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Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Cinnamonn


@luna

Intimacy is a physical form of love. But you don't fall with your body. You fall with your heart. If Kunal wanted to know if his mistress was love, he'd know through his heart, his feelings. He'd know.

If he wanted to be with Nandini, all he had to do was end his relationship with Mauli. He had an affair instead. He slept with her best friend and that's disgusting and spineless. So no, that's not okay. And that's not how you judge and define love.

If he wanted to just test the so called sex thing then he wants nothing but physical relations. And he's just a dick who just wants sex.

What I learned with my western mindset is that if a man loves you, he'd express it, show it in little sentimental gestures, you'd see it in his eyes not have sex to see if I'm the one. Only little boys in men bodies have those thoughts. True men looks for a woman who knows how to handle her shit.



Sex is important in a relationship my dear. You can't know that the love you have for a person is romantic or platonic until you have sex with him or her. Human beings are human beings. They are not Gods, who will always understand their complex emotions or feelings.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Luna46



Sex is important in a relationship my dear. You can't know that the love you have for a person is romantic or platonic until you have sex with him or her. Human beings are human beings. They are not Gods, who will always understand their complex emotions or feelings.



Sex is also something people have just for fun. So if I like a married I have to sleep with him to know if I love him? Is that what you're saying? So you as a woman, saying that kunal is right to have sex with another woman besides his wife? No, humans are not gods, but I think they have a brain to differentiate love from like from fondness to hatred. I guess you have to sleep with someone to know if you hate them or not too right?
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Posted: 6 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: Luna46


Kunal before falling in love with Nandini never realized that he doesn't love Mauli. He might be having a satisfied married life with Mauli, but he never actually loved her but wasn't sute about that. Only after sleeping with Nandini, he realized that he doesn't love Mauli, he loves Nandini. Kunal isn't a bad guy. He was just confused.

That is makers take initially that Kunal never loved Mauli. With Mauli he has idea of love bit Nandini he actually fall in love but unfortunately nothing like that executed on screen. The Nandini Kunal connection never felt there is no depth and cvs can't blame the audience regressive. In Hasreitein we feel sexual tension, fulfillment and love of KT and Savi while sympathizing his wife.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: poiu123

Which show are u watching? Kunal confessed his love before sleeping with Nandini. @Luna u have ur facts incorrect. Ur theory is just ur theory, it's not applicable for Kunal at least.

Kunal confessed his love to Nandini and stop her from leaving. If he was checking its love or infatuation by sleeping with her than it makes him complete as****e.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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The problem is breaking the trust of other person.

When you are married you promise the other person to be with them.If Kunal was not happy he should have asked for divorce first.Then he could have had sex with anybody he wants.

Dont be atleast dishonest to other person.

You dont want a relationship then just clear it to other person.

But I guess for you words like trust,honesty, doesnt matter.For most of the people it does.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luna46


I think people's main complaint with Kunan's affair is that they directly jumped into bed. But what if they were checking their sexual compatibility? What if they wanted to know that are they really in love or it's just infatuation? Don't say that they could've done that even without having sleeping together. Humans are complicated beings and so are their emotions. I don't see any wrong in having sex if you are in a relationship, as it's important to take it forward. Let's say that Kunal and Nandini didn't have sex, Kunal had directly told Mauli about their love, took the divorce and married Nandini. But what if he had later got to know that he wasn't really in love with Nandini and got bored of her. What he would've done? Kunal just didn't want to take risk.

forget about physical relationship if he and Nandini has emotional affair and they can't survive without each other than his relationship with Mauli already ended. When he proposed Nandini he broke all vows to Mauli so there is no point of continuing the marriage. He should have taken divorce immediately. If he got bored from Nandini he can divorced her too and search for his soulmates people find their soulmates after failure of more than one relationship eg. Sanjay Dutt. Problem with Kunal is he wants best of all world without considering others interest.
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