and very natural to get envious/jealous/hurt when u see your ex living a happy life and u urself are stuck into old memories and past and bitterness..
mauli could have moved on in 6 years. its a long time. but she couldnt.. she has different reasons for not moving on with other guy.. she is clearly afraid.. not that she still loves kunal.. but what so ever is the reason. the fact is that she has moved on.. and this is killing her..
hence she is giving herself an opportunity to move on..

do you think ishaan will not wonder why she has agreed for marriage.?? how come she suddendly has started loving me? does she love me?? he will ask all this to her..
so i think tomorrow will be the answers to all these quwstions..

and i think trust should be there in a relationship.. love marriage or arrange.. i personally think its fine if she doesnt love him but is okay to give them a chance..


coming back to this post..
mauli isnt immature but yes she is being impulsive here..
abiut women not able to move on easily.. well i think its a fact.. isnt it??? we women take much much more time to move on compared to guys.. i blame hormones..
we are emotional fools..

also mauli would have probably moved on if her husband was a terrible husband from the begining. but no. he was a different person until nandini hapoened to him.. if kunal can change then how can mauli be sure of any other man .. hence she is unable to move on


I do understand and agree that women we invest more emotions with out dear ones compared to fickle minded men in common.
But my issue is the fact that the writers are still showing Kunal right and more clear than Mauli is. Even the part where Mishti calls her a bad mom and Pari being happy with a perfect all rounder father.

This all makes Kunan justified and mauli with most flaws which is bothering... .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yezabel

I'll tell you why: Mauli cant move on cause she still lives with her in laws, Mauli cant move on cause she still lives in same house, Mauli cant move on cause she is still stuck on her life and memories with Kunal.

I honestly don't think it's a problem . Even Kunal was still with his wife and family when he fell for N... Why it never bothered him but only Mauli... Its the writing in pissed about.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

moving on is not due to people surrounded you...its u who wants to move on...so what if mauli leave Malhotra house and folks...by leaving the house is not the solution...mauli can only move on if she gives a closure to her past and ready to move on...she is not in the state of mind becos she is sticking to the past...she still holding on to the past...she still has feelings for the past...kunal was not a abusive hubby...he was a good hubby to her...whom loved her...he was perfect in all aspect till nandini happened...she still want an answer for that question 'what lacks in her...in their relationship that he falls in love with nandini'...she still has no answer to it...everyone wants her to move on...think abt the women...its not easy to just jump to one man to another...its clearly shown she is not in love with ishaan...her feelings that deals with marriage n love has died...she is only living for mishti...whatever decision she takes its for mishti..

like i say...only mauli can help herself otherwise there is no moving on...kunal still affects her big time thus this is the reason why she agree for marriage...ishaan is not her love but choice...if to love him she needs to help herself...furthermore she doesn't know that nandini is not alive and kunal is alone all these years...

coming to kunal...[BB]wha u guys expect from him...now that he is happy for mauli everyone is not happy...if he gets jealous for mauli everyone is still not happy...[/B]yes he does deserve all the hatred...but observing his small little things...than spew venom is highly hilarious...kunal may be a jerk to mishti before but he is definitely a good father to pari...their bond says it all...being a pediatrician...he is genuine to all the kids including mishti...lets not take it away from him...he is a creep but in certain issues he is still a human...i hate him but somewhere post-leap i like his qualities being a father and now i could see a guilt on his face for hurting mauli...want to see full suffering kunal that will only happen when he will know abt his daughter mishti and what a jerk he is

as for ishaan...whatever mauli is doing wrong...its an hasty decision and i am still waiting for his backstory...i hope he remains the same even after his marriage with mauli...sorry i don't trust men of silsila neither kunal nor ishaan...achche ka naqab pehnke rakhte hai...

coming to mishti...more than pari...mishti is damsel in distress no matter how much mauli wants to make her stay away from her real father in the end mauli has to come back to him only becos this little girl is so careless and soon medical emergency is on the way and i guess thats how kunal will know mishti is his daughter...this mishaps are signs of the future...brace yourself...electric shock...nearly fatal accident it spells the future...

well for the ending...its an open ending

1)kunal gives closure to the past...mauli marry ishaan and move on with ishaan n mishti...permission though granted to kunal to meet his daughter though mishti will be legally belong to ishaan

2)Maunal falls in love all over again and their kids plays the cupid

3)Maunal stays single and do co-parenting while ishaan is a supporting friend

4)Maunal falls in love with each other all over again but mauli is still loyal and faithful to ishaan and marry him...

all 4 options are valid...


No I don't think I spewed venom here in this topic .I just hated the way they're showing him more mature and Mauli still held up in the past... That's all to it . Kunal as a character I hate him no doubt, but right now it's the way the difference is shown between K and M as parents and the difference in their maturity which is annoying . Wish they show Mauli being more headtsrong
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: anmirza

Her not being able to move on is understandable! I hope she would though and she shouldn't let Kunal affect her in anyway because he's been nothing but a jerk!!!
What irks me the most is that how is Kunal so stupid to not figure out that Mishti is his daughter???? It's so obvious!

Its understandable definitely. But want it to happen bad .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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What exactly will give mauli a closure ? To kunal, to her marriage and past ? I agree , nobody can help her but mauli herself..she will have to come out of it . Cvs should have shown a mature mauli who moves on ..love alone is not imp, if she trusts ishan enough , if she respects him , if she considers him as a good parent for mishti , she must marry him happily leaving the baggage behind . He loves her and mishti , isnt that enough ? Mauli still stuck to the past , and still not being able to hate kunal is very unrealistic . All these years and before parting, she couldnt come to terms with a simple reality that kunal does NOT love hrr , he loves nandini? And why would anyone cling to the memories of this person who betrayed you , hurt you, refused to acknowledgw the existence of your unborn child ? ITNa bhi pyaar n feelings nahi hote kisi ke liye .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Mauli will not move on until and unless she gets rid of all the memories attached with Kunal. What was the need to stay in Kunal's house after the divorce? Staying with Kunal's mom and Dida will constantly remind her of Kunal. Even Mishty will remind her of Kunal. That's why I said that Mauli should give her child to Kunal and Nandini, and move back to her mom and dad's house. She needs to start a fresh new life if she wants to move on. Mauli fans laughed at me and called me a troll when I I said this, but now they are agreeing with me.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv_PaRiAnSh


No I don't think I spewed venom here in this topic .I just hated the way they're showing him more mature and Mauli still held up in the past... That's all to it . Kunal as a character I hate him no doubt, but right now it's the way the difference is shown between K and M as parents and the difference in their maturity which is annoying . Wish they show Mauli being more headtsrong


well post-leap certain things i find it logical...
kunal is definitely mature...though he is a jerk in all sense...pari's responsibilities has definitely made him mature so does loneliness...which is totally logical...i am liking this mature kunal though i cannot forgive him for pre-leap but responsibility...loneliness has mature him

coming to mauli...all her emotions are logical...6 yrs is long time...but sometimes 6 yrs is not enough to heal a brutal scar and all her emotions throughout is so realistic...its not easy to move on after giving your heart and soul to your marriage...jumping from one man to another...mauli will take time to consider ishaan
Edited by Mages - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: pamk06


@bold: Exactly, that is the reason why she has not moved on. She was genuinely in love with Kunal whereas Kunal was in love with the idea of love (not my idea, this is what makers have implied). So, like Kunal is still stuck on Nandini even though she has died, Mauli is still stuck on Kunal because in both cases, it was genuine love from their side (as per the makers). I think they both are totally in character here. Mauli is impulsive because she is jealous/hurt that Kunal has led a happy life whereas she is still stuck in the past where he left her. Moving on for a person who is betrayed is very difficult as there are huge trust issues and if your feelings are as strong as Mauli had for Kunal then it becomes even more difficult.


I am really not sure if she genuinely feels for Ishaan here or she wants what she thinks Kunal has, a happy married life and hence is making her decision but if I was Ishaan, i would definitely question this sudden change of heart, like Radhika is questioning. I think when she knows about Nandini, her feelings for Ishaan will become more clearer.

As per what they are showing, Kunal's repentance is him living his life alone without his love which he is currently doing. I don't know if there is any bigger punishment than that.






RED -- ditto!!.. i can feel mauli.. she has loved him deeply and he was too very much in love with her. if I were mauli i would have cried buckets seeing kunal living a happy life and realising the fact that shit! i am still stuck in my past.. it a very pitiful condition.. and self pity is something that is killing a confident woman like mauli..

BLUE -- and i am sure that mauli still doesnt have the answers what made kunal leave her and go to nandini.. its a weird shock that she got from her people.. subconsciously, she is still not over with those questions that why and how he left her..
she trusts ishaan , may be she has decided to marry him someday as ishaan has said in recent episode "main tumhe dekh nhi sakta? tum meri hone wali patni ho" mauli wasnt shocked or surprised, a little hesitant though.. so i think ishaan is waiting for her yes only..
he should enquire about this yes..

GREEN -- yes this is the biggest punishment he got.. and now he has to see his daughter craving for mother's love family love..
i hope he plays some role uniting ishaan and mauli.. but i certainly doesnt want him giving reasons for his affair in this process like "pyaar kahi bhi kabhi bhi ho jata hai.. juzzbaat to juzzbaat hote hain. apne juzzbaat ko mat roko.." lol..

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