Is it wrong to expect Kunal to repent and Mauli to forget and move on

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Posted: 6 years ago
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So watched today's episode to see how the equation is between Ishaan and Mauli and if Mauli is really clinging with him to make K jealous, I didn't feel that way personally though .
But she does want to move on and be happier in her life as she thinks Kunal is very happy... Still what makes it so annoying and intolerable is the fact that Kunal was shown to be not at all bothered when he fell for N, but here even after a big betrayal Mauli isn't able to get over him and move on 🥱
And to top it all, K is shown to be mature and happy for Mauli and only Mauli is taking decision in haste and maybe hurt Ishan in the process coz of her feelings for Kunal

My problem is, if K can fall so hard for N, in spite of nabinh a good caring wife, still he didn't bother anything, why can't Mauli move on? When she never got a great husband in the first place?? Is moving on only reserved for men? Why this gender bias? This current scenario doesn't give good vibes. They seem to be making Mauli impulsive and Kunal more clearer... Hating it. So K was never wrong neither will he be wrong in future are well. Awesome .

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Posted: 6 years ago
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yes, thank you for this post! I was thinking the same thing. Why is it so hard for the writers to show Mauli has moved on? It happens all the time! Yes, I know the betrayal is great; however, there are so many instances where the betrayed has moved on, has a new life and is happy.
I feel it's once again the writers propping up the divine couple; apparently once someone falls for one of them, they are incapable of stopping. We saw Nandani get over Rajdeep but supposedly Rajdeep was willing to take her back even though she was with another man😡 Now apparently, kunnu babbu is so unforgettable, that Mauli is incapable of moving on even though she has a great guy. It's so ridiculous because it doesn't happen so in real life.
Yes, it is understandable if Kunal's unexpected appearance stirs unexpected emotions in Mauli--anxiety, anger, fear about Mishti's paternity being exposed. I get all of this. Actually, I had thought the writers would go the custody battle route but here we are: it seems she may have feelings for this man who treated her less than dirt?😡😡
No, no, No!! Kunal the great; he's so evolved. So at peace with himself. So unaffected by Mauli. Everyone else he misses but not Mauli. Never thinks of her. Has not one memory of her he remembers But Mauli still pining..

If the writers can write the divine couple moving on, why not Mauli? Which woman can truly love a man like Kunal after how he has wounded her? Not possible.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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i also same feeling that before why didn't mauli know that kunal has moved completely in another life..why cv is bringing this story for now...she doesn't remember that as same kunal broke all realtionship with her for nandini..why mauli can't move it..why would she wait untll kunal come back in hee life??😔

but i would like to see that mauli should not express her single mom secret..untl marriage finsihing with ishan..afterthat kunal will think that mauli is still thinking and living for him..i don't like to see mauli 's truth come out...cv should stopped this way but i would see that ...kunal should know that mishti is his daughter.but mishti shouldn't know that kunal is real father..that would be punishment of kunal's life ..own daughter doesn't call as fater in life long 😛
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Posted: 6 years ago
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wont talk about kunal's falling for nandini. that was a crap.. and has no reasons at all..
moving on to mauli.. here my reply to some othwr post.

its common and very natural to get envious/jealous/hurt when u see your ex living a happy life and u urself are stuck into old memories and past and bitterness..
mauli could have moved on in 6 years. its a long time. but she couldnt.. she has different reasons for not moving on with other guy.. she is clearly afraid.. not that she still loves kunal.. but what so ever is the reason. the fact is that she has moved on.. and this is killing her..
hence she is giving herself an opportunity to move on..

do you think ishaan will not wonder why she has agreed for marriage.?? how come she suddendly has started loving me? does she love me?? he will ask all this to her..
so i think tomorrow will be the answers to all these quwstions..

and i think trust should be there in a relationship.. love marriage or arrange.. i personally think its fine if she doesnt love him but is okay to give them a chance..


coming back to this post..
mauli isnt immature but yes she is being impulsive here..
abiut women not able to move on easily.. well i think its a fact.. isnt it??? we women take much much more time to move on compared to guys.. i blame hormones..
we are emotional fools..

also mauli would have probably moved on if her husband was a terrible husband from the begining. but no. he was a different person until nandini hapoened to him.. if kunal can change then how can mauli be sure of any other man .. hence she is unable to move on
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I'll tell you why: Mauli cant move on cause she still lives with her in laws, Mauli cant move on cause she still lives in same house, Mauli cant move on cause she is still stuck on her life and memories with Kunal.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yezabel

I'll tell you why: Mauli cant move on cause she still lives with her in laws, Mauli cant move on cause she still lives in same house, Mauli cant move on cause she is still stuck on her life and memories with Kunal.


I think you may be right. She needs to move away from his family and she lives in the same house with all those memories haunting her. I think the advice is to have no contact. At least for 6 months so you can heal. I think if Mauli moved perhaps it will be easier.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: kiransgirl


I think you may be right. She needs to move away from his family and she lives in the same house with all those memories haunting her. I think the advice is to have no contact. At least for 6 months so you can heal. I think if Mauli moved perhaps it will be easier.


Of course she can continue to have contact with her in laws. I mean Mishti should see her grandmothers but Mauli cant move on if she still lives with this people in same house where Kunal was living b4. You cant change your life when you dont change your surroundings.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anahi

wont talk about kunal's falling for nandini. that was a crap.. and has no reasons at all..

moving on to mauli.. here my reply to some othwr post.

its common and very natural to get envious/jealous/hurt when u see your ex living a happy life and u urself are stuck into old memories and past and bitterness..
mauli could have moved on in 6 years. its a long time. but she couldnt.. she has different reasons for not moving on with other guy.. she is clearly afraid.. not that she still loves kunal.. but what so ever is the reason. the fact is that she has moved on.. and this is killing her..
hence she is giving herself an opportunity to move on..

do you think ishaan will not wonder why she has agreed for marriage.?? how come she suddendly has started loving me? does she love me?? he will ask all this to her..
so i think tomorrow will be the answers to all these quwstions..

and i think trust should be there in a relationship.. love marriage or arrange.. i personally think its fine if she doesnt love him but is okay to give them a chance..


coming back to this post..
mauli isnt immature but yes she is being impulsive here..
abiut women not able to move on easily.. well i think its a fact.. isnt it??? we women take much much more time to move on compared to guys.. i blame hormones..
we are emotional fools..

also mauli would have probably moved on if her husband was a terrible husband from the begining. but no. he was a different person until nandini hapoened to him.. if kunal can change then how can mauli be sure of any other man .. hence she is unable to move on


@bold: Exactly, that is the reason why she has not moved on. She was genuinely in love with Kunal whereas Kunal was in love with the idea of love (not my idea, this is what makers have implied). So, like Kunal is still stuck on Nandini even though she has died, Mauli is still stuck on Kunal because in both cases, it was genuine love from their side (as per the makers). I think they both are totally in character here. Mauli is impulsive because she is jealous/hurt that Kunal has led a happy life whereas she is still stuck in the past where he left her. Moving on for a person who is betrayed is very difficult as there are huge trust issues and if your feelings are as strong as Mauli had for Kunal then it becomes even more difficult.


I am really not sure if she genuinely feels for Ishaan here or she wants what she thinks Kunal has, a happy married life and hence is making her decision but if I was Ishaan, i would definitely question this sudden change of heart, like Radhika is questioning. I think when she knows about Nandini, her feelings for Ishaan will become more clearer.

As per what they are showing, Kunal's repentance is him living his life alone without his love which he is currently doing. I don't know if there is any bigger punishment than that.





Edited by pamk06 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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moving on is not due to people surrounded you...its u who wants to move on...so what if mauli leave Malhotra house and folks...by leaving the house is not the solution...mauli can only move on if she gives a closure to her past and ready to move on...she is not in the state of mind becos she is sticking to the past...she still holding on to the past...she still has feelings for the past...kunal was not a abusive hubby...he was a good hubby to her...whom loved her...he was perfect in all aspect till nandini happened...she still want an answer for that question 'what lacks in her...in their relationship that he falls in love with nandini'...she still has no answer to it...everyone wants her to move on...think abt the women...its not easy to just jump to one man to another...its clearly shown she is not in love with ishaan...her feelings that deals with marriage n love has died...she is only living for mishti...whatever decision she takes its for mishti..
like i say...only mauli can help herself otherwise there is no moving on...kunal still affects her big time thus this is the reason why she agree for marriage...ishaan is not her love but choice...if to love him she needs to help herself...furthermore she doesn't know that nandini is not alive and kunal is alone all these years...

coming to kunal...what u guys expect from him...now that he is happy for mauli everyone is not happy...if he gets jealous for mauli everyone is still not happy...yes he does deserve all the hatred...but observing his small little things...than spew venom is highly hilarious...kunal may be a jerk to mishti before but he is definitely a good father to pari...their bond says it all...being a pediatrician...he is genuine to all the kids including mishti...lets not take it away from him...he is a creep but in certain issues he is still a human...i hate him but somewhere post-leap i like his qualities being a father and now i could see a guilt on his face for hurting mauli...want to see full suffering kunal that will only happen when he will know abt his daughter mishti and what a jerk he is

as for ishaan...whatever mauli is doing wrong...its an hasty decision and i am still waiting for his backstory...i hope he remains the same even after his marriage with mauli...sorry i don't trust men of silsila neither kunal nor ishaan...achche ka naqab pehnke rakhte hai...

coming to mishti...more than pari...mishti is damsel in distress no matter how much mauli wants to make her stay away from her real father in the end mauli has to come back to him only becos this little girl is so careless and soon medical emergency is on the way and i guess thats how kunal will know mishti is his daughter...this mishaps are signs of the future...brace yourself...electric shock...nearly fatal accident it spells the future...

well for the ending...its an open ending

1)kunal gives closure to the past...mauli marry ishaan and move on with ishaan n mishti...permission though granted to kunal to meet his daughter though mishti will be legally belong to ishaan

2)Maunal falls in love all over again and their kids plays the cupid

3)Maunal stays single and do co-parenting while ishaan is a supporting friend

4)Maunal falls in love with each other all over again but mauli is still loyal and faithful to ishaan and marry him...

all 4 options are valid...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: kiransgirl

yes, thank you for this post! I was thinking the same thing. Why is it so hard for the writers to show Mauli has moved on? It happens all the time! Yes, I know the betrayal is great; however, there are so many instances where the betrayed has moved on, has a new life and is happy.
I feel it's once again the writers propping up the divine couple; apparently once someone falls for one of them, they are incapable of stopping. We saw Nandani get over Rajdeep but supposedly Rajdeep was willing to take her back even though she was with another man 😡 Now apparently, kunnu babbu is so unforgettable, that Mauli is incapable of moving on even though she has a great guy. It's so ridiculous because it doesn't happen so in real life.
Yes, it is understandable if Kunal's unexpected appearance stirs unexpected emotions in Mauli--anxiety, anger, fear about Mishti's paternity being exposed. I get all of this. Actually, I had thought the writers would go the custody battle route but here we are: it seems she may have feelings for this man who treated her less than dirt?😡😡
No, no, No!! Kunal the great; he's so evolved. So at peace with himself. So unaffected by Mauli. Everyone else he misses but not Mauli. Never thinks of her. Has not one memory of her he remembers But Mauli still pining..

If the writers can write the divine couple moving on, why not Mauli? Which woman can truly love a man like Kunal after how he has wounded her? Not possible.

Agree with each and every word with your post.. Bold @And this is exactly my problem too.. At least they showed Anandi had moved on when she got a good guy and Jagya truly repenting his deed.


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