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Posted: 6 years ago
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Okay, so some people even have problems with gay marriage on this forum. Why am I not surprised? And then they complain if anyone calls them 'regressive'.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: krystal_watz


No it doesn't. Many couples are in an open relationship and even hold orgies at their farmhouses. If consenting adults are involved, then it's perfectly fine.


yuck...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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It may be 'yuck' to most people, but some love it. I personally wouldn't indulge in it, but won't judge someone who does. It's their choice.
As long as it doesn't hurt anyone, it's fine.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: krystal_watz

It may be 'yuck' to most people, but some love it. I personally wouldn't indulge in it, but won't judge someone who does. It's their choice.

As long as it doesn't hurt anyone, it's fine.


Don't care about these people. They are living in medieval age.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luna46


Don't care about these people. They are living in medieval age.


Yeh thanks.i love my thinking
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Posted: 6 years ago
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People love BDSM and variety in sex, just like people are in open relationships. As long as it is between consenting partners/adults and not hurting anyone mentally, emotionally and physically. What on earth is the problem with that? I am totally against force against anyone in such things but I am no one to judge if their is actual consent involved.
EMA is wrong here because these two went behind the wife's back and did not have audacity to tell her the truth. Cheating is wrong because there is absence of consent while open relationships have consent of both partners involved.
Just like how rape is gross because it lacks consent and consensual sex act is not.

Mauli-Ishaan are living together with consent and not forcefully, their families know and they are not doing anything illegal, it's not any sort of civil or criminal offence as per Indian laws (adultery is still a civil offence). It's not like their living together is hurting anyone in this context on any level. Even the oldies are fine here.

If live-in isn't progressive, then it is not regressive either. Marriage can fail all the time just like live-ins can fail too. Marriage certainly is not guarantee of a successful relationship for life.

Wife swapping is between the couples. If there is consent, outside judgement doesn't matter. If there is no consent, then it comes under criminal offence. Indian laws don't even punish sexual act between consenting adults even when it is frowned upon and is rejected.

Accepting certain things or rejecting them don't make people progressive or regressive all the time. There was a time when relationship before marriage was a huge taboo and so frowned upon and now society has come to accept that. Girls wearing jeans were demonized, girls with opinions and a voice were shamed. And back then people used to mock that too on the same lines. Even divorce has beena taboo here for a long time, no matter how terrible marriage would have been.

And homosexuality and LGBT is not about progressive, it is about including and accepting people with differences in the mainstream society. They are not harming heterosexuals with their act since heterosexuals are always going to be in the majority.
People don't want to get married or have babies due to various reasons, is it progressive or regressive, NO, it's about accepting people's choices about their life rather than forcing things on them against their wish and it's fine as long as no one is getting hurt in this process for the life time. Evrything is in grey area, even the concept of regressive and progressive in the society.

I may not do a lot of things here- agree to pre-marital sex or short-term time ass relationships or even One nigh stands and a lot of other things but I will hate to be judged for that on these lines just like how they too will hate to be judged.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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swapping partners and threesome ...means really.Means anything in the name of being progressive.Kuch bhi haa.They are just perverts.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

People love BDSM and variety in sex, just like people are in open relationships. As long as it is between consenting partners/adults and not hurting anyone mentally, emotionally and physically. What on earth is the problem with that? I am totally against force against anyone in such things but I am no one to judge if their is actual consent involved.

EMA is wrong here because these two went behind the wife's back and did not have audacity to tell her the truth. Cheating is wrong because there is absence of consent while open relationships have consent of both partners involved.
Just like how rape is gross because it lacks consent and consensual sex act is not.

Mauli-Ishaan are living together with consent and not forcefully, their families know and they are not doing anything illegal, it's not any sort of civil or criminal offence as per Indian laws (adultery is still a civil offence). It's not like their living together is hurting anyone in this context on any level. Even the oldies are fine here.

If live-in isn't progressive, then it is not regressive either. Marriage can fail all the time just like live-ins can fail too. Marriage certainly is not guarantee of a successful relationship for life.

Wife swapping is between the couples. If there is consent, outside judgement doesn't matter. If there is no consent, then it comes under criminal offence. Indian laws don't even punish sexual act between consenting adults even when it is frowned upon and is rejected.

Accepting certain things or rejecting them don't make people progressive or regressive all the time. There was a time when relationship before marriage was a huge taboo and so frowned upon and now society has come to accept that. Girls wearing jeans were demonized, girls with opinions and a voice were shamed. And back then people used to mock that too on the same lines. Even divorce has beena taboo here for a long time, no matter how terrible marriage would have been.

And homosexuality and LGBT is not about progressive, it is about including and accepting people with differences in the mainstream society. They are not harming heterosexuals with their act since heterosexuals are always going to be in the majority.
People don't want to get married or have babies due to various reasons, is it progressive or regressive, NO, it's about accepting people's choices about their life rather than forcing things on them against their wish and it's fine as long as no one is getting hurt in this process for the life time. Evrything is in grey area, even the concept of regressive and progressive in the society.

I may not do a lot of things here- agree to pre-marital sex or short-term time ass relationships or even One nigh stands and a lot of other things but I will hate to be judged for that on these lines just like how they too will hate to be judged.



Well said.. 👏

The only thing that decides its right or wrong is the consent of the involved parties.. People can do anything they want in their bedroom as long as it doesn't hurt anyone..

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Posted: 6 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

It may be 'yuck' to most people, but some love it. I personally wouldn't indulge in it, but won't judge someone who does. It's their choice.

As long as it doesn't hurt anyone, it's fine.


Those kind of people only turn to rape of peope,children and sometimes their own children.🤢
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

swapping partners and threesome ...means really.Means anything in the name of being progressive.Kuch bhi haa.They are just perverts.


It's not about being progressive. It's more about having variety in sex, people look for. This existed back then & it exists even now. Even ancient Indian building have sculptures of threesome & homosexual activity. And it was back some 1000-1500 years ago. Well in that case, they were far more regressive back in time & we happen to have lived in relatively better times till now where homosexuality is illegal in a lot of countries & a lot of sexual conducts are frowned upon.

There were things that were considered open back in times but are considered regressive now. Sex was a very open topic back then & it's now it's so frowned upon in this country with world's highest population after China.

Not everyone is doing that & they are not asking everyone to do that & saying that they are so progressive because they are involved in some twisted things. People enjoy BDSM even when I find it weird but people enjoy it & do it with consent. And it's not called progressive by them & they don't ridicule people who find it weird too saying that other person is regressive for questioning them.

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